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Prose of a good wife and mother
As the saying goes, "Young couples will always be friends". My wife Guan Lingxiu and I have been married for more than 30 years. No matter what we do, our husband and wife depend on each other to accompany us, discuss things with each other, and give and take in contradictions, which is enviable. My wife is neither a good family nor a rich child, let alone a cadre's child; Although he was born in a rural family, he grew up in a poor family and didn't read much. He only went to junior high school. But she is sensible, intelligent, virtuous and polite, filial to her parents and kind to her relatives. She is kind-hearted and helpful, and it is my blessing to get married and live in harmony with her in my last life. I want to cherish this marriage, grow old together with her, go hand in hand and spend a wonderful old age together.

The wife has two fathers and a mother. Her mother married in Bai Shu Township, and after she married her wife's biological father, at first the husband and wife lived in harmony, giving birth to a son and a daughter, and her brother died of illness when he was a child. After the wife 1956+00 was born in June, the mother had a skin disease on her face, which caused discord between husband and wife, divorced and remarried, and hurt her young mind. When she was 6 years old, her mother took her to marry her father now. Karma, she came to Yujiawan. Her father is poor and thin, suffering from stomach diseases, epilepsy and other diseases. My mother also suffered from rheumatoid arthritis because of perennial fatigue, and she was bedridden at both ends for three days; Coupled with the shortage of labor, families are very difficult and often lack food and clothing. It stands to reason that seven years old is the school age, and she should go to school like other children. Although she said many times before her father that she would go to school, her father was still unable to support her until she was 1 1 years old. Her family took care of a meal for a resident cadre and gave her fifty cents for the meal before she signed up for school. During school, I often lack pens and notebooks, and even drop out of school. Fortunately, my wife is very strong and finally managed to finish junior high school. The child with good family conditions is still coquetry in front of her parents, but she has matured in a difficult environment, but she has undertaken labor that does not match her age; Go out early and come home late to earn work points for your family, and do housework to take care of your parents. /kloc-after the age of 0/9, her mother gave birth to siblings one after another, and at this time, she had to take care of her siblings' lives, which made her breathless. And she faced the reality, thrifty, filial to her parents and took care of her siblings, and spent the first half of her life.

My wife and I got married in August. 1977. That year happened to be a few months after my father died. My grandmother is old and my mother is a widow. My sister went to the countryside and worked hard in Jiugong Ranli. Brother goes to school; Engaged in education for less than three years, the monthly salary is only 39 yuan. The living expenses of grandma, mom and brother are only 15 yuan, a family of six. At that time, the family economy was very difficult. My wife gave birth to my son in June 1978, and my daughter was born in June 1980 1 a few months after my grandmother died. 1982 in order to reduce the burden on the family, my wife opened a small department store at home, not only to do sales, but also to take care of the life of the whole family. 1982, I married my sister, and then I finished the marriage for my brother. 1984, my wife started to do clothing business again. In order to reduce my burden and make more money, she wrapped her clothes on her back, went out early and came back late, worked hard and never complained. In order to save money and reduce the family economy, we eat dried buns and drink cold boiled water. Never stopped for eighteen years, no matter whether it is cold or hot, freezing in the cold, saving money; Buy food or other things, bargain with others, wear out your mouth, buy back cheap things, scrimp and save, and reduce family expenses. People are doomed to misfortune, and unexpected events happen. 1April, 986, I suffered from esophageal leiomyoma and needed surgery. In order to treat me, my wife and I first went to the outpatient clinic of Pingliang College for examination. The doctor said that an operation was needed. After we got home, my wife bought eggs and clear oil and went to Pingliang to cook for me when preparing for the operation. I came to Pingliang and was examined by a doctor. The doctor said, "My condition is not serious. I don't need surgery. I will come back when I am seriously ill. " My wife sold eggs in the street and went home to Xi 'an Hospital for examination. It was examined in the Second Affiliated Hospital of Xi 'an, the First and Second People's Hospitals of Xi 'an and the Orthopedic Hospital of Red Cross. I need surgery, but there is no bed. Check and wait in Xi 'an. In order to save money and pay hospitalization expenses, his wife went home to sell clothes for a week during the county exchange meeting and earned 600 yuan. My wife brought a cooker and stayed in a private hotel to cook for me for more than a month. Introduced by an acquaintance, he was admitted to the Oncology Department of the Second People's Hospital of Xi City. In the past two months, under the careful treatment of the attending doctor, Director Xia of Oncology Department operated on me. I cut a foot-two-inch-long wound on my back. At that time, my face was as yellow as wax, like a dead man, with tubes inserted in my nose, back and urethra. Injection and infusion on the arm, blood transfusion on the foot, penicillin injection four times a day. In order to make my body recover as soon as possible, my wife sat in front of the hospital bed and waited on me all night. Every day, she helps me turn over, urinate, feed and water, cook with an alcohol stove, take good care of her, never complain, laugh in front of me and cry behind my back.

People often say: "If you survive a disaster, you will never be blessed." . Under the careful treatment of doctors and the care of relatives, friends and wife, I was pulled back from the death line. I escaped the disaster of life and got a second life.

The fate of husband and wife is hard to meet. It is rare for a person to meet a good wife in his life. My wife is a rare confidant in my life. I slept with you for over 30 years. At first, we didn't have a fixed home and moved four times. In order to have a fixed home, my brother and I bought a piece of land in West Street and started building houses on 1995. In order to raise money to build a house, my wife gets up early in the school's family courtyard, appears at night, gets up at 5 am to steam steamed buns, and sells vegetables and steamed buns to students at 6 am. After breakfast, I went to the market to sell clothes. Go home at 5 pm and cook again. My heart is broken for our family. 1996 moved into a new house in July, and since then, my family has a fixed residence, realizing the dream that my wife and I have no house of our own for decades. Since I married my son in 200 1 and my daughter-in-law gave birth to a grandson in 2002, my wife ended her career and enjoyed her family life.

My wife is not only a good wife and mother, but also a good grandmother. As the saying goes, "if you are poor, you will think about change." When the child is pregnant in October and grows up, parents have devoted countless efforts to the child's life. However, grandma also paid a lot for her grandson. There is a story "A child's grandmother has bone cancer. She was afraid that after she died, her grandson would have no woolen pants to wear, so she sat on the bed and spread woolen pants for her grandson, from 8 years old to 18. " For my grandson, my wife and daughter-in-law said to me shortly after she was pregnant with a child, "Now I am still young, and I can do needlework and make soles, uppers and insoles for my grandson." When I am old, my eyes can't see, and I can't do it if I want to, so my grandson won't lack shoes. " After that, she used her spare time to make soles, uppers and insoles at home, making "pig's head shoes" and "cat's head shoes", and tied flowers, cats and insects on the uppers, soles and insoles to make more than 20 pairs of shoes for children to wear from birth to marriage. A neighbor saw it and said, "You make so many shoes. Do you know that your grandson likes to wear them? " Everyone says, "Grandparents love their grandchildren more than their children." It's true, grandson is another generation. In the wife's eyes, each pair of shoes represents grandma's love for her grandson. Besides, my wife has been busy all her life, and she does needlework on her hands when she has time. In order to make a pair of shoes, sometimes she is too anxious to sleep well at night. Now, because I have been sewing children for a lifetime, coupled with the growth of age, my eyes are already presbyopia. Now that the grandson is in the sixth grade, as long as she calls for shoes, she will take them out at once. As soon as I make shoes, I always say to me, "Those shoes were worn by my grandson in middle school, and those shoes were married by my grandson and his granddaughter's wife." Look, she started making shoes for her grandson again. After breakfast, I was too busy to sleep at noon. I let her sleep for a while at noon, but she always tossed and turned in bed and got up to make shoes. It was really helpless. For grandchildren, grandchildren, only let her do it. Poor grandma in the world!

In a word, I worked in an urban primary school for 32 years until I retired, and I won many awards in my work. It is because I have such a capable wife at home that I can devote myself to my work and my achievements cannot be separated from my wife. A wife should take care of her mother, cook, manage the children and do housework at home. People often say, "Men are rakes and women are boxes." Pay your salary once a month and keep your passbook at home. We will discuss the big expenses, and my wife will arrange the rest from the plan to the expenses. My mouth is full of food and my clothes are full. "I don't sleep in the middle." In the eyes of others, I may be said to be "afraid of my wife" and "henpecked". In fact, I don't think there is a problem between husband and wife who is afraid of whom. Men and women are equal, and whoever is in charge of family affairs will do. There is no need to put men in power. A man should concentrate on his career. It's a great honor to have my wife at home! Now a pair of children are very sensible, married, and each has a child who has gone to kindergarten and lived a happy life. My wife and I are dependent on each other, supporting each other and spending the rest of our lives together.

Life is alive, now that we are married, we must live together until we are old. Don't fall in love at first sight before marriage, make up your mind, either don't marry, or don't marry, no matter how poor and bitter you are, your heart will not change, you won't sleep all night, and the phone will keep ringing. Soon after my marriage, I met my fist and made a difference. Once divorced, for the sake of children, parents are sad and children are miserable. It's not that I say that my wife is good. Even a good wife will inevitably have some contradictions in life. The key is that husband and wife should learn to be kind, understanding and caring. I firmly believe that young couples will be kind to each other and do better than us.