After marriage, men always say that it is not easy for my mother to raise me, so be nice to my mother. But how many men will say to their mother, mom, my wife can't come to our house without parents, so you should be good to her.
3. Woman, you should know that only yourself is the most precious wealth. Without yourself, there is no possibility, which is the most important thing. Life, beauty and emotion all exist by their own existence, that is to say, only existence can do other things. Therefore, a woman who knows how to love herself can get the love of others.
4, woman, you have to know that only when you understand, you will relax. It's human nature to be considerate. No matter how beautiful you are, you should be reasonable in dealing with people. A smart woman should emphasize principles on major issues and learn to be flexible on minor issues. Deliberately doing one thing will sacrifice something more or less.
5, woman, you have to know that for love, falling in love is like playing mahjong. It is not fun if you are not serious, and it is easy to be sad if you are too serious. Therefore, we might as well cultivate some psychological games. Therefore, a calculating woman will not ask this question: Why don't you love me?
6. Woman, you should know that whether a man is reliable depends on what means a woman uses to control him. Men are always courting women who don't take him seriously. Too much care about a man often can't get him; Don't force a man to lie, he will hate you, and don't take his words seriously, or you will hate him. The way to distinguish good people from bad people is simple. The man who often makes you smile is a good man. So, don't take love too seriously. You can live without the best.
7, men to women, don't love it, if you love a woman, men are likely to want to develop a lover relationship with you. Therefore, if a woman falls in love with a man again, she should keep her distance, and don't give it to herself without reservation, so as to prevent herself from falling into both wealth and human resources.
8. In most cases, online dating = meeting, going to bed, getting out of bed and blacklisting. If we have a clear understanding of its essence, we will not suffer from this fruitless emotional pain. Network emotions, whether between the opposite sex or between the same sex, can only be released freely if they swim in a game mood.
9. A good image is a permanent fashion for women. Many people spend a lot of money to decorate their houses (in fact, not many people visit your house), but they don't know how to maintain themselves. They show a relaxed, bloated and drooping image to the people around them. Even if you have money, you can't show your noble temperament, but a good figure can win the respect of more people.
10 Please don't care what men say. If a man tells you to call you in two days, don't think he will really call you on the third day. You should be surprised if he does. If he doesn't, you should think it's normal. If a man says when to invite you to dinner, but he stands me up. You should be surprised if he apologizes to you specially. If he thinks nothing happened, you should feel normal.
Please don't believe what men say easily. When a man breaks up and says that you are too good to me or that we are not suitable, please don't believe it, let alone blame yourself. Just to cover up his guilt of betrayal. In a few days, you will find that he has a new woman.
12. To make a boyfriend over 28 years old, you must make friends with his family or friends. Because if you are not careful, you may act as a third party or even become a bad woman who destroys others. Just like Summer Xu in Close to You, Warm Me, it is the woman who gets hurt in the end.
13, don't expect too much when dating. On a blind date, just have a meal. We can talk more if we eat. If the atmosphere is awkward, you will leave. No one will blame you. If you can meet your prince charming, you are lucky. If you meet the frog prince, God is fair to everyone. Keep looking.
Don't despair of love. If you are still single, if you are often hurt in love, please don't despair of love, just find a man to marry. Always trust the person in your life. He is not far away.
15, learn to be strong when you are lovelorn. Love can be temporary or lifelong. It's not that anyone can't live without anyone. Forgetting makes us strong. I believe it will dilute everything.
16, learn to cook. If you are still wearing clothes to make a living, wake up quickly. Cooking is also a skill. When you are alone, you can cook for yourself.
17, cultivate interest in listening to music and learn to be alone. Don't rely on others, someone is with you, you are, no one cares about you, and you listen to music when you are lonely.
18, work. Work is very important. If there is no love, a woman without a job is poor. Work can increase a woman's charm, but don't do everything. Money is endless.
19, learn to bear it. A 26-year-old woman can choose her lover and lifestyle, but please think carefully before making a choice, and learn to bear it no matter what the result is. If you choose a boyfriend who is younger than you, you should take care of him as carefully as your mother, and one day he may abandon you because you are old.
20. Find a real boyfriend. A real boyfriend is a man who can proudly introduce you to his family and friends, and you can proudly introduce him to your family and friends. That's what Saint Jin Shun said. Better be a good kisser. . .
What I say to women is very inspiring.
In this fast-paced era full of competition and depression, people sometimes get lost easily and don't know their real needs and goals. Men's world generally tells life ideals, goals and inspirational stories. What about women? Do you also need the baptism of inspirational articles to make life clearer? Women must read and share inspirational articles:
Both men and women may have all kinds of ideals that want to change the world, and then it seems a bit difficult to change their current situation. This state is somewhat similar to what Ma Yun said: walk 10 million roads before going to bed at night and walk one road after getting up in the morning. Why?
When you are young, you should have a cool eye and perseverance. Seeing people around you fall in love, who went to KTV again and who stayed in the dormitory for a few days to surf the Internet. Then, you can't hold your breath. You are thinking about what you are trying to do now, and why others live comfortably every day, while I am lonely and struggling constantly. Especially when you were a girl?
An aunt once told me that when she was in her twenties, everyone around her got married, but she was not alone. Seeing that her former colleague appeared in front of her with a child over one year old in her arms, she had to go home and swallow her tears silently. At this time, she met my uncle, everything was right, and she married herself. Originally, she enrolled in an advanced course in a university, but after she got married, she had no time to read books, let alone have children. But the other woman with her is different. She is 26 years old, 26 years old. In a small place, in the last century, it was basically equivalent to never getting married. But she has always been very calm, short in the neighborhood of women around her, and firmly study in gossip. Needless to say, at the end of this story, my aunt told me earnestly that the woman has gone to Shanghai now, and her manners and vision are far beyond her. It all started with a refresher course in that university.
Mom said that the happiest life for a woman is a life with constantly improving living standards. The most miserable women I have ever seen are all cared for in the palm of their hands when they are young. They failed to marry a good husband, and their youth passed in a flash. When they are old, they don't work hard at the most golden time. After that, life will go all the way, losing the biggest and only capital, but can no longer adapt to the situation and life that is not in everyone's hands. I am over 40 years old. I sell vegetables in the vegetable market. My hair is fluffy and my skin is dark yellow. I was so immersed in bargaining that I didn't even notice my acquaintances passing by. What about being young and beautiful? This kind of woman is the worst woman I have ever seen.
Girls in their early twenties are undoubtedly the most beautiful and beautiful age. But most of the girls at this time have no idea about their own lives. We don't know what we want, what we pursue and how to get happiness. Indeed, if you had the best time in love and lived comfortably every day, it would be one of the best memories, but what about after the best time?
The childish boy in his twenties beside you. If he chooses to struggle, then over time, your's vision will gradually separate. When the passion of love faded, he also showed kindness to capable and mature female colleagues many times. Don't call him heartless. I enjoyed my best years but didn't give you happiness. After all, life is not maintained by moral condemnation and conscience.
If he chooses to play with you, that person will reach middle age. When you look back on your life, compared with people at different levels around you, should you regret that you dragged down your lover, or do you doubt whether there is true love between you when you hear that Shakespeare's true love is made up? Then please don't point to your husband's forehead and scold him for incompetence when he is in financial difficulties. You know, you are at least half responsible for this situation.
Girls, please have your own goals and efforts at any time.
I have met many girls who have lofty goals and pursuits before they fall in love, and are generous in manners and superior in ability. After falling in love, I only saw a little girl following a boy. In three words, she is her boyfriend, and the whole life will revolve around him in advance. Maybe you will say that if women are weak and too strong, boys will stay away. What I want to refute is that the premise of weakness is that you are strong, not more and more dependent like a boiled frog in a love greenhouse. You are not a bird in a golden cage. When you want to fly, you find that you haven't adapted to the cruel world outside. Moreover, if a girl has a goal and a dream, it is called being strong, then I want to say that such a boy is too weak, and he wants to use the weakness of a girl to maintain his fragile self-esteem.
I have always despised those men who have two hearts. In my extreme opinion, men should do great things instead of completely indulging in loving children. Double suicide, a literary matter, is responsible for a woman, not for everyone else, including himself. In his letter to his son, Fu Lei said earnestly, don't let women or feelings slow down your career. Let's put aside the patriarchal ideology here, and his statement is not unreasonable. Don't you see how many heroes are sad for beauty?
Behind every successful man, there is a capable woman. Maybe you can't help it, but at least you don't want to be a drag on his way up. You know, the gravity of the earth is so great that it is not easy to drag a tail.
Besides, the most important thing is not this, but when can you silently endure all kinds of irrationality in a patriarchal society?
Why did you fight?
I want to ask you, why are boys struggling and you are not?
The saddest thing is not that the sages revealed the truth to mankind but were misunderstood by the masses like Socrates and Jesus and killed by the people he loved. However, after countless women have been clamoring for the establishment of a society with equality between men and women, the natural means that more contemporary women imagine and resort to are still desperately losing weight, plastic surgery, makeup, whitening, then marrying a rich second generation and riding a BMW, and finally becoming a dream of life.
You know, there are not so many rich second generations now. You know, putting a vase at home will make you tired. You know, the new beautiful young girl is like an onion.
In fact, these words are still pleasing to the male power after all.
Why fight? Because you have always been and should be an independent individual.
Don't think that it should be just because the status quo is unreasonable, and don't slide back to that comfortable little home because of your own inertia and strong inertia of history. What's more, there is not only comfort at home, but also trivial housework and vulgar TV dramas day after day. However, how long you talk about it, all you can see are trivial things in the eyes of your parents.
Every time I think of Florence Nightingale, I can't help crying when she started a new career despite the resistance of the whole family. In Qiu Jin, Xu Guangping and Xiang Jingyu during the Republic of China, how many women broke through secular prejudice and pursued free love, and how many women saved the nation like men; Not to mention that after the founding of the People's Republic of China, women used to work like men, digging ditches and entering factories. Of course, this is also widely criticized today as having no feminine characteristics. Whether this is completely reasonable or not, let's call it a day. But looking around, what about women now?
Too many women's lifelong dream is to catch a rich husband. No one came to hide from her, but she automatically delivered it to the door. What more and more female college students imagine is not to make a world by themselves, but to marry a good man and achieve a leap in life. How many women have won their positions by their naked bodies, their faces and their bodies? Su Zizi, Gan Lulu and Guo Meimei (did they all discuss their names first? ) Black powder appeared one by one, and the screen was in chaos. Woman, don't indulge yourself and don't be conceited. How many viewers do you think you attracted by showing off proudly on the screen and showing your breasts superficially? In fact, you are like a buffoon, and no one will respect you. Woman, what's wrong with you? Society is degenerating. You don't have to lead an honest and clean life, and you don't need to fall first. The door of the era of equality between men and women has been opened. Now, women, don't leave this door unlocked because of yourselves.
You know, Lin, which makes three men unforgettable, has more than just a beautiful appearance. She also has an outstanding writing style. Before she was twenty years old, she went to study in the United States with Liang Sicheng, and she shared the same interests with Liang.
Woman, please don't wait for a man to give you happiness, money and care. This kind of waiting is like buying a lottery ticket, which is too mysterious. Why not give yourself happiness? Before you have the luck to get happiness from men, please have the ability to give yourself happiness first. Or, you shouldn't wait for him like this. It is also society. Why do men fight for real talent and learning, while women have a completely different road to success? Whether rough or swift, China's rules of the game must follow those of the United States. Is there a double standard?
When every successful woman hesitates in the interview, she should say: Women are too good, and it will not end well if she doesn't find a good man; The glamorous female anchor, with a little unknown pain on her beautiful face, said earnestly: women, there is no fairness in the workplace; Beautiful women have a good life, but ugly women can't turn over; The pursuit of female beauty in the whole society is as high as the pursuit of male success, or the greatest success of women is potentially defined as a beautiful face and a devil's figure, and the fastest way to succeed is to rely on beauty. When all this is what you have heard, don't you want to try to make some changes?
A hundred years ago, our students did not have the opportunity to study freely, and the powers bullied and the warlords scuffled. How many fathers sold their daughters and the old people starved to death in vain? But how many generations of sacrifices and efforts have brought us everything now; One hundred years later, if there are still problems in China, such as high prices, food insecurity, medical insecurity, fear of being beaten when going out and children being abducted, it will be a shame for generations!
A hundred years ago, several generations of women broke the shackles of feudal marriage, and now you have the opportunity to fall in love with your boyfriend freely; A hundred years later, if your descendants still endure injustice in the workplace, lead a vulgar life in the family, or an ugly girl will never be able to do it, that will be your shame.
It should never be just men who are responsible for social progress.
When you get here, if you still think you are beautiful and comfortable, and you are as brazen as Mano to say that you have a house, a car and money, just look at that man. All right, go ahead.
This society is rich and colorful because of differences, and makes continuous progress because of respect.
A very realistic sentence, too realistic.
1. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.
There are four keys to open the door to happiness: the virtue in your mouth, someone in your eyes, love in your heart and kindness in your actions.
Don't judge the virtue of others, because you are not nobler than him.
If someone annoys you, you don't need revenge. Because the IQ difference is the farthest distance in the world, others have done a very bad thing, and if you follow it, it is equivalent to pulling yourself down to the same level. When someone has a problem with you, please stay away from the villain and keep calm. Don't be angry, but don't remember. The hardest way to deal with a person is not to teach him a lesson, but to delete him from his memory.
5. Tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
6. How can everything go well in life? Life, how can everything go smoothly. Don't be serious about villains, because it's not worth it; Unreal to society, because it can't afford it; Don't be true to yourself, because you can't afford to be hurt; Not true to the past, because it is worthless; It is not realistic, because we must continue. Because of kindness, I am tolerant; Because of responsibility, so bear; For some reason; So I'm willing to compromise. I am happy because I look down; I am happy because I am pessimistic.
7. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
8. The greatest success in life is to make yourself happy. There are many kinds of success, but no matter what kind of success, it is to make yourself happy. Mature people will not rely on others to give you happiness, but strive for it by themselves. Happiness doesn't always exist. Living a life like hell and being happy like heaven is your success. The greatest success in life is to cultivate a good attitude and keep yourself happy.
9. Never give a friend who has betrayed himself a second chance to betray.
10. You are angry because you are not generous enough; You are depressed because you are not open-minded; You are anxious because you are not calm enough; You are sad because you are not strong enough; You are disappointed because you don't have enough sunshine; You are jealous because you are not good enough ... all these, the root of every trouble is on yourself. Therefore, every worry is an opportunity for us to find our own shortcomings.
1 1. Don't care what others think and talk about you behind your back, because these words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. I'm out of my mind. Everything is out of my mind. People who know you don't need to explain; People who don't understand you are not worth explaining. Please believe that people who really understand you will never deny you because you have something and you have nothing.
12. Tenderness is an unfair kindness. Help others wronged themselves, but every compromise is regarded as a fool. Along the way, we have supported many heartless people with kindness. Life is short, and we just want to be nice to everyone around us. Maybe others think we are smart, but we are not stupid. We can play dumb, but don't feel really stupid, why poke it. Dedicated to people who are kind, soft-hearted and heartless.
13. When you hear someone's malicious slander, there is no need to dwell on it. Just turn around and put it down. If you keep thinking about it, it's as stupid as picking up what others spit out and eating it yourself.
14. Anger is to punish yourself with the mistakes of others; Worry is torturing yourself with your own mistakes; Regret is destroying yourself with helpless past events; Worry is to scare yourself with virtual risks; Loneliness is to imprison yourself in a self-made prison; Inferiority is to destroy yourself with the strengths of others. Only by giving up these things can we be happier!
15. People are simple when they are young and complicated when they grow up; Simple when you are poor, complicated when you are rich; Simple when down and out, complicated when in power; Gentleman is simple, villain is complex; Simply look at yourself and look at others in a complicated way. The world is actually very simple, but people's hearts are very complicated. In fact, the human heart is also very simple, but the desire is very complicated. People are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy; People, when they are complicated, they suffer, but the people who suffer are bustling.
The sentences of social reality are too classic.
1. Fall, be sure to get up, don't get up. People will look down on you, and you will lose the opportunity.
2. If people who live like cockroaches have the resilience of cockroaches, what other days can't they live?
3, relying on strength, not relying on factions is not forever, strength is what you can rely on for a lifetime.
4. shine by yourself, don't wait for others to polish you. Who has the time and mood to polish you seriously?
5, every mountain should clear the way, and learn to do what you want when you meet the water bridge.
6, always run in front of subordinates, power leaders and friendship leaders are not as good as leaders.
7, using the cumulative method to expand assets is not a quick fix, no more, no less, no interruption.
8. Be patient for a while. When things are better than others, you must be patient.
9. Life is better than death, and death is better than living. This is a win-win situation and healthy competition.
10. Manage interpersonal relationships with the mentality of sowing. The sooner you sow the seeds, the tougher you will be.
1 1. Don't act rashly, it will only harm you.
12, when you meet a devil-type supervisor, accepting his tempering can make your character more and more tough.
13, don't quarrel with the supervisor in public, it will leave you no choice but to leave.
14. Learn new knowledge from people in different industries. Remember, you have to consult.
15, all difficulties are good. This is God's training for you, with the purpose of giving you the heavy responsibility.
16, do things with the mentality that losing is taking advantage, so as to grow rapidly.
17, don't talk about your pride in front of the frustrated and hurt your interpersonal relationship.
18, don't underestimate punctuality. Punctuality is respect for others.
19, judge people by time. Time is the master of inspection.
20. Look at people by asking questions and get to know that person by summarizing the information obtained.
2 1, set up a friend file to prevent others from hating less when using it.
22. Expand your circle of friends and take the initiative. Don't wait for others to come to you.
23. Flexible enemies who keep making friends can also become friends.
24. Make friends who like to repair you. Such a friend is your life coach.
25, self-recommendation, many benefits let others see you, know your existence, know your ability.
26. Beware of sudden warming of friendship. The correct attitude towards this friendship is: don't push and don't welcome, but return the favor.
27, be the second child, not the boss, the boss is not good, it is easy to become the third child and the fourth child.
28. The purpose of being a man is to win the respect and trust of others.
29. Exchange material benefits for human benefits. Material interests are temporary, while people's interests are long-term.
30. Don't just think about glory. Enjoy the glory today, and you may reap the consequences tomorrow.
3 1, finding a food and clothing parent can reduce your groping time.
32. Find an opponent to follow him and eventually surpass him.
33. Sit patiently on the bench and sit on the hot bench. What is there to be afraid of?
34. Applying other people's successful models can be a guide and give you a direction to follow.
35, secretly think of yourself as a boss or supervisor, and gradually cultivate your ability to be a boss or supervisor.
36. Don't be satisfied with the small achievements in front of you. Ask yourself: Is this my life?
37. Make yourself an expert in our bank as soon as possible. As long as you work hard, the iron pestle is ground into a needle.
38, don't have the idea of talent, talent is mostly caused by yourself.
Don't let past failures tie your hands and feet, or you will never achieve great things.
40. Don't make excuses for failure. You should face up to failure and find out the reason of failure quickly.
4 1, change the environment or change yourself. It is better to change yourself than to change the environment.
42. If you don't fight an uncertain battle, life can't afford to be wasted again and again.
43. Make self-reflection your daily homework. Because you are not perfect, you will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing.
44. Speaking of keeping a low profile, encourage yourself not to be shy.
45. Relying on other people's intelligence to do things, one's ability is limited.
46, always have a sense of crisis, don't think that your life is good or lucky.
47. Both the leading role and the supporting role can be played. Everyone on and off the stage is content with life, so it is necessary to practice flexible personality.
Learn to control your emotions. This is one of the most important signs of maturity.
49. Be a tortoise, not a rabbit. People with rabbit qualifications are prone to pride, and pride will become a stumbling block on the road to success.
50. Do small things first, earn small money first, and accumulate experience for doing big things and making big money.
5 1. If you make a mistake, you should honestly admit your mistake and quibble. This will only hurt you.
52. Friendship can last only if friends keep their distance.
53. Money chases people, and people chase health with health. Are you afraid of not making money?
54. Don't change careers easily. The risk is high. It's best not to act rashly.
55. Appropriately improve social status In the job market, people are also a commodity.
56. Turning dedication into a habit is for yourself in the long run.
It is necessary for the new official to tell others loudly that I am coming.
58, only 50 cents, not 1 dollar, only one chance to get a dollar.
59, put down the shelf, the road will get wider and wider, and the shelf will only bind your hands and feet.
60. Don't speak too well. The purpose is to leave room for accidents so as not to fail.
6 1. Become an expert in your field as soon as possible. If you work hard, you will succeed.
62. Praise others more and make people happy without spending money. Why not?
63. Respect the territorial scope of others and don't cause unnecessary trouble through negligence.
64. Don't confide your frustration easily, lest people think you are weak and incompetent.
65. The principle of interpersonal relationship is that only by giving up can you satisfy the other party and the other party will satisfy you.
66. Don't ignore the problem of losing face. Losing face is the most likely cause of right and wrong.
67. Properly handle the relationship with villains. Don't cling to him or offend him.
68. It is better not to block other people's money than to block other people's money. It's best not to open your own financial path.
69. Resolving others' jealousy with a low profile will burn a person's fire.
You don't have to do everything. There will always be people who are dissatisfied with you.
7 1, to understand and use selfishness in human nature, we must find ways to use the selfishness of others for our own benefit.
72. Follow Mao and he will listen to you. No matter how big your temper is, no matter how shrewd you are, no matter how strong your character is, you can't afford it.
73. Use positive actions to promote, persist, work hard and accumulate abilities.
74. Delay the rise and fall with caution. Many failures are the foreshadowing of prosperity.
75. When everything is ready, flowers will naturally work hard, and when to spend it will be arranged by God.