Improve communication methods
When children are disobedient and rebellious, parents are not advised to directly reprimand or strongly demand their children to complete something. Instead, it is necessary to improve communication methods, such as patiently communicating with children to avoid the pressure and emotions in their hearts. Through communication, children can clear their minds and get solutions to problems.
Be good at listening
8-year-old children can express their ideas clearly, but if parents are not good at listening at this time, they may have resistance, which may lead to children's reluctance to express their ideas in the future, forming a vicious circle.
Trust and tolerance
There will inevitably be some misunderstandings in life. Parents need to believe in their children's kindness and integrity as much as possible and think from their children's point of view. If children do it right, they should be fully encouraged. Moreover, 8-year-old children have poor emotional control over themselves, so they need more tolerance from their parents to avoid being rebellious and disobedient.
Establish/make rules
Eight-year-old children have gradually established their own concept of judging right and wrong, and their self-awareness has begun to strengthen. Parents can start making rules on an equal level with their children, so that children can understand the benefits of obeying the rules and help regulate their behavior.
lead by example
Parents' behavior will exert a subtle influence on children, so try to avoid quarreling and losing your temper in front of children, and parents should keep calm when they encounter problems that cannot be solved. Pay attention to your parents' words and deeds and set an example. Children's means are mostly the embodiment of parents. The noble character of parents exerts a subtle influence on children and sets a good example for them.