Some psychological phenomena are very magical and have been discovered many times in practice. However, psychology can only make some guesses about some phenomena so far.

Men are more likely to act coquettishly than women at home.

Men are even more likely to spoil their wives at home, according to a survey. Men always play a strong role and are under great psychological pressure. But in essence, men and women alike have a weak side.

Psychologists believe that career is often a man’s capital for acting coquettishly. They have a sense of loss, and the fear of impending death gradually escalates into anxiety, leading to endocrine disorders. At this time they are like children, letting the woman understand his difficulties.

The "master" of lies has a "strange" brain

Adrian Lane, a psychologist at the University of Southern California, said, "The structure of some people's brains makes them stronger than ordinary people." Better at lying. These people are better at weighing and calculating things related to lying.”

Liars’ prefrontal cortexes are rich in white matter, according to Ryan’s findings. White matter is a white nervous tissue. When you lie, these tissues are very active, while another type of substance, gray matter, is used in relatively little of the brain to lie. Too much white matter and too little gray matter can make some people good liars. This is the first time scientists have found biological differences between habitual liars and the average person.

Love can be found with your nose.

According to a new study, there are two steps to choosing a partner. The first step is to select people with similar facial features, and the second and most important step is to filter out people with different smells. Therefore, scientists believe that beauty is not only in the eye of the beholder, but the nose can also help you find the "lover" in your heart.

The research was led by Craig Roberts of the University of Liverpool in the UK. The researchers recruited 92 female volunteers and 75 male volunteers. The researchers then asked female volunteers to smell the clothes of several male volunteers and pick out the scent they liked the most. The results showed that women were willing to choose men who smelled different from themselves.

Craig Roberts and his colleagues believe that smell differences could essentially eliminate the danger of inbreeding and have eugenic benefits.

Eat more bananas when you are in a bad mood.

German nutritional psychologists have discovered that happy emotions are related to a substance called 5-hydroxytryptamine in the brain, and bananas contain this substance, which can help the brain produce serotonin. This substance not only makes people feel happy and peaceful, but also relieves pain and greatly reduces hormones that cause people to feel bad.

Therefore, patients with manic depression and other people in a bad mood should eat more bananas so that the brain can produce enough 5-hydroxytryptamine, thereby reducing the degree of pessimism and depression, and even making the bad mood disappear naturally.

Flattery has become the new business

Heartfelt and appropriate compliments to others are like the beautiful voice in heaven, so sweet. On a busy street in Tokyo, 25-year-old Yuki Koyama and 23-year-old Kenji Mizuno Ayaka unpack their tools: a large notice, a bright red sweatshirt and a cheeky face. Xiaoshan asked everyone: "Have you been flattered recently?" Mizuno Ayaka then said: "Feel your hidden charm and indulge yourself."

A female student named Lin walked over quietly and claimed to give it a try. Koyama and Mizuno Ayaka immediately get into character, comparing Taeko to a famous Japanese rock star, praising her exceptional fashion sense and telling her she's charming. One of them asked: "Your eyes are as beautiful as diamonds. How many carats are they?"

The two young men, Mizuno Ayaka Koyama, responded quickly, with a well-placed compliment, a little sarcasm or Wise words and a lot of compliments soon attracted a group of people, so they established a "Flattery Company" and launched first-class compliment talents, and the business was extremely booming.

Parents are facing a credit crisis

A "Parent-Child Survey" shows that more than 80% of parents believe that they are trustworthy to their children; and more than 95% of children believe that their parents often Failure to fulfill promises. Experts believe that if parents often fail to keep their promises, children will feel that they are not accepted by their parents and lack enough trust in their parents, which will naturally reduce their desire to communicate. This is also one of the main reasons for family problems.

Calling your wife ugly is also domestic violence.

In the UK, domestic violence cases account for approximately 1/4 of all violent crimes in the UK.

British Crown Counsel Cherie Buchang pointed out that domestic violence is not only physical violence, but also mental violence and economic violence. Many women have almost lost their self-confidence because of their husband's aggression. She said, "If a husband scolds his wife for being ugly all day long, the wife's mental health will be seriously damaged, which also constitutes the consequences of domestic violence."

The higher the income, the emptier it becomes.

Employees in the middle- and high-income groups have a lower sense of accomplishment than employees in the low-income group.

Regarding this phenomenon, psychologists believe that many middle-income or even higher-income office workers, after solving their survival problems, are not happy for a long time and soon fall into deeper confusion.

When struggling for survival, material things are the best motivating factors; when the problem of survival is solved, material things will take a back seat, and the needs for security, love, belonging and respect will dominate. Nowadays, society's standards for evaluating a person's success are becoming more and more materialistic, and the purpose of people's efforts is to satisfy material needs. Once material needs are met, it is found that other needs are not met, and a sense of emptiness ensues, and the person cannot find his or her own sense of value and accomplishment.