There is one in our town. A man who marries his first wife can't have children. Divorced and married another. Or infertility. Finally, I found a beautiful young woman, brought a son, got married and gave birth to a daughter. Men are often away from home, and women can't stand loneliness. Chatting on mobile phone WeChat, different men often drive to pick her up. Send it back at night! Rumors spread to men, and men stayed together for this family. Take his wife. As soon as this man comes back. The villagers are talking behind their backs!
Marry a beautiful daughter-in-law, you can't stay. People who have money and cars miss these beautiful things!
There is an old saying in the countryside that an ugly wife wears a thin cotton-padded jacket. Although this is a bit ridiculous, it sounds reasonable. On the surface, the ugly wife's thin cotton-padded jacket is disgraceful, but no one can argue with you about it, so that she can live a down-to-earth life and save a lot of trouble, because ugly people generally feel inferior, have no bad feelings and only know how to treat you wholeheartedly.
Women are too beautiful to cause trouble, and you bring you a lot of unnecessary trouble.
If you want to have a beautiful wife, you must be able to attract her and protect her, otherwise, your marriage may not be happy.
There is an 800,000 imperial coach Lin Chong on the Water Margin, who is famous for his martial arts. Just because his daughter-in-law was beautiful, she was framed by Gao Yanei and finally forced to rebel.
There is also a Wu Dalang on the Water Margin, whose daughter-in-law is more beautiful. Finally, he was seduced by Ximen Qing, and the victim was killed!
I'm not saying you can't marry a beautiful daughter-in-law, just see if you can handle it.
There is an old saying in the countryside that a good man has no good wife and a lazy man marries a flower girl. It is lucky to get a beautiful wife, but at the same time it will also cause certain psychological pressure, which will make men feel insecure and anxious, more likely to be jealous and make men abnormal.
There is a TV series called "Don't Talk to Strangers", which is about a brain surgeon An Jiahe (Feng Shi) who has always suspected that his wife is having an affair because of his distorted personality, abused him in various ways, and finally became a murderer.
A friend of mine, whose wife is very beautiful, is jealous whenever a man talks to her. He is always afraid that she will cuckold herself, not let her go to work and leave her at home as a housewife. Later, because of loneliness, he met a man online, and now they are divorced. He still can't forget that woman. He wants it back. I don't know how much it cost, but the woman still doesn't look back, just outside.
I'm just saying this to make you understand a truth. To be a man, you should learn to be content and be grateful. Since you have chosen, you should cherish it, not dislike it. If you think she is ugly, you don't love her enough.
Beautiful or not, there is no accurate definition. A kind woman is the most beautiful. Love her well and don't make her sad. Or you can teach her later. At that time, it was too late for you to cry!
I'm Brother Yue. Thank you for reading. I hope my answer is helpful to you.
Do you think your wife is not beautiful enough? There are many ways to make your wife beautiful.
As long as you are willing, recommend the following ways for reference, which can make your wife more beautiful.
First, the appearance. Clothes make the man, but beauty makes the face.
1. Get dressed. Give your wife enough money to match it. Don't just go to online stores. I believe that the salespeople in shopping malls have the strength to match clothes. The money is in place, the quality of clothes has gone up, and it is difficult to be beautiful as a whole.
2. facial modification.
① Cosmetics are fully equipped, from basic skin care to make-up. If your wife can't make up, no problem, self-study online or directly enroll in a makeup class for training, which will make you shine in one month.
2 If you feel that there is still room for your wife's facial features, will the beauty salon consider it? Micro plastic surgery. Do you think it's strange that the plastic surgery department of the hospital also went to see it? Considering your wife's specific situation and your aesthetic needs, I believe you will see a beautiful face that you like and make you feel proud.
3. Body shape.
Your wife is neither too fat nor too thin, and her figure is not hot enough. Various professional plastic surgeons and fitness instructors are definitely your good partners on the way to make your wife beautiful. If nothing else, just sign up for a reliable personal education in the fitness center near your home. I believe my wife will make you look good in half a year.
Second, temperament. Temperament makes beauty more beautiful.
1. Read. Reading is one of the quick and simple ways to make people have temperament. Give your wife time to write early Tang poetry and late Song poetry, and bury herself in a pile of books during the day. She can't do anything without reading dozens of classic books carefully. Have a beautiful prose poem before going to bed. Over time, you will find her changes and feel the beauty that permeates from her bones.
2. Learn to paint with tea, learn to paint with piano, and accept artistic edification. Of course, this is only a small example, such as pottery, flower arrangement and wine tasting, which is also a good choice. I believe that among many art categories, there must be one that your wife likes or you like. Persist in learning, and with the mutual promotion of students around you, temperament will naturally come, and beauty is just an add-on.
3. Words and deeds. 1 and 2 can optimize this point, but if you want to see the effect as soon as possible, you can consider taking special oral art courses, professional etiquette training, or even precise customized training that meets your aesthetic needs. If your wife studies hard for a while, her gestures will make you addicted.
Third, a good figure.
This is a bit repetitive with the first point, but what I want to emphasize here is that good health requires not only exercise, but also good sleep and good mood. Therefore, letting her go to bed early and get up early, making her happy, will naturally not grow old quickly, and will also make the beauty cultivated after the combination of the first point and the second point more lasting.
1. Do as much housework as possible. If possible, you can ask a nanny to do all the housework and keep your wife's fingers clean, as long as they are beautiful every day. Don't let your wife take care of the children, lest you get angry with your homework. If it's adolescence, yes. If not, you can ask a professional tutor to take care of it.
2. Praise your wife more. Not only the husband praises, but also mobilizes the whole family to praise together. For example, she is getting more beautiful every day, she can buy things, and she has made progress in her studies. All kinds of sweet words can be praised casually as long as they are worthy of her. I believe she feels very comfortable every day, and she smiles like a flower, which makes you look good.
At this point, what should I do if my wife is not beautiful? We already have a little idea. Next, my wife is very kind.
Kindness is definitely a plus for my wife! Imagine that a kind wife, under your cultivation, has become beautiful again, and she will naturally thank you and repay you. Don't worry that after investing in her, she will turn her face and deny people, not to mention that she will become beautiful and reflect on whether her husband is not handsome enough.
A kind woman can warm a family and protect a home.
A kind woman has her own bottom line. She will not abandon her husband and children easily, and will not fight evil with evil. She will only touch people with kindness.
Such a kind wife is the happiness that many people can't dream of. Please insist on tempting her with sweet words, spend money casually, and don't let her find someone else.
My wife is not beautiful, but what if she is kind at heart!
A: How can you tell that my wife is not beautiful? Now I say she is not beautiful. As a woman, if I heard my husband say that I was not beautiful, I would answer that you were blind. Get along well, life is the most important thing. Being together ... is only useful if you can take care of your family. It's no use dressing yourself up if you don't look good and filial to your parents. Marry such a wife, and you will suffer. Just a personal suggestion.
Wife is not beautiful, not girlfriend is not beautiful. Does this questioner have a crush on beauty?
There are not many beautiful people now, and there are not many people who are particularly kind. You can get plastic surgery if you are beautiful, but you can't get good people.
When I was young, the first impression I saw a woman was her appearance. After so many years of marriage, what really survived was her personality. As the ancients said, there is a good wife at home and everything is safe. It is your honor to have such a baby at home. Don't have any distractions. Of course, if economic conditions permit, you can also give your wife a full face. As the saying goes, three points looks and seven points dresses. The dress should not be bad.
What if my wife is not beautiful? But I'm kind at heart? What if my wife is not beautiful? I speak very bluntly. What did the blind date do? Your wife is a blind date wrapped in paper? It doesn't matter if you are not beautiful, as long as you are kind-hearted, considerate of your husband and responsible for your family, your kindness in your heart is really beautiful. I don't know what you think. Now it seems that you have a problem with your wife. Remember, you are lucky, beautiful in appearance, not beautiful, but kind in heart.
"Broke my heart by brown embryo jade"
There is a beautiful woman, I will never forget her.
I want to go crazy if I can't see you for a day.
The phoenix flies high, and the four seas seek to burn.
Helpless beauty, not in the east wall.
Use the piano instead of language. Tell me about it.
When to see Xu Xi, comfort me.
Willing to match virtue with words and work together.
I can't fly, which makes me fall.
Feng Feng returned to his hometown,
Traveling around the world is a dream.
I don't know what to do if I don't meet,
He Wu today, Xi Shengsitang!
In the boudoir with a beautiful lady,
The people in the room poisoned my intestines.
Why do you want to be a mandarin duck?
Hu Hao Xi * * * has taken off!
Burn, burn, live by me,
I will always be a princess.
Friendship, understanding and harmony,
Who knows at midnight?
Fly high,
I don't feel anything. My thoughts make me sad.
If you call her wife, you should get married legally. What if my wife is not beautiful? But my heart is very kind! In fact, you already have the answer to this question in your heart. You tell everyone that she is very kind inside, which shows that you are interested in her inner beauty, not her appearance. Since you have made such a choice, you must stick to it all your life and don't talk nonsense. Besides, you certainly didn't discover her true colors just now. You must have decided to get married after a period of love and understanding, and now you say she is not beautiful. What are we doing? Aren't we hitting ourselves in the face?
It is not for you to decide whether you are beautiful or not, because everyone's aesthetic standards are different. It is normal for the same woman to have different views on her beauty. Unless she is extremely ugly, or her face is scarred and incomplete, everyone says she is ugly, which is recognized as an ugly woman. Otherwise, most women in this world are generally controversial in appearance, and there are very few really beautiful women. What's more, in such a long history, only the "four beauties" have had legends.
Meeting in this life is a debt of a previous life, your wife is your lover in a previous life, and it is your's fate to be together in this life. Cherish it! Friend!
You agree that married people are also the right people for you. Your choice before marriage, I think she was so beautiful at that time. What you think is not good now is a lack of responsibility for yourself, and even more irresponsible for yourself and your marriage. Adjust yourself and find each other's advantages!
The word "femme fatale" has been heard! If you can't control a beautiful woman, marrying a family may bring you disaster. There are many people who blindly pursue vanity in appearance, and it is often difficult for such women to keep a family.
You've heard of "the treasure of an ugly wife's house"! People's external lack is precisely the source of their pursuit of Excellence in other aspects. "Ugly wife" doesn't make trouble, is diligent, well-managed and self-disciplined, which may make your family prosperous for three generations!
In the absence of height, people are most concerned about objective conditions and vanity of appearance. When people are developed, they begin to get carried away. When people have height, they begin to care about their inner qualities!
It is an indisputable fact that men love beautiful women! But you married people at home and called them wives. Now you say they are not beautiful? When you are willing to marry her, it means that she is not particularly unattractive, at least you can see the past. If you can't stand it, don't marry her. Men are not married, and looking for a girlfriend likes the beautiful kind, which is * * * sex. If you want to get married, you'd better find a general and practical life. External beauty cannot last long, only internal beauty can last forever. The teacher taught us from an early age that we should look at people from the inside out, no matter how beautiful the appearance is, but how dirty the heart is. Do you dare to bring such a person? You can spend your life with her. It would be nice if I didn't give you some color. Besides, it is not easy to make a not-so-beautiful person beautiful with cosmetics now. My wife is not beautiful, which may also mean that people don't want to dress up and spend money on cosmetics. They just want to save you some money and take care of your family. You said that your wife is not beautiful, which means that you are a little fond of the new and tired of the old. The most important thing is your ability. Don't worry too much if the family conditions are ok. I think a normal woman should spend some time on this dress in her spare time. After all, women love beauty. You don't love a kind-hearted person who thinks of you everywhere, and you still dislike this and that. It's true that you like beautiful people, but please remember that the only person who can accompany you for a lifetime is the person around you who you don't think is very beautiful!