Insensitive is the antonym of sensitive. Due to the accelerated pace of life, modern people are often vulnerable to being too sensitive, while boredom gives people a negative impression of being dull and boring, but it can make people not worry or be discouraged at any time.
What is blunt? This is a kind of ability to face complex and changeable environment with equanimity. People who have this ability will not feel sick because of the sudden change of weather; Will not be excited by environmental noise; Will not be depressed by the cynicism of others; Will not be discouraged by the boss's unreasonable scolding. They will shield the stimulation of unfavorable factors around them with a strong sense of dullness, and always maintain a happy and peaceful mentality.
What is the function of insensitivity?
First, it is not easy to get hurt physically, the five senses and touch are not sensitive and fragile, organ consumption is reduced, blood circulation is smooth, and cancer is not easy to get. It's better to be slow. The skin is too sensitive and is often troubled by allergic dermatitis. When bitten by a mosquito, it will always be scratched and easily inflamed and festered. People with visual range of 1.5-2.0 can see things too clearly, which will aggravate physical fatigue and easily cause mental problems. If people have a keen sense of smell like cats and dogs, the world is unimaginable. We know that the most important thing for health is smooth blood circulation. People who are insensitive should not care too much, deal with the pressure in life and keep relaxed. Their autonomic nerves are not always in an abnormal state of stimulation, which can keep blood vessels in a relaxed state.
Second, it is not easy to get hurt mentally, and the emotional and mental state is not impulsive, ups and downs, and it is not easy to feel depressed, wronged and cowered. It is mentioned in the book that Junichi Watanabe, the author, was a plastic surgeon and met a professor who was particularly abusive. Many doctors and nurses can't stand him, but Dr. S, the first assistant of the professor, was reprimanded the most, but he was not affected, and he was able to grasp the main points of the operation during the reprimand. Later, Dr. S became the director of a large hospital in Sapporo. It turned out that no matter what others said, Dr. S just nodded "Yes, yes". He doesn't listen to people sentence by sentence, nor does he care too much about what he doesn't like. His stiff feeling is to screen out the negative energy with a sieve.
In the workplace, we will inevitably be reprimanded and reprimanded by our superiors, but in the face of the irony and jealousy of our colleagues, people with blunt feelings can take it calmly and concentrate on their jobs. Passivity is good for love and marriage. Don't haggle over every ounce, don't take each other's complaints to heart, and be more tolerant of different values and living habits. I reflect that my popularity has always been good, which is related to my insensitivity. Except for some trivial and unprincipled questions, I don't haggle over every ounce, and I am always slow to respond to people who are scheming, thus maintaining my frankness and sincerity. Lack of brains is sometimes a blessing.
Women are less sensitive than men.
Unlike most people's expectations, women are as tolerant of pain, cold, injury and bleeding as men, and can better maintain their bodies and body temperature in harsh environments. In the face of disasters, the survival rate of women is often higher than that of men.
Let's start with typical insensitivity. I think of Guo Jing, a classic figure of Jin Yong's martial arts. Although the story is fictional, it is very nervous. The stupid boy with dull qualifications is undoubtedly one of the most accomplished and influential chivalrous men, but he has peerless martial arts such as Nine Yin True Classics, Eighteen Dragons Clapping, Left and Right Fighting, and Finger Flipping with Empty Fists. Although his success is closely related to the guidance of famous teachers such as Zhou, Ma Yu and Hong Qigong, his hard work and insensitive ability can not be ignored. Faced with the doubts of elders and people around him, Hong Qigong said that his qualifications were too stupid, Zhou said that he was extremely stupid, and Huang thought that he was stupid and disgusting. He won't feel depressed, but he is willing to work hard and eventually become a master.
Finally, I want to end with a passage from the book "Insensitivity": "People who succeed in different fields are undoubtedly gifted, but at the same time, they must also have a positive insensibility. Insensitivity is the greatest strength for people to carry forward their talents and bear fruitful results. " May you also have a sense of dullness.