? In July, we met in Weifang Tulip.

? Text/Han Xiang

? The sun is like fire in July, but it can't stop the sunshine of tulips from making people go out to study.

? On July 15, an offline party of Weifang Tulip Sunshine Club was once again ushered in, full of love, emotion and trust. As the family shared, although we never met, as soon as we met, we felt that "we are not relatives, but we are better than relatives". They come from all over the country: Liaoning, Zhejiang, Shaanxi, Henan and Pingdu. ...

? It is only because of mutual "understanding" that understanding is more valuable and rare than love. The same feelings about depression, the desire to get out of depression, and the longing for a new life. ...

? I began to prepare for the party in advance. When I went to Tai 'an to study, I felt great when I saw the teachers' blackboard writing. It is much more convenient to share and easy to understand, so I bought rhubarb paper to prepare lessons early.

? Three-body brain theory: this theory divides the human brain into reptile brain and instinctive brain according to the evolution stage; Breastfeeding brain is also called emotional brain; Cortical brain, also called wisdom brain, represents different mental states and needs.

In life, people often work and study day and night, which seems very hard, but has little effect; Some people seem to play every day, but the effect is very good. Why? This brain science research may tell you the answer.

Division and cooperation of three-body brain

Cortical brain (wisdom brain), that is, the light gray gullies and folds we usually see in brain pictures, is responsible for the content of consciousness such as logic, reasoning and judgment. The breast-feeding brain is responsible for emotions and feelings, and the reptile brain is responsible for managing the body's functions.

When you are reading this article, your cortical brain is reading, judging and learning, while your reptile brain is managing your breathing and heartbeat. At the same time, your breast-feeding brain also controls your feelings of pleasure, boredom or irritability at the moment.

The three parts of the brain have their own division of labor and operate and cooperate in a certain priority order.

The most important thing is the reptile brain. A simple example, if you suddenly have an earthquake in class, your reaction must be to run, and there will be no extra thinking in your mind. When people's survival is threatened, the reptile's brain will command the muscles to react quickly. Only after fleeing to a safe environment can people realize that their minds have just gone blank. This is because the cortical brain stops working when the reptile brain runs at high speed.

At the same time, when the nursing brain (emotional brain) runs at a high level, the cortical brain will also be affected. When the breast-feeding brain is stimulated to work at high speed, the efficiency and function of the cerebral cortex will be affected to some extent. It seems that the old saying "don't make a decision when you are angry" is also based on brain science theory.

? Efficient learning in "play": From the theoretical point of view of three-body brain, if we have too much anxiety and pressure in work or study, it will hinder our work and study and seriously reduce our work and study efficiency.

? Only when we are relaxed and happy can our study be efficient. In the process of "playing", the brain will continuously secrete serotonin, endorphins and dopamine to improve the efficiency of our study and thinking. This is also the reason why people tend to be smarter in their fields of interest.

Types of internal senses: there are three ways of communication between consciousness and subconscious: 1, vision; 2. Listening; 3. It integrates the sense of smell, taste, touch, and deep ontological feelings, spatial feelings, emotional feelings and other complex psychological activities, collectively known as "endogenous feelings".

? There are three kinds of internal senses: internal vision, internal hearing and internal feeling.

Each type, when used to it, will make a person form some specific thinking patterns, attitudes and behavior patterns.

? People who think more about visual scenes are called visual types; People who think more with sound language are called hearing; People who think more emotionally belong to the emotional type. A person who is used to a certain inner feeling will show the same language and characters in speech and have the same characteristics in behavior patterns. Therefore, people with three different types of internal senses will have three different types of language and behavior patterns.

If your child belongs to the endoscope type, you should give him more demonstrations, give him some colorful props and give her some varied descriptions, and speak quickly. If we are too slow, he will become impatient and lose concentration.

If it is an auditory child, when we are with him, we should use rhyming words to communicate with the child, and he will find it interesting and willing to listen.

? If he is an inner child, we might as well tell him more stories to describe different emotional feelings in the stories. He is very concerned about the significance of this matter. His understanding of this matter, so we should give him more opportunities to try, and we can't let him take the place of everything and do everything. If we talk to children alone, you can let them try to experience it for themselves. This way will enhance their experience and memory, and make them feel that the mystery inside is endless. Then we know that different types of children have their own different ways of learning.

If we know the inner sensory types of children when we are with them, we will not ask them to study and treat them uniformly. Will what I said today inspire you? In the following content, I will focus on how to train and improve everyone's inner sensory types, so that we are like a three-horse car, each horse is full of motivation, and each child's learning efficiency will be higher.

Through sharing, I just want to tell you that in parent-child relationship and husband-wife relationship, we lack effective companionship and effective communication, which often makes family relationships tense. We should learn to use the main sensory channels that the other person is good at to interact with her, not what we are good at. Otherwise, for a person with internal vision, you can only communicate with him with internal hearing, and the result can only be "chicken talking with duck", but not "vibration with the same frequency".

? My lecture combined with shinya yamanaka's dance healing, the basic dance movements of submarine chakra, umbilical chakra, sun gear, heart chakra, throat chakra and top chakra, the relationship between dance and body and mind, and healing music.

? There is no doubt that shinya yamanaka has got married. She organically combines dance, psychology and medicine, and has a complete healing system of her own, which is also handy. Especially in the afternoon, the rebirth practice shocked many family members. Climb out of mom's birth canal.

The power of the origin of life, the joy of rebirth, the happiness of being held in the arms of mom and dad, and the deja vu from baby to adult … these feelings will never be experienced without personal experience.

? In the middle, Mr. shinya yamanaka made several cases, and I shared some quick and simple skills: the "touch" of headache, the "EP acupuncture" of emotional treatment, and the "split in two" of unacceptable people. ...

? At this party, I shared more ingredients than before, and I am slowly moving towards an "independent" state. I am very grateful to Mr. shinya yamanaka for his encouragement and supervision, especially for his support again and again, which made me more confident and powerful.

? The night before the party, I suddenly received a phone call from a client and booked two tables at noon on the day of the party. Considering that there are two tables in the party, I think I may not have time to attend the whole party, so I left a message to Mr. shinya yamanaka and said, "Dear, you should take the lead."

? Later, I was asleep, and the next day I saw a message from teacher shinya yamanaka, "The course is ready. I thought for a moment. Are you still a little afraid of disappointing everyone? " I saw it from your solution mode! Because there are many ways to solve it, you choose to give me the venue and ask your subconscious mind yourself. When will you have breakfast tomorrow? Cook some porridge and I'll go to your house for breakfast. If I meet someone selling fried dough sticks on the road, I can get some. If not, I will eat your meal. I'll help you order food early, or I'll play for you. You can do it boldly. I will take care of it. Not afraid. If you don't practice, you will never. Only by practicing more can you get better every time. Don't flinch, ugly daughter-in-law always wants to meet her in-laws, and always has the first time. I pushed you in the back, and you can't retreat. We set the dishes early and then took turns to do odd jobs in the kitchen. There is another way, we can find a good friend to help us temporarily. There are many ways to do sth. Yes, leave me a message saying when to come to your house for dinner, so that I can have a good breakfast. "

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Sure enough, the next day, before we had breakfast, the mountain came to my house with a big bag of fried dough sticks.

? Yes, I do have this concern subconsciously: the family members of the parties come from so far away, and I am really afraid that others will come and get nothing ... in fact, everything is the best arrangement.

This shows that the family has gained a lot. Especially the flowers and the breeze, the mood came out. When doing exercises, it is very real. You should cry, crawl and fully experience ... after the party, your face has changed, which is joy and strength.

? In short, get together offline, vibrate at the same frequency, hold a group to keep warm, love and help each other!

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A drop in the ocean? (Vice President of Weifang Tulip)

Different places, different accents, one heart: Make your life better, and let live high gather in Han Xiang Country Hotel. Although the storefront is small, it has a local flavor that is not found in the hotel, which is natural and quiet.

? During the activity, there were two links that moved me to sob:

? The first time was in blindfolding, because his son was not blindfolded, he pushed his father to his mother and put his father's hands on her. He asked his father to hold her hand ~ ~ ~ Yes, in the eyes of children, he likes to see his father holding his mother's hand all the time, and children like to see his father love his mother! Therefore, in all the activities dealing with parent-child relationship, real psychological counselors require to repair the relationship between husband and wife first. We usually think naively: As long as I love my children, how do you feel about mom and dad?

In another "rebirth" session, I watched everyone play "games" with great interest. I thought I was a good yogi. I stood by and looked at everyone, feeling only fun and happiness. However, when I experienced it personally, it was a different scene: when I trudged blindfolded in the "birth canal", I felt dark in front of me, relying only on my own efforts and without any foreign aid.

? Thank you, Mr. shinya yamanaka, for your guidance, Xiang Xiang, and everyone for their joint performance! I love you!

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Plain is really sharing:

Hello everyone! Share some experiences of participating in Weifang Hanxiang offline party;

? On July 15, I was lucky enough to attend the offline party of Tulip Weifang Han Xiang. This is my second visit to Xiaolouzi Village, Zhucheng City, Weifang. I met a lovely, intelligent and beautiful teacher, shinya yamanaka, and also met a teacher, Han Xiang, who has super perseverance and super writing talent. It was also the Tulip Code Healing Group School introduced to me by Teacher Han Xiang earlier, and I started my self-growth and healing study as a parent of a depressed child. Off-line party of Jufuyuan restaurant farmhouse (a "fairyland" that tulip girls have only seen on TV).

? There are peaches, begonia, green apples, grapes, chestnuts, a small lotus pond, red lanterns hanging high, and so on, with fragrant flowers and fruits.

Stepping into this small farmhouse far away from the hustle and bustle of the city really gives people a kind of "Xanadu" scene, comfortable and warm, and feels at home! The offline activities of the day were compact, busy and happy. In my own words, it is "so happy!" Really happy! ".shinya yamanaka drove to the activity site early in the morning, and made preparations with Han Xiang without breakfast. It's really boundless love! ! Two teachers, Yamanaka Hihiko and Han Xiang, used their knowledge and enthusiasm to lead the gathering family to learn and heal. Although the tulip family members from all corners of the country have never met, they feel at home. * * * The same experience and expectation make these tulip family members warm up, * * * love topics and emotions, and cheer for healing and growth together!

One day's party, the two teachers took turns to guide learning, dancing, meditation, rebirth and growth, breaking through the card experience, and children's games ..... full of harvest! Of course, there are also sore catharsis.

Find the right direction, clear the goal, and improve the energy. Only when you have experienced it personally can you have such a deep feeling! Thank you, Mr. shinya yamanaka, Mr. Han Xiang, Mr. Han Xiang's husband who prepared delicious meals for the Tulip family in the kitchen, and all the family members who came to the party for their companionship and mutual assistance!

Thanksgiving tulips! Thanks to all the teachers in Tulip Healing Group who have helped the Tulip family!

? Share flowers:

? July is really good!

? Today is my long-awaited Weifang tulip offline party, and I feel the powerful energy of holding a group to warm up and understand each other, bringing together our relatives and friends all over the country! Very good! It is a happy thing to study and grow together. How nice!

? Han Xiang, a beloved teacher in the class, shared the three-body brain theory, inner feeling types, touching method, EP acupoint method to deal with emotions, and the "split into two" method of people I can't accept, which gave me more ways to deal with the confused things I encountered in real life. Grateful!

I am also very grateful to Teacher shinya yamanaka for teaching us many basic movements of dancing to heal the undersea chakra, umbilical chakra, sun gear, heart chakra, throat chakra, eyebrow chakra and crown chakra.

? Her smile is so bright and her dance is so flexible. Sometimes energetic, sometimes elegant and light, and sometimes so arbitrary! Witnessed the power of learning, accepting, changing and growing!

? The most impressive thing is:

(1) Break free method:

Binding yourself represents powerlessness, impossibility and helplessness.

? Tie a ribbon around your body and you need another companion to hug you tightly. Partner representative: trapped your shackles? Are you willing to untie the shackles? How?

Attention: (put on a silk scarf and close your eyes)

? At this moment, my present situation is in the swamp. When I want to break through the shackles of my powerful heart, I struggle hard and try my best to get rid of my companions. At first, I didn't have the strength. When I struggled at the last minute, I really opened the shackles. It turns out that I can be so powerful and so smart.

? I cried at the scene, I can overcome the immediate difficulties, as long as I try my best!

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(2) Rebirth method: When I was a mature baby, I climbed the birth canal after experiencing all kinds of difficulties, and then I was moved by my parents' joy in welcoming me. This is a feeling I have never had before. Very wonderful, very shocking!

And then to children ~ children ~ teenagers ~ teenagers ~ adults?

Attention: (put on a silk scarf and close your eyes to feel)

There is another case that Mr. shinya yamanaka gave you. The scene is still vivid, and I have found my own direction to solve the problem. I believe everyone's questions have corresponding answers.

Not only did I learn and grow up, but there were also some games on the spot, but I played high! Experienced when I was a child: the eagle catches the chicken! Ha ha laugh

? We are not afraid of depression. I have tulip's family and friends, especially thanks to the teachers who have devoted their love silently and selflessly, and thanks to Tulip Sunshine Society!

? Grateful to meet in life, grateful for everything!