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14-year-old girl got a tattoo on her arm without telling her family. What parents should do is not to accuse her of collapse, but to reflect on her vigilance.

You Jie Emotional Inn

2021Aug13Jun 15:05

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I believe everyone has seen the news. A 14 girl in Liaoning carried her family behind her back and spent 300 yuan to get a big tattoo in a tattoo shop, and her arm became a flower arm. When the girl's mother found out, she burst into tears. She took her daughter to Shanghai and spent nearly 30,000 yuan to wash her tattoos. Now she wants to ask the store for an explanation.

The person in charge of the tattoo shop put forward a plan: his own shop helped clean up the tattoo and gave him triple compensation, that is, 900 yuan compensation.

The girl's mother doesn't trust the technology in the shop, saying that if there is a scar on her arm in the future, it will affect her appearance even if it doesn't affect her future. The mother cried that her daughter was a lively and cheerful child. After this incident, her character began to become withdrawn and refused to go to school.

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Children who usually think they can make such amazing moves are often disobedient scum, but not necessarily. According to related reports, girls actually have good academic performance. When they were promoted from primary school to junior high school, they were also admitted to the local county seat 10. Later, I transferred to Dandong, Liaoning with my father because I saw tattoos on others. So the girl moved her heart and spent 300 yuan carrying her family to get a tattoo.

Educating a child is not a simple matter. It is not responsible for her food, clothing, housing and transportation. Seeing that her grades are good, it is enough to be obedient, lively and cheerful every day. It can be seen that the wisdom and necessity of Meng Mu's "Three Movements", the atmosphere around the city where he lives and the people he associates with have a subtle influence on the growth of children.

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Especially with the growth of age, children in the rebellious period of youth are more susceptible to the influence of ethos and trends and try impulsively. Therefore, parents should carefully choose the growth environment for their children, and at the same time, they should constantly observe, identify the differences of children, and understand the spiritual counseling and necessary exchanges and interactions that children need at different stages.

An adolescent child does not know much about his future, and his cognitive needs are basically influenced and interfered by the outside world. The most important thing is that his parents come step by step. True education is not coercion or obstruction, but correct guidance and exchange of ideas.

Children listen to you because you convey a positive value that she thinks is acceptable and good, rather than simply "I am your mother (father) and must abide by it"

Children will eventually pay for their impulsiveness and naivety, but when they grow up, they are likely to transfer their grievances to their parents. Even if the child is sensible and does not blame the family, as a mother, the father will blame himself for life.

The girl said in an interview that no one in the store asked her age at that time, which also showed that some service industries lacked professionalism.

Our country's laws respect and protect individual's choices and needs. Citizens can freely dispose of their bodies and costumes according to their own wishes, including tattoos or not. Of course, apart from serious physical injuries, it always leads to death.

However, it seems that this matter should be more detailed in terms of regulations, lest some people ignore the seriousness of the price and the idea of escaping from the net, otherwise a whim of curiosity will hinder or even completely destroy the life and development prospects of a teenager.

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What do you think of tattoos? Perhaps it is a symbol of art in a certain environment and culture, but under the condition of being underage or above, tattoos are not a positive representative.

It will not only harm the health of young people, but also cause negative comments from the public. It may even lead to children growing up in different circles, thus losing a talented person to the society and a well-behaved child to a talented family.

Imagine an underage girl or boy getting a tattoo because of impulsive curiosity, which will have an unpredictable and unknowable impact on joining the army, employment and further education in the future. Generally speaking, future development and future work will become limited. Many places can't go if they want to, and many things can't be done if they want to, which will cause lifelong regret.

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Many parents say that children nowadays just don't make people worry. Children didn't have that much to do with us before!

Parents should be reminded not to compare their children with themselves or their predecessors. Times are different, and competition, pressure, temptation and living atmosphere are all undergoing earth-shaking changes. At the beginning, the things and people that peers could reach were not comparable to those of today's children.

Today's children need more perseverance and discrimination than the previous generation in order to live a normal life. Therefore, it's not that children have become bears now, but that they face more problems. Of course, parents will naturally work harder and have more homework.

The 14-year-old girl got a tattoo on her family's arm. Instead of rushing to collapse, mothers should focus more on how to get along with their children. After all, compared with more serious misfortune, this is only the limitation of development. If she doesn't have the right vigilance, I'm afraid it will be worse.

Give children a little understanding, and parents should constantly improve themselves in order to provide better protection and education for their children. As children of this generation, we should also know that if we want to wear a crown, we must bear its weight. Sometimes what seems like stress and pain is not an experience.

Friends, what do you think of tattoo behavior? Do you support this behavior? Do you have similar relatives or friends around you? Leave your opinion in the comment area and share it with everyone.