Ding Haifeng became an instant hit because of his role as the "Walker" Wu Song in the old version of "Water Margin", and soon became popular all over the country. To this day, he is still active at the forefront of film and television.
He is such a hot star, but his wife is just an ordinary teacher. She does not seem to be a good match in terms of status, but this does not affect the relationship between the two.
Unfortunately, Ding Haifeng’s wife later contracted breast cancer. As a man, how did Ding Haifeng treat his old wife who had cancer?
Ding Haifeng was born in Jilin City, Jilin Province in 1969. His father was proficient in various musical instruments, playing, playing and singing. Under the influence of his father, Ding Haifeng also loved various musical instruments since he was a child.
When he was 15 years old, Ding Haifeng formed a band with a few friends and performed on the street when they had nothing to do. Although not many people watched, they felt very satisfied.
At that time, Ding Haifeng’s biggest dream was to study at a music conservatory. However, his parents felt that this was a bit unprofessional and firmly opposed their son’s dream.
Finally, at the request of his parents, Ding Haifeng could only study at Jilin Institute of Architecture, so that he could have an iron rice bowl job after graduation.
But Ding Haifeng had no interest in architecture at all. Even when he graduated, he took the initiative to approach the person in charge of assigning jobs to students and expressed that he wanted to find a job on his own.
Finally, after signing the guarantee letter, Ding Haifeng went to find a job as he wished.
However, after learning about this, Ding Haifeng's parents were a little angry, because they were just ordinary people and only hoped that their son could find a stable job so that his life would be secure.
Faced with his parents’ pleading, Ding Haifeng always stood firm.
It is not easy to find a job by yourself. At least Ding Haifeng searched for a long time before finally finding an opportunity to sing in a karaoke bar.
After singing in the karaoke hall for a period of time, Ding Haifeng did not see any hope for career development. So in 1990, Ding Haifeng applied for the Jinan Legion Theater and became an art soldier.
If he develops normally and only needs to stay in the drama troupe for a few years, Ding Haifeng will have no problem finding a formal job in the future.
But the problem is that the drama troupe has so many rules that Ding Haifeng only stayed for one year before applying for a major and chose to study at Jilin Art Institute.
In 1995, Ding Haifeng graduated from college and was assigned to work in the Jilin Repertory Theater, which was regarded as an iron rice bowl. At this time, his parents hoped that he could stabilize.
However, what neither they nor Ding Haifeng expected was that because of the existence of a drama, Ding Haifeng's fate would completely change.
In 1996, Zhang Shaolin, the director of "Water Margin", was looking for actors. After seeing Ding Haifeng by chance, he felt that he was very suitable for the role of Wu Song, so he extended an invitation to him.
Perhaps because he found it interesting, Ding Haifeng chose to agree, but he did not expect that his life would change dramatically because of this drama.
In 1998, after the old version of "Water Margin" was broadcast, it instantly became popular all over the country, and Ding Haifeng became an instant celebrity.
Since then, Ding Haifeng has continued to have film appointments, and has participated in film and television dramas such as "Legend of the Condor Heroes", "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", "Jade Broken", etc., and his career is getting better and better.
The reason why Ding Haifeng is famous, in addition to his career achievements, is also because he never abandons his beloved wife.
Ding Haifeng and his wife Tang Ge met in 1988. At that time, a kindergarten in Jilin happened to be recruiting musical talents and wanted to form a band.
After learning the news, Ding Haifeng, who was still a poor boy at the time, ran to apply for the job without saying a word.
On the day of application, Ding Haifeng, who was 1.82 meters tall, attracted everyone's attention as soon as he appeared on the scene, including his future wife Tang Ge.
Tang Ge was born in a scholarly family. After graduating from a normal university, he came to this kindergarten to work as a teacher. At the same time, she was also the keyboard player for the upcoming band.
Maybe it was because Ding Haifeng was really handsome. The director pointed at him that day and asked Tang Ge with a smile if he wanted to take him down.
Tang Ge shook his head at the principal's teasing, because Ding Haifeng did not meet her criteria for choosing a mate, and the most important thing was that he was two years older than him.
However, what Tang Ge didn't expect was that things would be so magical. In the end, he actually followed the principal's joke and became Ding Haifeng's girlfriend.
After Ding Haifeng joined the band, as time passed, he gradually became familiar with Tang Ge.
At the beginning, because he was older than the other party, Tang Ge just took care of Ding Haifeng as his younger brother, for example, giving him some help in life.
However, as the number of times of help increased, the relationship between the two began to slowly deteriorate, and slowly developed from friendship to love.
Finally, on a quiet night, the two officially confirmed their relationship.
Both of them thought that this relationship would usher in everyone's blessings, but what they didn't expect was that no one was optimistic about this relationship from the beginning.
Tang Ge took Ding Haifeng home to meet his parents, but his parents objected to the two being together on the spot because Tang Ge was two years older than Ding Haifeng.
Not only Tang Ge's parents, but Ding Haifeng's parents also had the same opinion, feeling that the two were not suitable.
What makes Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge even more desperate is that even their friends feel that they are not suitable to go on.
Fortunately, both of them are springs. The greater the pressure from the outside world, the more they feel that they must go on firmly.
But this firm relationship began to change slightly after Ding Haifeng became famous overnight.
At that time, Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge were already married. Faced with Ding Haifeng's popularity, Tang Ge not only felt happy, but also felt a sense of crisis.
The reason is that her relatives and friends have come to give her vaccinations: Ding Haifeng is now popular. If he has a relationship with another woman outside, as long as he does not do anything that is sorry for this family, you It's better to turn a blind eye.
Tang Ge knew Ding Haifeng, and knew that if he really changed his mind, his attitude towards him would also change. But what she didn't expect was that the change would come so quickly.
Since Ding Haifeng became popular, the attentive Tang Ge discovered that the number of calls between the two became less and less, from once a day to once a month.
It was this discovery that made Tang Ge realize that the relationship between the two was in crisis, and that Ding Haifeng was most likely to have someone outside.
When faced with Tang Ge's inquiries, Ding Haifeng always responded perfunctorily.
Faced with the perfunctory behavior of her beloved, Tang Ge did not choose to question him because it was meaningless. She could only choose to write down her distress in a letter.
But her patience did not bring good results.
On a calm afternoon, a phone call came to Ding Haifeng's home. The other woman was another woman he was looking for outside, forcing Ding Haifeng to make a choice.
After the phone call ended, Tang Ge knew that he could no longer pretend that nothing had happened, so he took the initiative to ask Ding Haifeng if he wanted a divorce.
Ding Haifeng admitted his thoughts.
Tang Ge did not choose to ask to stay, but packed his things and left the house.
Soon after, Ding Haifeng discovered a thick stack of letters written by Tang Ge.
Ding Haifeng couldn't help but burst into tears as he watched Tang Ge express his sorrow in his heart and recalled every moment of their love. Only then did he realize that the person he loved most in his heart was still Tang Ge.
But Ding Haifeng decided to go out for filming to calm down for a while. It turned out that the filming place happened to be a place where the two of them had been together. Ding Haifeng, who was wrapped in memories every day, decided not to escape anymore and firmly chose to return. family.
After making up his mind, Ding Haifeng locked himself in the room, wrote a long letter, and sent it to Tang Ge, who had already left.
In this letter, Ding Haifeng regretted his mistakes and hoped that Tang Ge could give him another chance.
Tang Ge knew Ding Haifeng well and knew that he sincerely admitted his mistake, so she chose to forgive this time.
In 1999, the two reconciled and their daughter was born in the same year.
However, the two people who had just experienced a relationship crisis were tested again. This time it was the scandal between Ding Haifeng and Wang Siyi, who played Wu Song and Pan Jinlian respectively in the play.
Faced with the scandals spreading all over the world, Tang Ge seemed very calm. After all, she had really experienced it, so why would she be afraid of fake ones?
In the end, things turned out as she expected, and the whole thing came to nothing.
In 2006, the two gave birth to a son. After that, Ding Haifeng concentrated on filming outside, while Tang Ge settled down to be a housewife at home.
Just when the two thought their lives would continue happily like this, an unexpected thing happened to them.
In 2014, Tang Ge was diagnosed with breast cancer.
After learning the news, Ding Haifeng immediately abandoned all the work at hand and stayed with his wife day and night.
Such days lasted for two full years. It was not until his wife finally recovered that Ding Haifeng began to work on his career again.
But since then, Ding Haifeng has chosen to devote more energy to accompanying his wife. He was really frightened by this incident.
Today, Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge have spent thirty years of marriage together, and their children have grown up healthily.
From being disliked by everyone at the beginning to being happy now, the love between Ding Haifeng and Tang Ge has indeed encountered many tests in the process.
Some people may think that the love between these two people is not beautiful. After all, there have been cracks in their relationship.
However, in real life, there is no smooth sailing. The most admirable thing about life is that after these cracks appear, can we make up for them in time?
Ding Haifeng’s prodigal son turns around and admits his mistakes calmly; Tang Ge’s magnanimity towards his lover and courage towards the future are the keys to a happy marriage.