Sheng in Know No is also a smart person who knows how to play the fool. In Fu Sheng, she always has a clear understanding of the complicated family relations. Especially in front of the two sisters, Ming Lan deliberately didn't compare with them, giving people an illusion, avoiding a lot of right and wrong and inconvenience, and gaining a foothold in the world.
People who can play dumb know how to tell the truth about Zhang Qixian, a character in the Song Dynasty. Once at a banquet, one of his men saw exquisite kitchen utensils at the banquet, so he quickly took a few to his arms when no one was around. When Zhang Qixian saw it, he felt the personality problem, but he didn't find it. He has kept it in his heart for many years. Later, when Zhang Qixian became prime minister, he promoted his men without exception, but he did not promote silver thieves without exception.
Some people, some things, just understand, there is no need to find out. Because it's discovered, it's only embarrassing and can't change anything. It is smarter to know the personnel department by pretending to be confused than to find it right away. Even in the marriage relationship between parents, it is best to play dumb, so as to be happy.
People who can play dumb can give people a step down. When Li Jian became a teacher of The Voice of China, he left a deep impression on people. In the blind election, when a girl who participated in the election was asked where she was, she looked obviously uncomfortable and whispered, "I am a theme singer." "Everyone is confused and doesn't understand what a theme singer is. Another teacher, Harlem, said: "This is a singer who helps to perform in commercial activities, such as the opening ceremony of the building ..."
Before Harlem finished, Li Jian said helplessly, "Oh, that's about the same as everyone else." After listening to this sentence, the discomfort on the girl's face disappeared in an instant. She immediately smiled and said, "How can I be like you?" The embarrassing scene was quietly relieved by Li Jian. This is an appropriate act of playing dumb, which happens to be a manifestation of a person's high emotional intelligence. Some people say, "Being smart is a gift, and playing dumb is a philosophical thought."
A really smart person understands that when others are in deep trouble, find a staircase for them. At the same time, it is convenient to push yourself and others. Don't expose people's injuries, don't laugh at people's shortcomings, play the fool a little moderately, and help others out of danger with the method of "no trace". This is a kind of self-restraint and a mode of being a man.