First of all, let me make it clear that I have never discriminated against or advocated single mothers. As a woman, I can understand the difficulties of single mothers, and I can also understand the difficult living conditions of standing on the society in the face of various pressures.

Frankly speaking, marriage is a contract that restricts each other, not a binding rope. Generally speaking, women in China are more traditional. Marriage is not satisfactory, but in widowed marriages, they generally don't choose to take the initiative to divorce for their children. The essence of women's weakness is that they can't get along with each other, and they have no choice but to divorce. Nowadays, women are no longer in the feudal era. Instead of being content with perfection and living a dead marriage, it is better to let themselves go. Chinese divorce accuses women more than men conceptually, and single mothers can face all difficulties bravely only by being themselves and being alone.

Don't feel inferior, adjust your mentality, get out of the shadows, be independent and self-reliant, and rely on yourself better than anyone else. Only when you are strong can you get the appreciation and admiration of the world. Single mothers should set an example to raise their children while trying to be themselves. Children are the greatest wealth in your life. No matter how hard life is, we should take up the responsibility of being a mother. Don't put your misfortune on your children, and don't speak ill of your predecessor in front of them. Children need not only maternal love, but also father's love, giving them sunny hearts and making them grow up healthily. Don't easily fantasize about getting married for the sake of getting married, and rely on marriage.

Many single mothers in society live a chic life by themselves, and their children are well-trained, mainly because they have a correct attitude, know what they need and are strong in life. In modern times, women should live a good life, not only because life has brought you a lot of misfortunes, but more importantly, they should hold their heads high, face difficulties bravely and be independent and self-reliant, so as to live a wonderful life.

Nowadays, the cost of raising a child is so high, and the hardships and difficulties of single mothers can be imagined. How hard she has to work! We should strive to earn money to support our children, give them a good learning environment and try not to leave a psychological shadow on single-parent children.