Therefore, emotions are like carrying. You should think from the other person's point of view, or try to make the other person know you better. Emotional things need more communication to last forever. Therefore, emotionally, we should communicate more, have more heart-to-heart and have more friction, so as to create a solid love.
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Pinwei men and women life
This world is colorful and beautiful because it is beautiful; Because there are talented women, they are so poetic and smart. Whether women want to be talented women or beautiful women has always been a hot topic in discussion, investigation and research. For a long time, in many people's minds, talented women and beautiful women are opposites. Talented girls are generally not beautiful women, and beautiful women are generally not very smart. What is the reason for the opposition between beauty and talent? Beauty is usually juxtaposed with fashion. In addition to her own beauty, she also knows how to decorate herself and completely release her own beauty. Beauty will be more tempted than others, flowers, praise, hospitality, and even money. Sometimes, a look from a beautiful woman and a casual sentence can make one or two men fart. Everything that can make a woman light can be easily obtained by a beautiful woman. Beautiful women are not necessarily happy. She knows that she is only living in the sight and imagination of a young man and will not approach a man's life. People who love flowers love flowers. As mentioned earlier, beautiful women are generally not very smart, so their ability to distinguish between true and false is not very high. She can't tell who really likes her and who really belongs. Because there are too many stories of beautiful women being abandoned and trampled on in this world. If a beautiful woman can't grasp it correctly, then the misfortune of a beautiful woman is a portrayal of a beautiful woman. There is a famous saying that there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. Generally speaking, it is not difficult for a woman to be pleasing to the eye. The words of talented women always fascinate everyone, and wishful thinking always makes people like their words. How can such a wise and blue-hearted woman not be beautiful? But they are usually not very beautiful. "Beauty" has been the common name for beauty in this era. Women are not unattractive as long as they put their heart into it. First of all, their temperament is of course mainly natural, but it is really not difficult for this society to want your face to look good. In addition to all kinds of plastic surgery, there are various brands and prices of velvet and cosmetics. In addition, China's clothing industry is also very developed, with a large number of European, American and Korean clothes pouring in. It's easy to package a beautiful woman. Honestly, how many women are born beautiful? The actress industry is very picky about looks, but it's hard to identify an actress as such after she has unloaded her baggage. Packaging yourself is normal and a compulsory course for women. Unclean women will be considered out of the main theme of the times. It is easy to be a beautiful woman, but it is not so easy to enter a talented woman after becoming a beautiful woman.
Secondly, talented women have their own ideas, opinions and talents, are knowledgeable and are good at impregnating themselves with knowledge. It is difficult for talented women to communicate with the opposite sex ideologically. They have their own opinions, so the average man will think that talented women have a feeling of being aloof and rejecting others thousands of miles away. Talented women generally lament that smelly men don't know the goods. Because she will imagine for herself many times, as casual as the wind, and the man who stays for her like water always appears beside the beautiful woman. Most talented women are too philosophical, which makes them a little bleak. Fortunately, talented women are used to loneliness. They only bloom in dark corners and lonely cliffs, although Dimfragrance is only a fleeting feeling. As Xi Murong wrote in his poem: Pray for 500 years before the Buddha, and only one flowering tree can be painted. To be a beautiful woman or a talented woman, you need to practice in the previous year. Having both is a surprise that will not be released in different places and at home. The story of beauty will never end. Based on this, the password thinks that you should neither be a beautiful woman nor think about being a talented woman. Shorter than a beautiful woman, almost worse than a talented woman. Be a lovely and temperamental woman, simple and capable, beautiful but gentle, with charm in innocence.
Li Qingzhao is a famous talented woman in ancient times, and her words are cadence and rational and restrained. Shangguan Waner is familiar with poetry. Not only can she recite poems and write articles, but she is also knowledgeable and clever. Zhang Ailing, a contemporary writer, has created many female images with sad style and profound meaning. The essayist Bing Xin's writing style is neat, fresh and elegant, suitable for all ages. It is said that these three talented women are all beautiful; Among modern women, such as Tie Ning, Yi Shu, Chi Li, Chen Ran and Xu, their blogs have a high click-through rate and should all be called talented women. In fact, you can't call it a talented woman just because you have published several works. You will become a real talented woman with dedication, perseverance and perseverance, plus profound knowledge and literary talent.
Besides, there are two kinds of best women in the world: beautiful women and talented women! There is only one kind of perfect woman: a woman with both talents and looks. Everyone dreams of meeting or becoming a "perfect" woman, but the chance for the latter to make a name in history is never as great as that of the former two, and the average person who has developed is also suspected of mediocrity, far from paranoia. I don't know what caused the opposition between beauty and knowledge. They were originally an organic whole. The beauty of sensuality and inner peace become irreconcilable, in fact, because of mutual jealousy. Talented women can comfort themselves with the principle of "sour grapes". Time is ruthless, youth is fleeting, and there is no beauty of youth; A beautiful woman can snigger at an old maid, without whitewashing, and without understanding poor management, she can deny it at a glance. However, a talented woman is a talented woman after all. She will soon realize that the world can't escape the attraction of sensuality. People with high emotional intelligence and strong IQ have stronger instinctive reactions. Beauty is slow in understanding. When she lost it, she missed the best years more and more. The rest of her life was empty and lonely, and she began to regret not leaving more things for herself. All her proud scenery is dedicated to the eyes and praise of others. Living on these things is too floating and empty. Talented women lament that men don't know the goods. They bloom only in dark corners and alone in lonely valleys. When they walk in, there will be a faint fragrance. Surrounded by layers of bees and butterflies, beautiful women are young and lively, they are gorgeous, and they are also consuming another life.
As a daughter, a talented woman, she has a very philosophical and meaningful life. Socrates died of the democracy he concocted, but I don't know if he regretted it in the end. Anyway, the taste of talented women is very complicated, too philosophical and somewhat bleak. They have a clear view of reality and have long stopped cruelty. They are meticulous in thinking, concise in intelligence, deeply aware of the principle of self-reliance, and do not expect to rely on external capital to transform into real capital. Beautiful women have to face the ruthlessness of time and the cruelty of years, and their faces are particularly heartbreaking. Beauty needs three points of innocence, three points of simplicity, three points of ignorance and three points of aestheticism. Faced with too much profundity and complexity, they prefer to spend their time in a more relaxed way. They are advocates of pragmatism and fast food culture. They firmly believe that women who raise their heads in a pile of old paper are not good-looking, and in the long run, they will be even uglier. In fact, beauty is more afraid of talented women discovering the secrets of beauty. Fortunately, most talented women disdain to see makeup artists, read books such as ancient costumes, and even sneer at plastic surgery to give beautiful women a rest. Otherwise, with a talented woman's tolerant and open-minded heart, if she goes straight to her heart, where can she stand in this world?
Talented women can become beautiful women and eventually become women with both talents and looks; It's a pity that beautiful women can hardly become talented women. They get used to it easily. Being a talented woman is so bitter and profound that it rarely reaches the highest level of women. It seems that being a talented woman first and then learning to be a beautiful woman is the right way for our generation to practice. I admire these two kinds of women most: beautiful women, although naive, always rely on their innate intuition to handle them properly, safely, seemingly ignorant, but in fact they hide great wisdom; Although talented women see through the world of mortals, they are still outstanding in the world, walking in heaven and earth, and still happy in a life as light as water. It is a blessing to get the former and marry the latter.
In fact, I have the honor to know two talented women, who are also very beautiful. The kind with both talents and looks is a woman blessed by heaven. One is a former neighbor, a doctor and a university professor. Just in his early thirties, he went to school at the age of five, advanced placement in a row, and he was brilliant. Teacher Extinction has no shadow on this beautiful doctor. She went to the hall and then to the kitchen. The house is in good order and the appliances are broken. Once she starts to work hard, she will be fine. The most impressive thing about her is that she is very cultured, thinking of others first, lively and outgoing, and full of jokes at home. She is full of energy every day, and five hours' sleep is enough. She walks beautifully, with a light gait, like a fashion model, and looks like Cao Ying. At school, she is a favorite teacher of students, and even many college students. Just tell her, teacher, that you look beautiful. Let's be friends. She also loves sowing seeds for her husband. She often drags a long voice to call her husband, like a naive girl, and her husband holds her in his mouth, a once-in-a-century treasure. Her charm is not only beautiful, but also temperament, and her heart is so kind. No wonder, she went abroad for an inspection, and her husband was driven out of his mind at home, and the tea and rice were not fragrant. Yes, this kind of perfect wife is really rare.
The other is a poet, recognized as a great beauty. People are middle-aged, but if you don't reveal your age, you will make 200% mistakes. Because, she looks only 28 years old. God gave her beauty, beautiful temperament, beautiful figure and a good voice. Soft and gentle, excellent sound quality. As soon as I speak slowly, I spread out a row of white teeth, which is very eye-catching and really warm. If she takes a step and comes over, exquisite and elegant, full of poems, you will immediately think of a poem. She is actually a flowing poem. Romantic, elegant and fashionable. She loves reading, writing book reviews and often dancing modern poems. She prefers to dress herself up. She usually designs her own styles and finds someone to do them. Friends of all ages get together. If she is present, she will push the door and come in. When everyone's eyes light up, there will be a click. If you are lucky enough to talk to her at close range, two long eyelashes will be brushed under the delicate white forehead, and everyone's attention will be fixed by those big eyes. She loves to laugh, and the mantra on her lips is thank you. She is an enviable happy woman, because she is beautiful, lives well, knows how to manage her own beauty, family happiness and dress up her mood.
In fact, there are only a handful of "perfect" women with both talents and looks. Wouldn't it be better if men didn't want this perfect woman with both talents and looks? Happier? Therefore, "beauty" is secondary, and "talented women" should be the goal pursued by all female friends. Because a beautiful woman has talent, she can be called both talented and beautiful. An unattractive woman's talent will make people feel like an orchid, fresh and elegant, beautiful and aura!