Then, we got married and my ex-wife was pregnant. I took my mother from my hometown to take care of my wife. After giving birth, my wife came back to work. My mother is busy at home alone, taking care of the children, cooking and doing housework. The ex-wife came home, had dinner, went to bed to play with her mobile phone and thought about work. She never mistreated my mother with money, and gave her thousands of pocket money.
After a long time, my mother felt very uncomfortable, feeling like a nanny, busy all day, not like a member of this family at all. I have communicated with my wife and asked her to take care of my mother's feelings in life and make her feel at home. My ex-wife really listened to me, helping my mother with housework, washing dishes and mopping the floor and so on. But doing something hastily made my mother even angrier and felt that she was coping. I was upset by the constant nagging in my ear.
Since then, we have often had conflicts. My wife said she was tired after a day's work, and my mother had nothing to do at home. Why does she care so much? She made it clear that she had a problem with her. What my ex-wife said is reasonable, and I can't refute it, but it's hard for me to get caught between my mother and my ex-wife.
Later, my ex-wife often went on business trips, and her heart was very lost. At this time, the company came to a girl, seven years old and cheerful. She likes to stick to me, and any gift can satisfy her. Then, we had a relationship that should not have happened. Once I was drunk and didn't take safety measures. She is pregnant.
At the same time, my ex-wife found out about my infidelity, tore her face with me angrily, decisively signed a divorce and led the children to live alone. I brought home a girl seven years younger than me. She is very concerned about my mother, and she is still rushing to do housework when she is pregnant. My mother happily praised her diligence and was the daughter-in-law she wanted. When she was three months old, she began to show her belly. I quickened my pace and got married.
She is not as absorbed in her work as my ex-wife. After giving birth, she didn't want to go out to work, so the pressure of making money fell on me. Being so old and so young, I dare not stop and try my best to make money. Travel is also a common occurrence. We have been married for a year. I came back from a business trip some time ago and didn't greet my family in advance. I want to surprise my wife, because today is her birthday.
I called my wife's name after I came in, but no one answered me. The mother came out with the baby in her arms. Seeing me back, she looked surprised and asked me to sit down and rest. I think my mother looks pale and her eyes are red, as if she had cried.
To comfort my mother. If she is uncomfortable, it may be that she has accumulated too many grievances. She couldn't hold back for a while and cried and said, "Son, your daughter-in-law is not a fuel-efficient lamp. As soon as you go on a business trip, she runs like hell. When I came back, I smelled of alcohol, and the child didn't care. She had a video chat with an irresponsible man and threatened me not to tell you. If anything happens, I will call my mother. I feel sorry for you. At the beginning, a woman was so kind to her former daughter-in-law and didn't cherish it. Now it is also retribution. "
I called my wife. She is very noisy. I asked her where she was, and she said seriously that mother and children were shopping in the supermarket. I got angry at that time, scolded her and went home. I am full of anger. I filed for divorce and told her to get out of this house. At that moment, I suddenly thought of my ex-wife. If I communicated well, I wouldn't betray my marriage. Maybe I'm happy now. Now, my ex-wife, can you still be with me?
Reply:
When you are in a comfortable life, you will find fault with each other, and even some of her minor faults will be infinitely magnified around you. Your mother feels like a nanny, busy at home. And your wife, who earns money all day, doesn't have that much energy at all, and probably lives at home.
She gave your mother money not to send her away, but to show her filial piety. According to your mother, if you send her away as a nanny, then your wife can hire a nanny. Why is she so angry? You misunderstood what she did and used cheating to vent your dissatisfaction with marriage. Now you get what you deserve, but you think of your ex-wife's kindness. This immoral practice is simply not feasible.
Personal advice, don't disturb your wife's life. You have remarried, and your ex-wife has a life. Gentlemen do not interfere with each other. Now, it is important to deal with your present marriage. Analyze the shortcomings of your current marriage and communicate more. You already have children. Don't be so impulsive.