Someone asked, "Do we pursue this kind of beauty to make ourselves look good, or to meet the expectations of others or men?" ? Does the pursuit of an ultimate (artificial) beauty mean that we bow to the world? "
Actually, I'm not rejecting plastic surgery. What I really regret is that most girls' confidence is based on men's affirmation. There is a saying that women are proud of those who please themselves. It is true that women love beauty. It is really a good thing to have a good face and make yourself happy every day.
But women shouldn't think that I go for plastic surgery to attract more men and make money from it. A truly attractive woman should know how to be independent. Independence is first of all that she has the ability to make money and the economic conditions to support herself, rather than relying on men.
You know, with the passage of time, the face will get old. What a woman can really leave behind is your knowledge, cultivation and temperament, and these things will accompany you for a long time and make you shine at last.
My favorite women, Yang Lan, Dong Qing and Faye Yu, are no longer in their prime, but they like reading, are intellectual and calm, and have a calm temperament that many women don't have.
The scholarly reading from reading poetry books, the calmness from the vicissitudes of the world, and the broad vision from seeing the world can make a woman not afraid of the years, but become brighter in the days.