Judging from the photos of her when she was 2 years old, the girl king is too ordinary.
She was wearing a white sweater and pink pants, holding a teddy bear and looking at the camera with her head tilted.
She had parents, toys, food and clothes when she was a child. If you freeze a frame casually, there is a high probability that there will be no lack of joy in the picture.
If you want to find a flaw in this photo, Wang's small nose seems to be something special. There is a mountain on the left and a collapsed mountain on the right of a normal nose-the nose is curled into a thin tube, the back and root of the nose are sunken downwards, and a small hole replaces the nostril. There is also a gap in the nose and upper lip.
Bad luck and good luck fought around the accident. According to Wang, who is 0/8 years old,/kloc-she was still captured by good luck.
eaves
Although 18 years has passed, Wang Yinxing still clearly remembers the day when he first met his daughter.
In 2003, on July 17 of the lunar calendar, the summer heat gradually disappeared. At 4 o'clock in the afternoon in Xiyang Village, Zhang Pu Township, Yuanqu County, Yuncheng City, Shanxi Province, it was raining in the air, bringing a burst of coolness.
Wang Yinxing, 4 1 year-old, came home from work and met the director of the village committee and the village branch secretary at the entrance to the village.
"Bank, there is a little baby to see if you recognize it?" They said they found an abandoned baby on the side of the road.
Wang Yinxing has been married for 20 years, and his wife suffers from congenital heart disease and cannot have children.
He hardly hesitated and rushed to the adobe house on the side of the road in the rain. There is a girl lying on the ground, 10 days or so. In an instant, he understood the reason for being abandoned.
"The nose is a knot in one's heart and looks scary." There is also a "small gap" in the lips. Other villagers came to see the child before, and no one wanted to take her away.
Wang Yinxing thought, this will always be a kind of life. As for the nose, you can have plastic surgery in the future. He wanted to recognize the child. The village asked him to discuss it with his relatives and friends again, but he felt that as long as he was willing to take care of it.
Holding, Wang Yinxing walked home through the falling rain. He held the child tightly and touched his chest. In that humble and low farmhouse, the wife accepted it gladly.
It rained until the evening, but I didn't find "birthday" on the baby. After thinking about it, I named her "Rain", which is homophonic with "Rain", and changed "Rain" to "Let her soar in the blue sky and fight in the sky".
The rain on July 17 swept away the haze that had enveloped the yard for a long time.
Before, there were only two people in the family. His wife was at home for illness, and Wang Yinxing worked as a coolie in the village. Without children, he is always "depressed", working for a few days and taking a few days off, barely coping with food and drink.
With children to take care of, Wang Yin's whole energy seems to be activated, and he works harder. In this memory, Xiao Linyu drinks three or five bags of milk powder every month, learns to walk at the age of/kloc-0, and likes to play with building blocks and puzzles at the age of 2. Going home at night, he likes to watch his daughter's building blocks quietly. Xiao Linyu is tired of playing and will wait for her father to hug her. Although he has no experience as a parent, he has the instinct to learn from his teachers. Crying or laughing, everything the child brought lit up the dusty walls all around, and he looked forward to going home every day to see the child's face.
Wang Yinxing's parents died early, but his uncle and aunt loved the little girl she picked up on this rainy day. Once, Xiao fell off the kang, and her uncles and aunts also played. When she was more than 2 years old, Lin Yu took her to Yuncheng Intermediate People's Court for cleft lip and palate repair. In the hospital, a couple saw a bouncing little girl and wanted to spend money. Wang Yinxing refused: "No, I will give you as much money as you give me. I gave it to you. My aunt and uncle will kill me when I go back. "
This thin man, who is only 1.58 meters tall, has a plan and has never told anyone-he must cure the child's nose. Even with his wife, he never discussed it. My wife is weak, she was injured when she was a child, and now she is still a little slow. "She just wants to take care of the children."
In fact, before marrying his wife, Wang Yinxing didn't know that she was ill. However, he feels that his wife is still a child, and since he has chosen, he should bear the responsibility. This is what he understands as "a man's responsibility".
windward side
Wang learned to face the wind and rain alone very early.
At the age of three and a half, she went to the kindergarten in the village, more than 200 meters away from home, and went to school by herself. In her impression, her mother is easily tired and always ill in bed. She learned to fetch water, fill rice and buy steamed bread.
Wang Yinxing thought her daughter was not sensible at that time. He didn't know that Wang had been troubled by birth defects at that time: "It happened to be the position of the nose, which was different from others at first glance."
She remembers that once, a boy in kindergarten pushed her to the ground and pointed at her and shouted "pig nose". She never mentioned it to her parents, but she never forgot what the child looked like.
When she grew up, Wang Yinxing gradually noticed her daughter's discomfort. "When people see it, it's like seeing a monster. They all look at her, so she looks down on others. "
Wang resisted the stranger and stared into his eyes. "You just have to watch it once or twice and still stare."
When she was 6 years old, Wang Yin took her on the bus to Xi 'an with 1 10,000 yuan. Father and daughter went to the famous local Xijing Hospital and Tang Dou Hospital. Experts told Wang Yinxing that because the child's face is still growing and developing, he can't have surgery before 12 years old.
This trip drew a timetable for Wang's surgery, and the bank king knew that he would make money soon in the next five or six years. He doesn't know whether the operation needs 10 thousand yuan, tens of thousands of yuan or hundreds of thousands of yuan. He can only work harder and harder.
But he never skimps on his children's daily expenses. Wang learned a lot of books when he was a child. After learning Pinyin, Wang Yinxing bought her three-character classics and various fairy tales and other traditional cultural books. When she saw her daughter learning according to Pinyin, he was very happy to find that the child was "mentally good".
This change happened when Wang was 8 years old. During the Spring Festival that year, Wang Yinxing's wife had a sudden myocardial infarction and was "dying" when she was taken to the hospital. There are two people left in the small yard.
"Only seven or eight years old, she can understand." Wang Yinxing talked about her daughter's reaction at that time. "I just know that this person is gone." Wang really "doesn't remember" what happened when her mother died, but she can still vaguely recall her weakness, silence and gentleness when she told her stories at night.
For Wang Yinxing, it is a long journey to help children with plastic surgery. I don't know the ending, but he didn't leave himself a way out. After his wife died, Wang Yinxing decided to go out to work and pay for an unknown operation in the future. Wang, who is in the third grade of primary school, is fostered in a family next to the school and takes out 600 yuan to help take care of her daughter every month. Wang Yinxing doesn't call her daughter easily because "she cries when she calls". He misses his daughter. Although I work in Qinhuangdao, Hebei Province and Dongying, Shandong Province, I have to go home at least once a month and a half.
In those two years, Wang changed several foster families, just like a plant that was transplanted repeatedly. The clothes she has been dragging won't let him go. In order to avoid such parting, Wang Yin Jill left quietly when her daughter was at school.
There are only four grades in the primary school in the village. In the fifth grade, Wang went to the village to register, stayed on campus from Monday to Friday, and returned to a family in the village on weekends.
She arrived at school a few days later than others. On the day of admission, my cousin took her to the office to see the class teacher. It happened to be a recess that day, and many students stared at her from the office window. "A lot of people are pointing at me, and I feel very sad. I remember that tears were still spinning in my eyes. "
She was not bullied in essence, and all her teachers and classmates took care of her, but gossip and strange eyes stuck in her heart. Facing the mirror, she "doesn't understand why it is like this."
So she doesn't want to take pictures, but at the end of the final exam every semester, she always appears in the teacher's camera, because she is always in the top three in the town and is rated as a learning model every year.
Although she had never heard of it, Wang knew long ago that she was not her parents' biological. Walking in the village as a child, she heard another kind of discussion besides appearance. People say that this is a child introduced by the bank, not her own, and she needs to be taken care of. Later, everyone knew that her grades were good, and everyone thought that she had a bright future. They also said that the bank did the right thing.
After a long time, she has no feeling for another label on her body-abandoned baby.
Wang watched the TV series "Cherry Maruko", in which the character Hong Hong was the abandoned girl. She thinks that healthy and beautiful children like TV dramas can be abandoned, and it is not difficult to understand that children with unusual looks like her are abandoned.
She saw many differences again. The girl in the TV series burst into tears when she learned her life story, but Wang thought that she would not cry or feel sad, because her adoptive parents were very kind to her, "no different from her biological parents." At a certain moment, she would also think who gave birth to herself, but she would not think much, "That makes no sense."
She doesn't want to live in the label of self-limitation. In the fifth grade, the new substitute teacher said, "You all have to look at it, just like this student." Said and pointed to her. The teacher's praise made her uncomfortable. Although she understands the caution of others, after all, "everyone has a good heart". She just wants to be an ordinary student and doesn't want to be treated specially. Even if you are rejected, I hope it is because you are excellent, not because of "misfortune".
"This is all temporary, just wait for the operation." She comforted herself, and all her classmates admired her strength. She said, "I'm just used to it."
promise
Lv Hou, a reporter from Yuncheng Radio and Television Station, came to others to describe the scene when she first met Wang.
It was seven years ago, when Wang was in the fifth grade, she wore a ponytail and the bangs on her eyebrows were cut into arcs.
On the eve of "June 1st" in 2022, Yuncheng Municipal Committee went to Wang's demonstration primary school to express condolences to the poor left-behind children, and Lu went to interview together. Among a dozen students, she saw Wang at a glance.
At first, she was scared by the girl's appearance and didn't dare to look, so she had to turn her head to the headmaster of Zhang Pu Town United School. When the other party introduced Wang's family and study, she naturally looked over and her fear disappeared.
Lu then went to the dilapidated farmhouse. In the dark adobe room, there is a wooden bed with a thin mattress, next to an old wooden cabinet and a table made of wood, and a solitary tungsten light bulb shines on more than a dozen awards on the wall.
When sorting out the manuscript that night, the reporter admitted that he was somewhat "selfish." In the comprehensive report, she spent a lot of time describing Wang and seeking financial and medical help for her. However, neither fundraising for the audience nor the local plastic surgery hospital in Yuncheng went smoothly.
The next summer vacation, she always remembered to promise Wang to help her. Besides being a TV reporter, she is also Wang's "aunt" and a "caring" mother.
When school started in September, she came to Wang's school again.
At that time, the teacher assigned a paper entitled "My Ideal". The camera caught Wang writing a composition: his back was straight, his head was sideways, and his pen was tightly held. Later, she read the exercises on the platform, with a clear voice: "My ideal is to be a doctor, and I hope all people are healthy and happy."
Wang recalled that this wish was born after knowing that facial defects could be cured by surgery.
This time, Lu met the one who came back from other places and learned more about his family. After returning, she and her colleagues decided to make a promotional film for Wang, which was put out in the column every day and played circularly on six large screens in the local Nanfeng Square.
At the beginning of the promo, 1 1-year-old Wang glanced at the ceiling uneasily. His voice was a little weak, but he couldn't see emotion on his face: "I am very sad. My classmates have different views on me. I feel different from others. I am very sad. "
I want to be a doctor. In the middle of the film, she said softly, "Growing up makes everyone …" She paused, her expression still faint, "I have no experience."
The effect of this publicity was obviously enhanced, not only more donations were raised, but also plastic surgery hospitals in Xi 'an and Zhengzhou received donations. This incident attracted the attention of the county magistrate of Yuanqu County, and the local hospital also learned about Wang's situation.
Wang doesn't know all this. One day, the county doctor went to the school to find her, took a photo and gave it to his teacher, Professor Shu, who was then the director of the craniofacial plastic surgery center of Xijing Hospital.
In March 2022, Lu accompanied his father and daughter to Ann. In front of Shu, Lu told the story of Wang with tears in his eyes.
It was also at this time that 12-year-old Wang learned that he was suffering from severe congenital hemirhinoplasty. The "pimple" on his face was called "tubular nose" and "congenital tubular nose deformity", also known as tubular beak nose, tubular nose and congenital rhinoplasty.
Relevant literature shows that this is an extremely rare congenital craniofacial disease, which is characterized by tubular nose-like soft protrusion in the middle of the face, often accompanied by ipsilateral heminasal defect, periocular defect and craniofacial fissure. The tubular nose is a fleshy rod-shaped structure, which is about 2-3 cm long and 1 cm in diameter when it is young. The center of this structure is a small tube, and its inner layer is covered by layered columnar epithelium. At the distal end of the tubular nose, a small depression is formed at the end of the pipe.
Shu has been engaged in maxillofacial plastic surgery for more than 20 years, and has handled various cases of nasal deformities, such as Wang, which he met for the first time. But with years of accumulated experience, he "can definitely cure her." "If I don't do it, others may not be able to do it well. There is no way, I will find a way. "
The third general discussion in the plastic surgery department of Xijing Hospital concluded that "it can be done". Before, Wang didn't hold out much hope, but she believed in Shu, a doctor who was always cocky when he spoke and sometimes told jokes to his patients.
Recalling the experience of seeking medical treatment, Wang Yinxing sighed more than once: "Although this child is unfortunate, she is the luckiest. From the beginning of the operation, the media (just) ...
Since Lu knew Wang, in seven years, in more than ten programs, she recorded the little bits and pieces of the girl's growth path together with the once column and collected them into video logs.
In a certain chapter, the audience can see that Wang and his classmates, who are in primary school, are very happy when playing games together, and they are very attentive when reading the text; Wang is a human being. He went to junior high school and was satisfied as soon as he finished surgery and arrived at his new school. After the college entrance examination, Wang was happy when he got it, and he was neither humble nor supercilious. Under the lens, Wang, from Qi girl sitting in the second row of the classroom and wearing a pink sweater, has grown into a junior high school girl with a wide school uniform and short hair, and has become a slim girl.
Seven years later, Lu became a friend of this small family.
transit
When Shu first met Wang, he heard Lu talk about it. Knowing that her grades were good, he asked her, "How are you studying?"
"Very good."
"Do you have any ideas about the future?"
"I'm definitely going to college."
"Good boy, just do what you have to do." He assured the king, "As for the treatment, leave it to me. But I can't help you with your study. This is your business. "
Later, I often think of this sentence of Wang.
After the feasibility of the operation was solved, Shu was worried that although he applied to the hospital to reduce Wang's operation fee, the father and daughter still had to bear a large amount of treatment expenses. Born in a small county in Guizhou, the doctor knows that "having no money will really embarrass many of us." He mobilized friends around him and said with a smile that the foundation would raise money for Wang's operation tomorrow.
On March 25th, 2022, Shu performed an operation for Wang.
The doctor didn't sleep well for several nights before the operation. He went to the internet to look up the literature, and there were few records of similar cases, so he could hardly find anything to learn from. Having been a doctor for many years, he thought he was "fond of brains" and creatively improved the cosmetic suture technology. This time, he also formed a specific plan bit by bit. Wang Yinxing lives in a hotel near the hospital. Every morning, she will get to the bed before her daughter wakes up.
Before entering the operating room, Wang was a little flustered. Shu told her that "the operation is very difficult". When she was pushed into the operating room, her eyes were "wide open", half nervous and half expecting.
The whole body was used in the operation. Wang is lying on the operating table with only one face. Light music was playing in the operating room, and five medical staff were busy around her. To correct the deformity of the right nose, Shu must first cut the part between the affected side and the healthy side of the nose, and then separate the affected side from the connected skin.
In order to "pull down", he set a corresponding local incision on the affected side according to the size of the healthy side nostril, released the flap, and set the descending position of the affected side nostril according to the location characteristics of the healthy side infrastructure.
After that, he pulled down the formed flap to complete it, and then through the staggered release of the flap, he completed the suture and fixation.
For Shu, who deals with lip and nose deformities every day, surgery is not difficult.
Lu was allowed to enter the operating room to watch. The operation ended after more than three hours. In the short film she saved, Wang Yinxing jumped up after her daughter came out of the operating room, looked at her daughter on the stretcher and smiled.
Wang Yinxing recalled that it took her daughter several hours to fully awake. She was very excited to see that the original "pimple" on her face had been replaced by an arch. Although the new nostrils can't ventilate, she doesn't look like a "monster" at all.
As a plastic surgeon, Shu often witnessed the laughter and tears of patients and their families after surgery.
For more than ten years, he insisted on participating in the "Smile Action" and used holidays to perform free surgery for children with cleft lip and palate and head and face deformities in poor families, often seven or eight times a day.
In the mountainous area of Guizhou, he repaired a cleft lip and palate for a 69-year-old woman. The old man told him that she had hardly been to the county town for decades and stayed in the village for fear of being laughed at when she went out. After the operation, she took off the gauze and looked quietly in the mirror, tears rolling down her cheeks. She tried to stop crying.
At that time, Shu suddenly felt that he "seemed to be looking for the other side of life".
He still remembers that a mother suddenly rushed out of the ward like crazy and cried when she saw the changes of her child after cleft lip and palate surgery.
Shu Guomao came forward to comfort her. She sobbed and repeatedly apologized: "I'm sorry, I didn't ... I was so moved and happy." I finally ... in these four months, I ... feel as if I brought this to my children. "
"It's not really her problem." Shu Guomao said, "But many parents, especially mothers, have been under such high pressure from pregnancy check-up, birth and operation."
Shu was originally a thoracic surgeon at Xijing Hospital. In a subject integration, he turned to plastic surgery. At that time, he "had no idea what plastic surgery was for."
These two fields give him a very different feeling. "It turns out that in thoracic surgery, it may be to treat diseases, and there will be less psychological consideration for patients." In plastic surgery, he thinks he is a "psychologist with a scalpel": "The nose defect does not affect the child's growth and development, but it may have an impact on her psychology."
In his view, plastic surgery is related to people's "face". "Everyone who sees it is a referee, and everyone can evaluate the success or failure of the operation."
Shu likes to share photos of patients who have lived in seclusion in a circle of friends. "It's like holding an art exhibition behind closed doors. Suddenly someone wants to know about these works, or they can get a comprehensive understanding. "
Shortly after Wang was admitted to the hospital, another patient with tubular nose came, also a girl, five years older than her, from Weinan, Shaanxi. Wang's deformity is on the right and hers is on the left, like a small tube. Shu put her on the bed next to Wang.
The girl's family is poor and her mother suffers from mental disorder. In order to save money, the mother and daughter carried a big bag of steamed bread from home. Wang recalled that one day Shu came to make rounds and they were eating steamed bread. Shu paid 500 yuan money on the spot, saying that he would supplement his children's nutrition.
This encounter made Wang feel "wonderful".
During the plastic surgery, she also met Aunt Chongqing, whose mother was pregnant due to improper medication, Uncle Shanxi, whose face was disfigured by a car accident, her sister's cleft lip and palate, and her brother's ears were missing.
Faced with all kinds of deformities, scars and pains, she feels very dull and normal, because she is one of them. The sunshine and laughter in the ward relieved her. She is not the only unfortunate child, not to mention "I just have a nose problem".
Soft reduction was basically completed in one operation, but the nose collapsed due to lack of bone support. In September, Wang underwent surgery again. With this once-in-a-lifetime experience, her heart is only full of expectations.
Despite the initial consideration, Shu "over-corrected" Wang's affected nose, making the affected side slightly lower than the healthy side. But after a period of time, the affected side contracts upward like a spring, which is higher than the healthy side, and the two sides of the nose are asymmetrical. Shu Guomao needs to cut the suture again, perform skin flap surgery, lower the affected nasal alar again, and repair the scar at the same time.
In order to fill the groove in the middle of the nose, Shu took a 3-4 cm square costal cartilage from Wang to build her nose tip.
The difficulty of deformity correction is that although the first two operations have greatly improved the nose shape, the scar contracture is also obvious because of Wang's positioning of "subcutaneous scar grows faster and firmly blocks the nostrils".
In the summer of 2022 and the summer of 2024, Wang underwent two operations, mainly focusing on scar dressing, nostril vestibule enlargement, local skin flap shaping, and adjustment of nasal alar angle and nasal columella position. If the first two operations are "changing pants into clothes", then the latter operations are based on clothes. At that time, Shu responded to the military reform, took off his military uniform and took his team to one of the affiliated hospitals of Jiaotong University to set up a new maxillofacial surgery. Wang also went to the new hospital for treatment.
After undergoing cleft palate repair surgery, Wang's palate recovered smoothly.
At the beginning, the patient girl in her ward also had the third operation in 2022. The girl dropped out of primary school. Soon after Shu returned to China, she learned that she was married and had children, so she broke up with him. It is very likely that "future life is frozen." In contrast, he felt that he had given Wang "some space".
After the fourth arm harness, Shu made an appointment with the girl because she was worried that using this medicine would affect Wang's studies. When she is admitted to the university, she will be given a "good repair".
blue sky
Lu's mobile phone still has a short message from Wang after the operation: "Auntie, I feel like I'm dead. Now I dare to look in the mirror and go out to play with my friends ... "
This summer, after the college entrance examination, Wang realized her medical dream and was admitted to Shanxi University of Traditional Chinese Medicine. After checking the admission information online, she sent a message to Shu and Lu at one time.
In August, Shu fulfilled her promise made six years ago and had cleft lip repair and nostril enlargement surgery for her. The doctor's plan also includes a bone and nose examination for her later to determine whether she can complete the reconstruction of nasolacrimal duct. If possible, the right nose can be ventilated.
Wang occasionally thinks of the time before 12 years old. In those days when she was burned by other people's strange eyes, she always longed for the arrival of 12 years old.
Sometimes when she is doing her own thing, she will look at her silently for a long time and suddenly say, "I must do your hand well."
Before I went to Xi 'an, I said something similar, and once I told her story: "You came back from me. You study hard and I will definitely do the surgery for you. "
Wang Yinxing remembers that after an operation, some people in the village said that surgery was enough. "I said that I can't do it according to my standards. Since you want to do it, you must do it beautifully for her. "
In the eyes of others, he has been tossing and turning for years. Someone couldn't help asking him, "You can't do it twice and once, twice and three times. How many times do you have to do it? " His answer is, until it is finished.
He is familiar with the route from Xi 'an's hospital to his hometown Yuncheng. He tried his best to turn back and run between the construction site and the hospital.
During Wang's three years in junior high school, he never went out to work. Every operation, I need to accompany my daughter for a review every half month. He is a frequent visitor to the hospital guest house and once slept on a bench in the hospital corridor.
When Wang was in the third grade, he tried to help her find her biological parents, but in the end there was no result.
Later, Wang went to Yuanqu Middle School to attend high school. He worked in Yuncheng City. My daughter stayed in the dormitory at the weekend and took her registered mobile phone from the teacher to make a phone call. He lives in the basement, and his daughter asks him if he has an electric fan and a TV. He told his daughter to study hard and pay more attention to wrong questions.
Wang knows the importance of knowledge. He finished high school and took the college entrance examination at the age of 18, but he was 5 points short. His family was in financial difficulties, so he didn't repeat his studies. Later, he taught in a rural primary school for a year. Later, I took care of the elderly, got married and got married, and I couldn't get out.
He hoped that Wang Neng would "soar in the blue sky".
/kloc-After 0/2 years old, Wang began to feel that he was an ordinary student. Every time she finishes an operation, her grades fall behind, but she tries her best to catch up.
When she can't do the problem, she will habitually touch her nose. "It's like someone likes to pull her hair and pull her ears."
Now, at the age of 18, she has another way to get along with her nose: in order to avoid the subcutaneous scar blocking her nostrils again, she needs to wear a transparent nose model for the first half of the year to keep her figure. Every day, she carefully cleans the nasal cavity with iodine, and gently wipes the nasal cavity with a cotton swab dipped in a small amount of hydrogen peroxide.
She felt that she could face those who had laughed at her. Except for the two unfortunate things, congenital deformity of nose and abandonment, "everything she met was considered lucky."
After the college entrance examination, Wang still likes to tie a ponytail and cut a figure-eight bangs to modify his face.
She majored in pharmacy in college and recently started reading Drug Discovery: From Bed to Wall Street. She likes summer best. Everything is green and full of vitality. She doesn't often like taking pictures of scenery, but in the photo with Lu, she smiled brightly. She does. She attends classes with girls, studies by herself and goes shopping together. On the Mid-Autumn Festival in college, she took a photo of Zhang Yueliang with the caption "Life is like a full moon, and dreams can come true".
In retrospect, she always felt that she was a lucky dog.
: China Youth Daily
: China Youth Daily
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