my heart is racing and I'm fidgeting. Uneasy, she came.
a faint perfume came to my face, and then the sound of high heels stopped abruptly, and she sat opposite me.
She is an elegant woman, well dressed and very young. Later, on countless occasions, I saw sunglasses, hats and gloves become her unique labels.
under her powerful aura, I am very stiff. Basically, she asks me a question, and I will answer it again. This situation is like a job interview, and I am extremely dissatisfied with my performance.
But lujun told me happily: "My mother likes you very much and praises you as a simple and kind girl."
I secretly breathed a sigh of relief. Unexpectedly, the second time we met, she gave me a marching order.
It was the weekend, and it was my 25th birthday. I rushed into the kitchen early in the morning to cook some special dishes, and went to the pot-stewed restaurant to buy lobster, beef sauce and vegetarian chicken, which lujun loved. Busy until eleven o'clock, lujun and his mother came over.
This morning, what am I expecting from lujun? A love poem, a bunch of roses or a red envelope if it's tacky?
when I opened the door, I saw his sleepy expression. I didn't have to guess that he stayed up playing games again, and besides, he forgot my birthday. I'm full of anger, but because of his mother's presence, I'm enduring it for the time being.
Later, lujun said he wanted to drink ice water when he was thirsty. I said I had it in the refrigerator, so I helped myself. He insisted that I was busy at the moment. Help me get it.
I thought he was busy with his work. I took a bottle of ice water and found him absorbed in playing the glory of the king. I was so angry that I threw the water on the table and the porcelain spoon fell to the ground and broke. Her mother's face changed immediately.
this family dinner can be described in four words: it tastes like chewing wax. After dinner, lujun volunteered to wash the dishes. Her mother beckoned me to sit opposite her.
She looked at me with a very serious eye. After about a minute, she spoke: "Everyone, I don't think you are suitable for Xiaojun. He is a little childish and needs tolerance. You are too young and need experience ..."
I am a self-respecting person. Even though I love lujun very much, I still put forward "Let's be calm and calm".
I didn't answer lujun's phone for a week. According to his own account, he had a cold war with his mother at home and got drunk, which turned things upside down. His mother couldn't resist and had to compromise.
A proud woman like her doesn't love children too much, so how can she put down her face and take the initiative to come to the door?
it was his mother's tears that finally defeated my psychological defense.
She said that her husband cheated on her when she was pregnant. She brought up lujun alone, endured so many cynicism, and had to break her teeth and swallow it ... She cried, and this powerful woman suddenly became very weak.
I forgave her from the bottom of my heart, so she became my mother-in-law.
In the first year of marriage, lujun and I had a little fun. Mother-in-law has a group of old sisters in Beijing. She comes here occasionally, but she gets along well.
What has changed is that this year, when the little darling was born, lujun and I were upgraded to novice parents. We were happy and brought troubles at the same time. Who will take care of the children?
My parents are at work, and my mother-in-law has retired and has plenty of time, so my mother-in-law and I began to get along with each other day and night.
My mother-in-law likes spicy food. She always puts pepper, spicy oil and the like in every dish, while I'm still breastfeeding, so I don't like spicy food. It's useless to say it to my face. I'll let lujun talk about it, but it's still not spicy. As a last resort, I have to pour a bowl of water and pass it before eating.
When my darling wants to eat cashews, my mother-in-law chews them in her mouth and puts them in her mouth. I have said many times that this is unsanitary and still ineffective.
I try my best to tolerate these diets and living habits, but what I can't tolerate is her excessive indulgence of my husband.
in my opinion, her love is a kind of bondage, and her strengthening of the role of mother is a kind of trouble for Lu Jun and me. Even, I think, little darling is not as important as her precious son in her mind.
That time, Nan Nan and lujun both had a cold and fever, took antipyretics and fell asleep.
when my husband came back from work, he cried out that he had a headache. Now, his mother-in-law became nervous and kept asking, Junjun, does your head still hurt? At night, my mother-in-law stays outside the door. As soon as her husband coughs, she rushes in to feed water, take her temperature and twist the towel.
at five o'clock in the morning, when it was dawn, she knocked on our door again and said, "Mom, don't worry, go to the hospital." When I went to the hospital for an emergency CT scan, everything was normal. The doctor said, "Don't be nervous, it's just a headache caused by the common cold."
When my husband is at work, my mother-in-law keeps calling WeChat. Sometimes, my husband is really overwhelmed and his tone of voice is a little impulsive. My mother-in-law complained to me: "Junjun, don't you think I'm bored? I care about him." Then, I began to wipe my tears.
I don't know when my mother-in-law became sentimental and unhappy at the slightest thing. Then, lujun and I tried to make her happy. Just amused her, before long, she was in a mood again.
I asked my husband privately, "Have you noticed that our mother has some emotional problems?"
My husband held my hand and said, "My mother is a little girl, and she likes to make a small temper. You have wronged her, daughter-in-law. "
I smiled and said," No, your wife can hold a boat in her stomach. "
it didn't take long for me to say something, which made me feel resentful towards my mother-in-law.
lujun and I were traveling in Wuzhen and got pregnant unexpectedly. I am especially happy when I think of the joy of being a mother again and that I can add a sister in law to my little darling. My parents are very supportive of my having a second child, saying that they can pay for a live-in nanny. lujun also thinks that Nan Nan is too lonely, and having one more child will make her childhood happier.
Only my mother-in-law. When I announced the good news, she was expressionless and silent. I asked lujun if my voice was too low for my mother to hear.
lujun said: How is it possible? You are so loud that you can hear clearly in the next room.
Three days later, lujun suddenly changed his mind. He said, Don't take this child. We drank that night. Alcohol is not good for the child.
from my pregnancy to my miscarriage, my mother-in-law played dumb all the time, and we hardly communicated.
during that time, I was immersed in sadness and couldn't see the changes and emotions of people around me.
until one day, the doorman called me over. She said that during this time, your mother-in-law came to talk to her every day and cried almost every day. She blamed herself very much for your miscarriage. She said that she was dying, and she wanted to get rid of it early. She wants to die.
I was very shocked after listening to it. My mother-in-law suffered from insomnia all night. lujun and I took a day off to accompany my mother-in-law to the hospital to prescribe Chinese medicine. The experienced doctor advised her mother-in-law to check the depression scale. The result came out, and my mother-in-law actually suffered from depression.
Patients with depression are very painful, desperate and have a high probability of suicide.
Now, lujun and I chat with my mother-in-law, go shopping every day, and go to the brain hospital for examination regularly. My mother-in-law is much more cheerful and loves to laugh. When she goes to chat with the doorman's aunt again, she will say, "numerous people, just like my daughter." "
My mother-in-law doesn't like wearing high heels anymore. She joined the Dance Department of the University for the Aged. The way she dresses and dances in the wind is as innocent as a child.