But a few days later, when some netizens planned to take photos again, they found that the house had been hung with various banners. It turns out that this is a private house, not a tourist attraction or a commercial building. Some people who lack quality wantonly destroy the surrounding tea garden ecology in order to better check the house, and some even let drones hover back and forth on this private house, which seriously affected the normal production and life of the owner. So the host had no choice but to hang banners and protest silently.
First, appreciate beauty, not at the expense of destruction.
Everyone has a love of beauty, and it is worth encouraging to appreciate and record beauty. However, appreciating beauty must not be at the expense of destruction.
We often see some uncivilized phenomena in tourist attractions: some tourists paint historical sites at will, or prove that they have visited here, or express their deep affection for their loved ones. It is said that "unforgettable", it seems that only by personally "carving" the name of yourself or your lover on these ruins with thousands of years of history can you express your most sincere and touching feelings.
The weather-beaten historical sites have made the builders' reputation immortal, but the modern people portrayed casually will leave their low quality in this way. What is even more frightening is that some people are complacent and not ashamed.
In fact, sometimes what is really admirable is not "what is left", but "nothing is left".
On April 22nd, 20 18, Yuzuru Hanyu, a famous Japanese skater, held a grand parade in Japan after winning the PyeongChang Winter Olympics, with the number of participants reaching120,000. But what really shocked people was not the scale of the parade, but the performance of the Japanese after the parade: there was no garbage left in the crowded scene with hundreds of thousands of people! When all the road sections are cleaned, less than one household garbage bag is cleaned!
Of course, this is not to say that no garbage was produced that day, but that almost every marcher listened to the organizer's call before the event: bring their own garbage bags and take the garbage home. This made many foreign media exclaim: the quality of the Japanese is really high!
Idolatry is crazy in many cases, especially in large group activities. No one will know who threw the garbage and who did bad behavior, so the moral binding force of this kind of activity on individuals is actually very weak. But this 1.2 million people can still stick to the basic quality of a citizen in fanaticism, not littering, not bothering the organizers, and not inviting their favorite beans, which is really awe-inspiring.
The spotless scenery behind the empty lane is the most beautiful scenery.
Second, high quality is also a kind of empathy.
High quality is actually the performance of empathy. Not selfish, not short-sighted, can care about others, not only for their own temporary enjoyment, but also to undermine the legitimate rights of others.
The uncivilized behavior in the filming of "Tang Wu" made it impossible for the latecomers to appreciate the unique charm of this building, and the act of portraying the monuments at will made it impossible for the latecomers to appreciate the original appearance of the monuments.
But in fact, this kind of behavior of "harming others and benefiting themselves" ultimately harms one's own interests. Later generations can't continue to appreciate this beauty, which means that the saboteurs themselves can't appreciate the beauty here in the future.
Some people will think that they will never come again anyway. What does it matter to me whether others look at it or not? However, if there are more uncivilized behaviors, the distrust of society will increase, and some places that were originally willing to open to the outside world may no longer be willing to open at will. The resources of "beauty" in the whole society will be reduced, and it is actually everyone who likes and pursues beauty who suffers.
People with good qualities can make people around them feel like spring breeze and bring more positive energy to a harmonious society.
There was once a wedding that attracted everyone's attention: during the wedding, many guests took the elevator to and from their homes. The groom's family specially posted notices on the elevator in the community to apologize for the situation at that time, and placed cigarettes and candy in the elevator to invite everyone to celebrate.
Taking the elevator is actually very small, but such a piece of paper and a heart make the neighbors feel very warm! Even in life events, knowing how to consider others is a reflection of the quality of a person and a family. And this kind of high-quality behavior is bound to infect the surrounding neighbors, bringing more harmonious notes to the smooth progress of this wedding and even to the future life of the couple.
Third, good quality requires parents to set an example.
People's quality is not formed overnight, but once it is formed, it will become an internalized quality, which is difficult to change the day after tomorrow. Therefore, parents should attach importance to their children's quality and moral education from an early age, know how to lead by example, and set a good example for their children with their own behavior.
But in real life, we always see some "uncomfortable" behaviors.
I once saw such a news: Ms. Zhang took her son to the supermarket to shop. Because she is choosing goods on the shelf, her son is playing around. Later, the playful child actually poked 45 bags of rice with a toothpick! The supermarket asked Ms. Zhang to pay compensation according to the price, and the total compensation for 45 bags of rice was 1868 yuan. However, Ms. Zhang believes that supermarkets also have problems of poor supervision and do not accept compensation. Later, under the adjustment of the police, Ms. Zhang finally bought 45 bags of rice at the preferential price of 1200 yuan.
Sure enough, behind every "Xiong Haizi" there is a "bear parent". First of all, the mother didn't discipline the child well, which made her make a wrong behavior. But whether it is intentional or not, the child should bear the corresponding responsibility if he makes a mistake, instead of blaming the supermarket for poor supervision like this mother, so as to shirk the responsibility.
In fact, children are still young, and sometimes they really can't tell right from wrong, so parents' education is very important. When children do something wrong, parents should not blindly spoil, cover up and shirk, but set an example and lead children to admit their mistakes and take responsibility with their own actions, so as to avoid serious disasters in the future.
However, a mother's behavior made people around her feel very warm: she took her 16-month-old baby on the plane, because she was afraid that the baby would make noise on the plane. The mother wrote an apology letter in two languages and handed it to the surrounding passengers with earplugs and snacks.
I believe that under the education of such a mother, the baby is likely to become a polite and considerate person in the future.
The so-called quality is not very noble, it is reflected in all aspects of our lives. When we take the bus, it is quality to give our seats to the old, the weak and the sick. When we don't spit in public places, it is quality not to talk in the cinema ... It is so small, but it is so important.
Quality is a trickle, composed of bits and pieces in life. Like water, it moistens things silently, allowing hope and beautiful seeds to sprout and grow all over the world.
Finally, I send a word from Mr. Lin Qingxuan to encourage each other: "May we always keep a kind, tolerant and clear heart, not to mention the possibility of sending a bright moon and many bright moons at the same time, because the bright moons are not sent to each other, but a kind of light that can reflect each other."