Introduction: Douyin marries love or destiny! This video you choose has become very popular recently. Many people are watching this video, but the full version of the video cannot be seen on Douyin. It is reported that this video can be found by searching on Weibo or iQiyi. Douyin marry love or destiny! Where can you choose the full version of the video?
Recently, there is a video on Douyin that is very popular, and the whole Internet is watching this video. This video is about the bride going to Her ex-boyfriend sat around her shop, and in the end he personally gave her a wedding car. The bride wrapped her arms around her ex-boyfriend’s neck and refused to let go. Friends who want to watch the full version of the video can find it on iQiyi or Weibo. Search for "Marry love or fate! You choose" to find the full version.
Friends who play Douyin in the past two days should be paying attention to a wedding video. The video is like this
A girl is getting married. She goes to her ex-boyfriend’s barber shop to wear her hair in a bun. The conversations during the process were very poignant.
Girl: I’m getting married, will you hate me?
Boy:...
This short sentence made many people who have similar experiences cry, or have experienced similar things, but Douyin Many people's comments appeared, and someone wrote:
Male: Marry love or fate?
Female: If you keep me, I will choose you;
Male: Forget it, I wish you happiness;
In fact, the boy said I wish you happiness , the sentence "I wish you happiness" contains too much, including happiness and tolerance. From then on, I completely let go...
There are many, many touching things in the world, and there are also many in the world. There are many unsatisfactory things; I hope that boys and girls will marry love. When you really marry love, there will not be so much sadness, not so much desolation, and not so many divorces in the world, so it doesn’t matter whether it’s a boy or a girl. No matter what, we all learn to understand and forgive; especially in this era that is full of temptation and pressure, whether it is the 1980s or the 1990s, we are all facing more pressure and challenges. Only by tolerating each other can we Mutual trust and mutual support can create better happiness and a better home. Nothing can replace this kind of happiness;
I wish all the children in the world who are in love or will be in love to cherish that love. Those who love you, cherish the person who is working hard to create happiness for you; similarly, do less things that will make you sorry for your future husband; I wish everyone in the world has a lover and a loving family, and I hope you find a person who loves you. Marry "love" or marry "material"? How would you choose?
Love and material things are like two sides. When it comes to choosing material things or love, everyone may have their own considerations. So how do you choose between material things and love? Some people may say that I want both love and material things. I want someone who has a certain material foundation and can give me love - that is, I love him and he loves me. But there is never a perfect thing in this world, and everything will not be as you wish. The reality is cruel. Sometimes you have to face the necessity of choosing one. The so-called healing cannot have both, so marry "Love" or marrying "materiality", how would you choose?
Some people say: Saito Aya, the heroine of "Tokyo Girls' Illustrated Book", cannot marry either "love" or "materiality" because she is too "greedy"? But looking at the whole play, you may feel that the character of Aya is difficult to summarize simply as "money worship" or "materialistic desire". Use "money worship" or "material desire" to criticize "Ling"'s dream and deny her struggle. After all, there is nothing wrong with people going to higher places. This is also the most basic law of survival in this real society. In fact, isn’t our ideal in this life just to live a good life? No longer repeat the pattern of the previous generation, no need to rely on anyone's charity, constantly modify yourself according to your own preferences, minimize the impact of your original family, growth setbacks, and social reality on you, and finally live the way you like. From this perspective, "Ling" has a clear purpose. She understands that living in the city means living in harmony with her own desires. In the end, she achieved her small goal in her career.
When Aya, the heroine of "Tokyo Girls' Illustrated Book", first came to Tokyo, she met her gentle and ordinary first boyfriend Naoki, and the two lived an ordinary and warm life. Ling said to herself in the mirror: "I want both sides." Aya was the happiest at that moment. She had just come to Tokyo from the countryside to change her destiny with her own persistence. She must have believed that this goal could be achieved through her own efforts. At this time, she felt that both her work and her relationship were perfect. She shared a box of takoyaki with her boyfriend on the street, had wine and food on weekend nights, and did the same thing with the person she loved. She had a little life of her own. fortunate.
In the rental house, Aya was lying on the bed looking at her boyfriend, "Being with Naoki is very happy, but if this kind of happiness is everywhere in Akita, why should I spend so much money? When did I come to Tokyo from Akita?" The frantic *** urged Aya to pursue a better life, bid farewell to Sancha, she moved into the fashionable and elegant Ebisu, her career was going smoothly, and she invested in Ebisu. In the arms of Takayuki, a long-lived, rich and handsome elite man, he quickly started a new relationship and lived a so-called "enviable life".
However, at the age of 30, she was broken up by her rich second-generation boyfriend. After leaving her rich second-generation boyfriend, her salary could no longer support her consumption. Aya then moved to a better company, Gucci, and moved from Ebiji Temple, where young girls gathered, to the more prosperous Ginza. Becoming the mistress of a rich man, she finally fulfilled her vain dream when she was young in her early thirties: living in the most prosperous place in Tokyo, having dates at Michelin restaurants, and wearing a piece of clothing worth someone else's money for a month. salary, to become a successful woman published in magazines...
The most widely circulated sentence that is evaluated as a money worshiper is: "I would rather cry on a BMW than cry in a BMW." I am willing to sit on the back of a bicycle and laugh..."; Material things are what everyone needs. Even the most pure and romantic love exists based on reality. As long as it is in reality, it will inevitably contain vulgarity. The ingredients are in it.
I remember a clip from the movie "Love Is Not Blind" that I watched before: Huang Xiaoxian said: There is a way for girls to love you, which is to take you to a department store and give you a chance to love them. Consumption, another kind of girl is to trick you, kiss you sincerely in a beautiful scenery, and let you see how dreamy the little night in Beijing is...",
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I think not every girl who cries in a BMW does it for admiration. Vanity, many people say that this type of woman is a money worshipper, but is there anything wrong with money worship? Everyone has the right to pursue a better material life, whether it is the "she" who is crying in the BMW or the one who is laughing behind the bicycle. That "she", whether it is the "she" who chooses expensive LV or the "she" who chooses love, is pursuing the beautiful life she yearns for. There is nothing wrong with choosing love or material things. It is just your pursuit. The way to live a better life. I don’t comment on which girl’s choice is better, I just want to say that there are more choices and more laughter.
Just like Ling lost herself in desire, fortunately the ending is not the same. It’s not a pity that the screenwriter gave an open ending. Perhaps it should be said that it is not an ending. At the age of 40, she returned to Nakamise Street and Suzuran Street in front of the tram station, still the same as at the beginning of the year. It's the same as when I arrived in Tokyo, a bit outdated and a bit rustic, but the most stable one. I want to live a good life without giving up my work. I long for a refined life but don't want to pretend to be myself. I want to consume meticulously but don't want to be half-satisfied. At this time, Ling finally realized that life is different from the stereotyped imagination she saw through the narrow window of fashion magazines in her youth. There are still many ways in life besides climbing the pyramid.
Love and material things are like AB. On both sides, everyone may have their own considerations when it comes to choosing "material" or "love." So when it comes to material and love, how do you choose? In fact, no matter you choose "love" or "material", as long as that It is the most appropriate and correct choice that you think is the right choice at the moment, and that is enough.
It is like there are too many career women around who are doing well, and suddenly one day they run away without saying a word. Married. Maybe the husband was introduced by a friend or met on a blind date. In short, it doesn't matter whether the spouse is handsome, interesting or not. It's not a compromise, but an indispensable step in the life they plan for themselves: to have a stable family, lovely children, and then continue to do what they want to do.
Can you say that they are sloppy? Do you feel sorry for them? They have made what they think is the most appropriate and correct choice at the moment, and they have seized stable happiness. They are the winners in life in the eyes of others.
None of us can define what a truly "enviable life" looks like. The multi-faceted nature of life lies in the fact that there is not only one standard for envy. There is always one aspect of each person that makes people enviable, and If a person in it never feels satisfied and is driven forward by eternal desires, he will always worry about gains and losses like "Ling".
In fact, life is so short, you don’t have to care about other people’s opinions, just try your best to live the way you want to live. Live in the present, do not regret the past, and live up to the present. I hope everyone can live the way they want and achieve their own definition of happiness.