People know their own value. When you have no idea what your abilities are, but you blindly want to be recognized and respected, it is just a dream. If you want to be loved by people, your own character charm is very important. In the end, it is your own good conduct that impresses people. Only this kind of charm can be retained for a long time.
People often say that our attraction to a person begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, kindness, and finally character. It can be seen that character determines whether a relationship can last. Dragons give birth to nine sons, and the sons are different, so people have various personalities after all, but whether the kindness hidden deep in your heart is remembered by you will determine what kind of wonderful life you will have.
The reason why many people feel lonely is because they only live in their own world and blame the world for ignoring them. Everything in the world has its destiny after all, and any action you take will have corresponding consequences, which is also the cause and effect of Buddhism. I always firmly believe that a kind-hearted character will always give you lasting warmth, and the silent tenderness will eventually surround you tightly.
In the plastic surgery hospital where I work, there is a nurse girl whose family environment is particularly bad. In his early years, my father injured his body while working on a construction site and was unable to do heavy work. He could only help others at the construction site to support the family. There are two younger brothers and one older sister. The eldest brother dropped out of school and is not yet employed, while the older sister and younger brother are still studying. The sensible nurse girl used all the money she earned after graduation to support her family. Although her life was poor, she was still comfortable.
However, suddenly my mother and grandfather were diagnosed with cancer one after another. This sudden bolt from the blue caused the whole family to collapse instantly. However, the nurse girl is always loyal to her duties and treats every customer she meets who wants to be beautiful with warm service. It was her positivity, optimism, kindness and strength that moved the people in our hospital and extended a helping hand one after another. Maybe our strength is very weak, but the hope that she will be treated well is the most sincere expectation.
There are many people in this world who blame others and others when encountering difficulties, and are willing to degenerate. Those who are drowning in the abyss, even if people want to stretch out their hands to help them, they cannot find their hands. Human quality is the pride engraved in the bones and the kindness hidden in the heart.
Who will not be implicated in the whirlpool of the world? Who will not encounter difficult things? Why is it that when some people encounter difficulties, there are always people willing to help them overcome difficulties? And some people are ruthlessly rejected when they ask for help? How can those whose hearts you have ruthlessly hurt be easily forgiven?
You must know that some things really will not be forgiven. Forgiveness, because everyone has their own bottom line. You will never know what happened to the person you have maliciously hurt, so you are not qualified to ask others to forgive you easily. Some people can forgive you after being hurt by you, just because they are kind, and you should not be complacent.
Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. When you learn to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, you will know that if I treated you the way you treat me, you would have left long ago, so the same goes for your character. The continuation of kindness, your character also depends on how kind you are. Some people are not born weak, but the kindness in their hearts does not allow them to do anything they cannot accept. But in this world, only kind people sleep best and live the most peacefully.
Don’t always think that the world revolves around you. You must know that the world is busy! It has no time to pay attention to you, so just live your life, be a person with a clear conscience, and be the person you like. Keep the fire of kindness in your heart and let it always burn. You will feel the beauty of this world. If you know the goodness in your heart, you will also find the door to happiness.