What are the etiquette for drinking in China? 2. Aim at the subject and object and grasp the overall situation. There is a theme in the banquet, which is the purpose of drinking. When you go to eat, you should first look at the expressions around you and prioritize. Don't drink for the sake of drinking, and lose a good opportunity to make friends, let alone let some grandstanding drinkers disturb the host's meaning. 3. Proper language and humor can show a person's talent, common sense, self-cultivation and communication etiquette. Sometimes a humorous language will leave a deep impression on the guests and make people feel good about you invisibly. Therefore, it is very important to know when to say something, to use appropriate language, and to be humorous. 4, the wine should be moderate, don't force the phenomenon of persuasion on the wine table, some people always like to regard the wine field as a battlefield, trying to persuade others to drink more, thinking that it is unrealistic to drink enough. "Talk about heroes with wine" is ok for people who drink a lot, but it is difficult for people who drink less. Sometimes, if you persuade too much, the feelings of your former friends will be completely destroyed. 5, wine is orderly, and primary and secondary toasting is also a science. Generally speaking, a toast should be made in the order of age, position and the status of the guest and the host. Before toasting, we must fully consider the order of toasting and distinguish between primary and secondary. In order to drink with people you don't know, you should first find out your identity, or pay attention to what others call you, so as not to be embarrassed or hurt your feelings. When toasting, you must grasp the order of toasting. If you want to have a guest at the dinner table, you should be respectful to him, but you should pay attention to the fact that if someone with higher status or older people is present, you should not only be respectful to those who can help you, but also propose a toast to the respected elders first, otherwise everyone will be embarrassed. 6, read the text, understand people's hearts If you want to get everyone's appreciation on the wine table, you must learn to read the text. Because when dealing with people, we must understand people's hearts, so that we can play a good role on the wine table. 7, gradually shoot, sit firmly on Mount Tai banquet, you should see clearly the occasion, correctly evaluate your own strength, don't be too impulsive, try to keep some alcohol and talk, don't let others underestimate yourself and don't show yourself too much, choose the right opportunity, and gradually radiate your edge, so as to sit firmly on Mount Tai, don't give others the idea of "just this ability", so that everyone can't underestimate your strength. Toast is also a toast, which means that at a formal banquet, the host proposes to the guests and puts forward certain reasons for drinking. When drinking, we usually say some wishes and blessings, and even the host and guests have to make a special toast. The shorter the toast, the better. You can drink it anytime. If it is a formal toast, it should be at a specific time, which will not affect the guests' meal. Toast is suitable to start after guests and hosts are seated and before meals. It can also be after the main course and before the dessert is served. When drinking, especially when toasting, someone needs to take the lead in toasting, which can be the host, the guest of honor or the people present. When toasting, you should stand up, hold the cup in your right hand, or hold the bottom of the cup in your left hand, smile, look at other toasts, especially yourself, and say a blessing at the same time. It is suggested that after the toast, you should stand up with a glass in your hand. Even if you don't drink, you should pick up the cup for show. Raise the glass to eye level, say "cheers" and drink it off or in moderation. Then, you have to look at the proposer with a glass, and the process is over. In Chinese food, before toasting, you can symbolically touch each other's glasses; When clinking glasses, you should make your glass lower than the other's to show your respect for the other. Touching the table with the bottom of the glass can also mean touching the glass with the other side. You can do this when you are far away from each other. If the host toasts himself, ask for a toast to the host and toast with him again. When toasting, the glass must be lower than the other person. Touch each other's cups with their own cups. If the other person knows this etiquette, he will lower the cup, so your cup must be lower; When making a toast, you'd better say: Please feel free. But be sure to finish it, so that you can pour less; Generally speaking, toasts should be made in the order of age, position, identity of guests and hosts. Be sure to give full consideration to the order of toasting and prioritize. Even if you are drinking with people you don't know, you should first inquire about your identity or pay attention to other people's names to avoid embarrassment or hurting feelings. Even if you want something from the guest at the dinner table, you should show him more respect. However, if there are people with higher status or elders present, we should also propose a toast to the elders first, otherwise it will make everyone very embarrassed. If it is not suitable for drinking because of living habits or health reasons, you can also entrust relatives, friends, subordinates and younger generations to drink or use drinks and tea instead. As a toaster, you should fully understand each other. When the other party asks others to change the wine or drink, you should not force the other party to drink it, nor should you "get to the bottom of it" curiously. You know, if someone doesn't take the initiative to explain the reason, it means that the other party thinks this is his privacy. There are usually three ways to refuse a toast: the first way is to ask for something non-alcoholic and explain why you don't drink it. The second method is to let the other person pour some wine in the cup in front of him, and then gently push the bottle away with his hand. According to etiquette, the wine in the cup can be dispensed with. The third way is when the toaster pours wine into his cup, tap the edge of the cup gently, meaning "I don't drink, thanks." When the host or friend warmly toasts himself, don't hide, let alone knock over the glass, or quietly pour the toast of others on the ground. Serve whole chicken, whole duck, whole fish and other plastic dishes, and don't face the head and tail. These procedures can not only make the whole banquet process harmonious and orderly, but also reflect and communicate the identity and feelings of the host and guests. Therefore, the etiquette above the table can make the banquet activities complete and comprehensive, and make the cultivation of both the host and the guest fully displayed. Dining table seating tip: In China's dining etiquette, it is very important to sit there. The main seat must be the person who pays the bill. The main seat refers to the right central position farthest from the door. The inviter's assistant sits opposite the main seat. The main guest and the deputy guest sit around the inviter, ranking third, and the fourth guest sits around the assistant. It is impolite to let the inviter sit face to face with the guest, or to let the guest sit at the main table. China's culture does not make guests nervous. The inviter can designate their seats. Their subordinates or younger generations can also rank in a more important position than themselves. By allocating seats, China people hint at who is most important to them. The toast on the wine table has been known for thousands of cups! Deep feelings, a stuffy; Shallow feelings, lick it; Feelings are thick and you don't drink enough; Feeling thin, can't drink; Emotional iron, drinking blood. The etiquette rules of drinking and persuading wine on the wine table, although "deep feelings, a stuffy; Love is shallow, lick it. " But don't say it while drinking. Rule 2: broadcast thick sets in a low-key manner, and never fill them as soon as they are served on the wine table. Rule three, leaders will drink with each other before it's their turn to respect each other. Rule four, you can be respected by many people. Never be respected by many people unless you are a leader. Rule five, respect others by yourself. If you don't clink glasses, how much you drink depends on the situation. For example, the drinking capacity and attitude of the other party must not be less than that of the other party. You should know that you respect others. Rule six, respect others by yourself. If you clink glasses, by the way, if I drink them, you will get pregnant. Rule 7: Since you are in a humble position, remember to add more wine to the leader. Don't blindly drink for the leader, that is, you have to do it. You have to pretend that you want to drink because you really want to drink, not for the leader. For example, leader A can't drink enough. Beating around the bush can stop people who want to worship leader A. Rule 8: Pick up the glass (beer glass), grab the glass with your right hand and put it on the bottom with your left hand. Remember that your cup is always lower than others'. If you are a leader, you should be sensible and don't put it too low, otherwise how can you be a person below. Rule nine, if there is no special person present, it is best to touch the wine in chronological order, and don't favor one over the other. Rule 10: clink glasses, make a toast and make a statement. Otherwise, why the fuck should I drink your wine? Rule 1 1: Don't talk business at the dinner table. After drinking, the business will be almost the same, and everyone knows it, otherwise people will not be free to drink with you. Rule 12, don't pretend to be crooked, say the wrong thing, do the wrong thing, don't plead, and consciously punish the wine. Rule 13: If, purely if, there is not enough wine, put the wine bottle in the middle of the table and let others add it themselves. Don't pour the wine one by one, or what if the people behind you run out of wine? Rule 14: There must be a glass of wine at the end, so don't leave your glass empty. Can't run away ~ Rule 15, be careful not to lose your manners after drinking, don't talk big, don't lose your manners, don't spit everywhere, don't throw chopsticks around, don't finger, drink soup, don't fart and burp, don't go to the toilet while holding your breath, and no one will stop you. Rule 16, don't say "I can't drink" (if you drink), lest others accuse you of hypocrisy. Believe it or not, people can really tell if they can drink. Rule 17, the leader drinks with you to give you face. No matter how much the leader tells you to drink, do it yourself first. Remember, put your hands and glasses down. Rule 18, peanuts are a good thing for drinkers. It is essential to keep a clear head and ask questions after drinking. A cup of yogurt, a cup of hot water and a hot towel all show your concern. If you don't drink much, I'll give you some hints: 1, don't take the initiative to attack, and implement the strategy of defending as the attack; 2. Put two big cups in front of the table, one with white wine and the other with mineral water, drink small glasses and drink water frequently. When the host and guest on the wine table are basically drunk for 8 minutes, they can take the initiative to attack and replace the wine with water; (This article is not recommended) 3. After toasting, don't swallow it immediately, find a chance to wipe your mouth with a napkin and spit out the wine in the napkin; (for women) 4. Eat some fat and starch foods at the bottom after serving, and it is not easy to get drunk when drinking; 5, master the rhythm, don't drink too much at once; 6, don't mix several kinds of wine, especially easy to get drunk; 7. When serving dishes, don't turn dishes in the middle of the wine table. Leading food on the wine table is a no-no. 8. When you are six minutes drunk, finish the vinegar in the vinegar dish in front of you, and then ask the waiter to refill it ... 9. Fill it up every time you make a toast, and then pretend that you didn't bring a small glass of wine before drinking, and try to sprinkle a little, so that you can drink less every time. In the word "social ceremony at dinner", it refers to the words used for entertainment and politeness in communication occasions. Politeness is a sign of civility; It is also the embodiment of a person's good moral cultivation and high cultural quality. This is recorded as follows: please forgive me for saying "tolerance"; Please accept the gift and say "smile"; Apologize and say "uneasy"; Can't accompany each other and say "less companionship"; Bad hospitality, saying "snub"; It is impolite to say "not very polite"; Say goodbye at night and say "good night"; Admire for a long time, say "I've heard a lot about you"; Invite people to meet and say "please"; Long time no see "long time no see"; Ask for acceptance and say "thank you"; Be taught to say "teach"; Find someone to help say "partial labor"; Be regarded as "disturbing"; The politely declined gift says "I understand"; Say "I'm sorry" for something; Ask someone to do something and say "I'm sorry"; Congratulations on saying "Congratulations"; Receive greetings and say "TOEFL"; Say "I'm sorry" to people; Say "light" when you get benefits from others; Please don't say "stay"; Ask for advice and say "don't hesitate"; Thank people for saying "difficult"; Say "capital crime" if the fault is heavy; Can't remember people clearly, say "clumsy eyes"; Please don't mind saying "forgive"; Say people gain weight and say "fat"; Compared with others, say "learning"; Appreciate the compliment and say "easier said than done"; Ask people questions and say "questions"; Ask someone to say "I'm sorry"; Ask people to criticize and say "correct"; Receive friendship and say "thank you"; Spend energy saying "waste energy"; Take the trouble to say "annoying"; Ask people to say "teach" at leisure; Say "disrespect" when blaming yourself for carelessness; Let people spend money to say "cost"; Say "no meeting" if you don't meet; Invite people to work and say "condescending"; Grieve others and say "condescending"; Be taught to say "see the teacher"; Invite people to an appointment and say "coming"; Get care and say "thank you"; Others humbly say "accept";