I was diagnosed with breast cancer on 20 18. At that time, I couldn't accept it at once, because I couldn't figure out why it was me, why I got cancer, and my children were young and my parents needed care. But my family gave me the greatest encouragement and care, and the doctor also gave me the knowledge of breast cancer and advised me to relax.
I had a left mastectomy and axillary lymph node dissection, thinking that chemotherapy would follow. I am very scared because I see the painful reaction of my chemotherapy patients every day. At that time, my patients and doctors also advised me not to be afraid. It was killing cancer cells. Only in this way can we become better.
A week later, the pathological results came out. I remember that day clearly. The result should have come out on the first day, but the doctor never said it, and he had a bad feeling in his heart. Early in the morning, the doctor called me to the ward and said that your results had come out. He asked my husband to come with you. My grades should be good, staging and typing are good, and chemotherapy is not needed. I'm really excited to get the news. I have been undergoing endocrine therapy since I was discharged from the hospital, and I have recovered well at present.
Because of illness and breast cancer, I know more about breast cancer. The cure rate of breast cancer is getting higher and higher, especially in the early stage. I have met many sisters who suffer from breast cancer like me. Everyone's age, illness and treatment are different, but everyone's positive treatment attitude is the same. Too many sisters have returned to normal life through formal treatment.
Breast cancer is mostly related to anger, bad mood, great pressure in life, bad living habits and eating habits. In retrospect, I did win a lot. Now I have changed a lot because of my illness, but many small problems have disappeared. Because of my illness, I feel very relaxed and relaxed.
I also want to advise my sisters who suffer from breast cancer like me to be optimistic, because through formal treatment, we will have a good result, maintain a good attitude, maintain good living habits, do not bow to fate, and move forward bravely, and we can also have a good life.
I don't know your age and cancer. But I have breast cancer myself. It was diagnosed in April this year. I just turned 30 this year. I'm not married and have no children. But I'm not sad. I haven't cried because of this disease so far. Although I have hesitated, I think it is a good thing that it is breast cancer. Although it also moved under my arm, fortunately, it did not spread to organs. Compared with others, we are lucky. This disease is now a chronic disease. There are many drugs that can be reimbursed, many schemes and various policies. So as long as you believe in yourself, there is no problem with this disease. There was nothing before, and you can live so long after cutting it, let alone now. So come on, patient, don't think too much, give yourself a relaxed environment and accept treatment with peace of mind. It's okay [Ross] [Ross] [Ross]
20 1 1 year, I unfortunately got breast cancer.
Because the tumor was too big to operate, I did several chemotherapy in the early stage. At that time, I was still very happy.
I had the operation on 20 12.
When I changed my dressing for the first time, I took a look at my wound and collapsed instantly.
I cried all day that day. I never cried from knowing that I had cancer to chemotherapy, but I cried that day.
For a long time after that, I didn't accept the fact that I was incomplete.
With breast cancer, the most sad thing for women is the psychological level.
But I didn't realize at that time, what is breast lifelong?
In order to lose my breasts for many years, I have been unable to open my eyes, depressed, inferior and sad.
It's really not worth thinking about now. Being alive is a very lucky thing. I should have cherished my health and happy life.
If I had understood these truths nine years ago, accepted them positively and lived, I wouldn't have moved now.
But it's not too late. Now I am very happy, and I no longer regard breast cancer as something that can make me miserable.
Getting breast cancer is not terrible. Breast cancer is now a chronic disease. Keep a good attitude, be optimistic and positive, and we will become better.
Imperfection is also a kind of beauty, so is living. Any beauty is not worth mentioning in front of life, because life is the most beautiful.
If you have breast cancer, you can treat it. It's nothing difficult. 65438+had an operation in March 2008, which was particularly helpless. I don't know what I will do next.
At first, I learned that I had cancer and was in Lacrimosa every day, but I gradually accepted the reality. The treatment is always treatment.
Chemotherapy is particularly painful, but that's it. I also did expensive targeted radiotherapy, and I made all the luxury packages.
Do I know that I am a genetic mutation? I am particularly prone to relapse. I think it's always good to spend so much money after all the luxury packages are made.
As a result, the other breast was diagnosed as breast cancer last year, so let's continue treatment. Anyway, one is also treating two.
Now there is bone metastasis, and it was also very collapsed. I didn't expect the recurrence to be so fast, but I feel that I have experienced so much and it is not as uncomfortable as it was at the beginning.
I don't feel as helpless as I did at first. It's so bad anyway. what can I do? Treat it.
I survived, but it doesn't matter now! Cross the bridge when you come to it!
So there's nothing hard to do. Peace of mind treatment, trust the doctor!
Come on, come on, come on, be strong, thank you for your concern and understanding, love you!
Dear, I was diagnosed on August 27, 20 18. At that time, the tumor was 5 cm in size, and it was suspected that it had metastasized to the lumbar spine! At that time, I was diagnosed as only 26 years old. I am the only child in my family, and my husband is not sensible. I don't usually care about things at home. There are two sons at home, and the youngest son is less than four years old! The road in front of me is just as confused! Breast cancer is basically a chronic disease now. Although I was a little sad after the treatment, I survived. It's good now, and the follow-up has been good. What you need to believe is that you are lucky. You don't have liver cancer or lung cancer, but breast cancer. The cure rate of breast cancer is very high! And there are many treatment methods, so you need to listen to the doctor's standardized treatment and standardized review! I was treated in Chengdu Huaxi Hospital! You can trust me privately if you need any advice!
What if breast cancer can't stand it?
Although a little "mean", when my sister was diagnosed with gastric cancer at the age of 28 (the child just turned 4 months old), we enlightened her like this.
First, there is no worst, only worse.
During that time, I collected all kinds of "human tragedies" on the Internet, and then used my "wisdom" to "process" (there are too many such news, you can look for them on the Internet at will). After listening to this, my sister made a little comparison and felt a little better. Of course, this method is a bit unkind.
Second, the incentive for successful people on the road to cancer prevention.
We found a large number of cases of long-term survival with tumors and told them to our sister. Especially people you know around you or relatives of people you know, think that people who are successful in fighting cancer can better stimulate their sister's anti-cancer information.
Third, the encouragement of oncologists.
I think the most effective encouragement for my sister is Professor Tamia Liu and Professor Zhang Tao from wuhan union hospital. Their encouragement strengthened my sister's anti-cancer confidence!
After the pathological results came out, Professor Tamia Liu told my sister that your pathological classification was the earliest in the whole ward (I later learned that it was actually a lie, but I really thanked him for telling my sister like that). Plus, you are still young, treated in time, and our surgery is in place, so there is no problem for you to live like a normal person in the future.
Professor Zhang Tao was our consultant professor (recommended by Professor Tamia Liu) when we returned to Shenzhen for chemotherapy. He is a very elegant doctor and told my sister that he has seen many patients whose clinical conditions are much worse than my sister's, and their prognosis is very good.
The encouragement of these two professors can be said to have caused a great psychological call to my sister. I was afraid of chemotherapy at first, but I took the initiative to resist chemotherapy for 8 times!
The last point should be mutual encouragement and support of patients. My sister still keeps in touch with the fellow villagers in Hubei who had surgery together before and exchanges rehabilitation experience.
In fact, since the development of medicine, cancer is no longer a terminal disease, and it is difficult for most people to accept that it is only temporary. Of course, a few people will not choose extreme ways to solve it.
Personally, life is only once for everyone and must be cherished. Seeing a professional doctor as soon as possible, formal treatment is the most important.
I just saw the invitation to this question and answered it late.
I am also a mother with breast cancer, and I am 43 years old. 20 18.3 surgery, chemotherapy, targeted therapy, endocrine therapy, abdominal acupuncture, three-month review, my typing is three positive, her2 positive, gene mutation, belonging to high-risk value.
It's been three years. Think about this process, it is more sad when chemotherapy. After we bite our teeth and persist, we are normal people.
I am grateful for my present life, cherish every day I live, and live a happy life with high quality. At this age, the adolescence of children, the critical period of lover's career, and the old age of four people in their seventies, we have great responsibilities and must work hard to complete the task.
At the same time, I am grateful for this disease, get rid of my bad mood and bad temper, stop making it difficult for me to compete, stop staying up late and working hard, quit greasy and spicy diet, and everything will return to a healthy life.
Be grateful to your family and take care of yourself. My in-laws never let me do housework, and often I buy whatever I want. Specially planted a small vegetable field, eating pollution-free fresh vegetables.
Now, I exercise, swim, walk and climb mountains every day. The most important thing is to bask in the sun and supplement calcium. I am no longer afraid of the dark. Nothing is more important than health.
Everything is so beautiful, sister. You'll know how beautiful life is when you pass the dark period. I can't understand what others say, so I have to learn slowly. Maybe there will be all kinds of disappointments during the treatment, but we are responsible for ourselves and must grit our teeth and get through it. Don't be sad, it's bad for our immunity. When we get better, let the world see that we are more attractive.
You can communicate with your best friend. If you don't want to meet anyone, that's fine. Just go out for a walk to bask in the sun and see all kinds of flowers. Go back to eat and rest when you are tired. No matter how sad you are, put on your favorite music to clean up and tidy up the closet. Find something to do for yourself, and you can't keep thinking about it, so you can't walk out of a dead end.
Let's fight cancer together and strive for a better life!
/kloc-diagnosed in March of 0/8. At first, I felt that the sky was falling. I often cried secretly in the days before the operation, and the only thing I couldn't let go was the child. Later, I slowly accepted the reality and cooperated with treatment with peace of mind. At that time, I felt that my mentality was the most critical and I was worried about recurrence. Later, I saw a sentence that impressed me deeply: whether you are worried or not, what should come will come. Instead of living in fear every day, it is better to let go of all worries and live every day.
I believe that no one can survive cancer, but some people adjust quickly, some people adjust slowly, and some people find it difficult to adjust and accept. Breast cancer is also a kind of cancer, and it is a major disease that seriously threatens the life and health of patients. It is easy to persuade people to relax, but it is not easy for the parties.
So how do you understand breast cancer?
First, breast cancer: the most common malignant tumor in women
Admittedly, the incidence of breast cancer is really high.
Together with cervical cancer, it is called the two major beauty killers of women. According to statistics, in 20 15 years, there were 2.4 million new cases of female breast cancer worldwide, accounting for 25% of all female malignant tumors.
In the same year, 0/5% of newly diagnosed female malignant tumor in China was breast cancer, although the proportion was lower than the global level, it also reached about 260,000 cases per year.
It should be noted that in the past decade, the incidence of breast cancer in China has nearly doubled, and the incidence trend is younger, which seriously threatens women's physical and mental health.
Second, breast cancer: not equal to being sentenced to death.
Breast cancer is a malignant tumor, which will directly threaten women's physical and mental health once it occurs.
Fortunately, the mortality rate of female breast cancer in China is lower than the average level of developed and developing countries in the world, which is also a good thing for women in China.
And breast cancer is not hopeless, nor is it sentenced to death.
As far as primary breast cancer is concerned, the 5-year survival rate of primary breast cancer, ductal carcinoma in situ and lobular carcinoma in situ has exceeded 95%.
In other words, as long as breast cancer is found, diagnosed and treated early, its prognosis is generally very ideal.
Third, what should I do if I get breast cancer?
First of all, compared with other malignant tumors, breast cancer is "mild", especially after several generations of medical efforts, new technologies, new equipment and new instruments emerge one after another, which have been applied to the diagnosis and treatment of breast cancer and achieved good therapeutic effects.
Secondly, it is normal for patients to think hard, and their relatives and friends should understand. And give patients more guidance and support in life and psychology.
Say a few words to my best friend:
Hello, I'm Dr. Bell, a gland surgeon.
Breast cancer is one of the most common malignant tumors in women, and its incidence is increasing day by day. Many people may have friends with breast cancer patients.
Many breast cancers have a good prognosis. The specific information of this friend is not clear. Staging and classification of breast cancer are very important. If the stage is early and the classification belongs to luminal type, these are good signals. Don't worry, many patients have a good quality of life.
Even if the staging is late, many patients can survive for a long time after comprehensive treatment.
Communicate with patients. Many breast cancer patients in our department have become good friends. When they were hospitalized many times, they got to know each other and encouraged each other. Open your heart and relieve your troubles.
There is also the patient's WeChat group, where everyone shares knowledge about breast cancer. This truly empathetic form of "supporting society" will greatly alleviate depression.
Understand and be familiar with breast cancer. Many friends talk about "cancer" discoloration. If you take the initiative to understand and be familiar with breast cancer, you will find that it is not so terrible.
One patient taught himself the latest breast cancer diagnosis and treatment plan and will share it with us. This desire and hard work for life is worth her to get a better future.
It is very important to have a regular life and keep a good mood. Traveling, daily exercise and cultivating some hobbies can divert anxiety about cancer and get happiness from life.
Hello, I'm Dr. Bell, a gland surgeon.
I wish everyone a happy life and good health ~!