1, tenderness is not a unique feature of southern girls, but it is often felt in many southern girls. Perhaps this is why southern girls are more popular with boys. Of course, it's not that the girls in the north are not good enough, but that both of them have their own characteristics, just as the characteristics of the girls in the south are more in line with some of the boys' aesthetics. Gentle personality is easier for boys to accept, and it is more attractive in itself, which can stimulate men's instinctive desire for protection. Of course, it is also important that gentle girls are willing to respond to boys more actively, so that boys can feel concerned and valued here. This will make men feel warm. A confident woman is the most beautiful woman in the world. Moreover, confident people often have an irresistible quality. From the way girls talk to their manners, women will be the object of attention. Such a woman will neither cater to the aesthetics of others, nor deliberately please others. She has her own set of standards and values. This often makes men feel that such a woman is more attractive. 3, natural beauty I don't know if you have found out, there are very few women who like heavy makeup now. More people like the natural beauty of girls. In particular, the popularity of plastic surgery technology has made men psychologically resistant to plastic surgeons. Perhaps the physical attraction has become stronger, but this will not make women get long-term attention and love. Cultivating their own natural beauty has become a more important thing for women to enhance their charm. For example, we can keep exercising, reading, eating and sleeping regularly and so on. Women's natural beauty will be reflected through the spirit, which is what men value most. 4. Initiative In the development of a relationship, men often play an active role, but if you want a man to be unable to refuse you, then it may not be a bad thing for you to be active. When women are more active, all love processes will change and things will become more exciting. Because men's initiative often means simple and reproducible popular practices, such as eating, watching movies and shopping, which have almost become routine operations. And if girls are more active, the place where they get along will become wider, full of adventure and temptation. In this way, it will be easier and happier to get along with each other, and the relationship between the two people will progress faster. There is no shortage of smart women in this world. In many film and television works, the confrontation between men and women often turns into a love contest. Although men like to have an advantage in communication, they are also eager to meet evenly matched women. Of course, this kind of cleverness does not mean an advantage in academic qualifications, but can communicate with women more smoothly. Even in some views, women have enough reasons and ideas to convince each other. Look at those so-called couples who agree. They talked endlessly, just like old friends for years. In fact, the most important factor is that women are smart enough to accept some views of men in this conversation. So being smart is not omniscient, but it will make us more accessible and get to know each other. 6. Humor is not a unique charm of men. Humor in girls can often impress men. Men also like girls with a sense of humor. As the old saying goes, beautiful skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. With humorous girls, men will be more relaxed and relaxed, and the topic will always be interesting. Maintaining a humorous way of communication is actually a recognition of a certain relationship. At the same time, humorous communication is also a way for us to send some signals to each other. 7, independent modern society, in fact, women are already very independent, but independence does not mean isolation. A woman's independence should have her own interests, her own goals and her own life. We are strong but not extreme. Men actually like independent women, especially in intimate relationships, men tend to find a "marriage partner" to run a family together. If a woman loses her independence, it means that she will become a "parasite" of the family in the future, thus causing frequent marital conflicts. So this is why men prefer independent women. Of course, independent women may overdo it now, which requires us to grasp the scale. 8. Passionate and passionate women tend to attract men more easily. Passion and tenderness do not conflict. Passion is an intrinsic trait and an attitude towards life. You will find that passionate women's homes are always full of poetry, beautiful flowers, lovely animals and clean environment. On the contrary, those women who loaf around are always in a mess in their rooms, and even make you doubt whether people can live in such an environment. Passion is a yearning for life, career or family, and it also makes men feel that women are serious and irreplaceable. 9. Nothing is more charming or attractive than a real woman. The biggest feature of women is that they don't like to admit their mistakes. The closer the relationship, the more so. Women always like to occupy a strong position in a wrong theory. This behavior seems to be a way for women to seek security and preference, but it also greatly reduces their own characteristics. Men don't like to be reasonable. Men prefer women who dare to embrace the truth. With such a woman, men will not be under pressure. Moreover, real women don't change their preferences to cater to others. They often say that what they like is what they like and what they don't like. Such girls will not let themselves fall into unhealthy relationships, and the same qualities will attract similar people. 10, emotionally stable women will make men comfortable to get along with, especially when facing pressure. Maintaining emotional calm is actually an ability. Similarly, stable emotions also help us to accurately convey our feelings, so as to get help from the other half. Many times, it is difficult for others to feel our emotional changes. If you can't express these emotions accurately, it will often make the other person feel depressed. Men don't want to get involved. Therefore, a stable mood is one of the important characteristics that women attract men. What kind of woman do men admire most? 2 1. There is nothing to explain. When girls talk about feelings, of course, they hope that the opposite person will be handsome. If they can marry a blog, they will laugh in their dreams. "Running through three views with five senses" is not just a joke, it is very pure human nature. It's just that different people have different definitions of "good-looking", so they are divided into "cute", "sexy" and "intellectual beauty", etc. But this belongs to aesthetic differences, and they still like "good-looking" in essence. 2. I really don't want to say this sentence about safety, but I have to admit that girls who look kind and sunny and harmless are more popular with men unless you go to nightclubs. If you are pure, like to wear light makeup and have less emotional history, then you are invincible. Because this kind of girl means "safety" in the eyes of many men, which means that he doesn't have to spend too much time to stop you from moving on. Although such girls may not be as naive as they think. 3. Empathy means "understanding him". When he makes a mistake, he can sit down and discuss with him calmly, rarely criticize him and not force him to do something he doesn't want to do. Whether this is a giant baby mentality is not discussed for the time being, but the fact is that most men are more keen on self-service, do not like conflict, and do not like to face emotional pressure. Self-esteem is strong, but self-confidence is low, so you can speak softly and you can grow on his weakness. Here you may be pessimistic, "I don't think I look good"/"I am ostentatious in appearance and personality"/"I speak directly". Is there no hope of finding a man who likes me? Not exactly. I'm talking about "feminine qualities that will attract men", not that men will definitely like such women. Conversely, just because you're not such a woman doesn't mean you don't have a man you like. It's like a long-legged girl walking on the side of the road, men will look twice, but if this long-legged girl offers to let me fall in love with you, they probably won't. Because "attractive to me" and "I really like it", men have always been very clear. What kind of woman do men admire most? 3 1. Establish a psychological person and adjust yourself to the most relaxed channel before meeting or dating. Cherish every opportunity to meet boys. Many girls will have some minor problems in the process of meeting or dating boys, and there will always be some regrets after dating. I always feel that I wish I could do better. I often hear students' voices, such as: Did you screw up this date again? It is understandable to have regrets on a date, but what we need to do is to make ourselves better from the second date. After each meeting, you should review your feelings when you get along with boys and compare them several times to see which one is your best. Then freeze on that role, the next thing to do is to tune in, first tune yourself to your most attractive channel, and then appear in front of boys. You can spend a few minutes doing this homework before going out, close your eyes and imagine what I want to look like in the restaurant with each other, what my expression looks like and what I want to say. What kind of clothes do I wear? What posture should I sit in? The more we think about the details, the more it helps us to present a clear image and encourage ourselves. When we can practice every date, we will become more and more aware of the role we want to create for each other. After preparing these things, we only need to bring ourselves out on a specific channel, instead of starting to think or not thinking about how to behave at the moment of meeting. 2. Establish a good talker and be a person who makes the other person feel happy to talk to you. First of all, you can not only answer the topic thrown by the other party, but also continue the topic. On the second level, in addition to affirming the classic part said by the other party, you should also be able to form a collision of views with the other party. A few days ago, I had dinner with some friends. One of the boys told me about a girl he recently met. Everything is fine, but communication is really lifeless. Every time he wants to talk to a girl about a topic, the girl can only answer one sentence at most, or mechanically echo: well, yes, that's right. Originally, the other party wanted to chat with you with great interest, but this sentence gave vent to the other party's enthusiasm. Therefore, in the process of chatting with the opposite sex, in addition to affirming the other person's thoughts, you should also let the other person have a sense of expectation and curiosity about what you want to talk about next. When the other person responds to the topic you started, you should be able to handle it freely without causing sudden silence. Before throwing a question, we need to be mentally prepared and know what our original intention is to throw this question. How do you deal with the opponent's failure to play cards according to common sense? When the other person's reaction is beyond your imagination, don't be silent, grasp the key words in the other person's language and effectively change the subject. For example, if we are discussing a topic and the other person is not very interested, then we can go on to say, "Actually, I think your voice is still very magnetic. If you sing, your voice will be charming. " In this way, the focus of the topic shifted to the voice of the other party. We can keep talking instead of staring at each other. 3. Establish an imperfect person and expose some shortcomings appropriately. For example, we are girls with some emotions, and we can tell each other appropriately in the middle and late stages of contact with boys: in fact, sometimes we will encounter some unhappy things, and we are easy to have some emotions at present, but my emotions come and go quickly. Setting up such a person in advance is equivalent to giving the other party a shot in the arm and giving him some psychological preparation. After that, if you really disagree with something, you will be a little emotional, and the other party will not be too surprised, because we have already told the other party the news in advance. The other party can understand your behavior better, and the contradiction will not be so easy to intensify. So the mask is not built to make us a perfect woman, but to turn the mask into a woman he has to love according to the situation.