Beauty and ugliness are all in my heart.
I think beauty and ugliness, good and bad, are actually relative and a subjective judgment of people. There is no ugliness without beauty, and there is no beauty without ugliness, so beauty and ugliness are relative. The same person, in different environments, different mentality, different emotions and different purposes, will have different results. Beauty and ugliness also have the characteristics of the times, and the aesthetics of different times are different. Fat was beautiful in the Tang Dynasty, but now lines and bones are beautiful. Beauty and ugliness also have strong regional characteristics. Black and bright are beautiful in Africa, healthy colors are beautiful in Europe and America, and thinness, whiteness and fineness are beautiful in big cities.
Beauty and ugliness are relative, just like good and bad, easy and difficult. Because they are relatively, they will be influenced by an ignorant emotion in people's hearts, and the result will often be infinitely enlarged or reduced. Enlarging and narrowing is not a concept and vision, but a judge's mentality, depending on whether he really cares. The change of mentality is the result of caring, pain and happiness are also the result of caring, and beauty and ugliness are certainly the result of caring. Everyone's face is given by their parents, and it won't change easily except plastic surgery. Whether it is natural beauty or acquired maintenance, thousands of people are different in appearance and temper, which is also the condition to distinguish people. The same person in different people's eyes, the result of beauty and ugliness is different. The beauty in one person's eyes is not necessarily beautiful in another person's eyes, just like the scenery in the tour.
Women sometimes call themselves ugly, really? Not necessarily. Some people say this because of lack of self-confidence, some people just say this to test you, some people deliberately reverse their words to gain your admiration, some people refuse you without feeling in front of you, and some people want to attract your attention and make you look at her more.
Women sometimes say they are beautiful, really? Not exactly. It may be super self-confidence, and the beauty around her is dim in her eyes. May be too vain, afraid of others not paying attention, can't see. May be moved, want you to focus on her side. Maybe she is the most beautiful flower in the surrounding environment.
Men sometimes say you are beautiful, really? That's not necessarily true. Maybe it's "the tortoise is right to look at mung beans", maybe it's a false compliment that makes people happy, maybe it's because of the goodwill of others, maybe it's a cheap compliment with ulterior motives, maybe it's a heart-to-heart touch, maybe it's fun to make others feel bored, a joke when they are too familiar, a deliberate embarrassment to suppress vanity, and it's sour not to eat grapes.
Beauty is not necessarily amazing. In fact, beauty is simple and simple. Don't be deliberate, it's best to be charming and natural. No matter how to look at beauty and ugliness, the judgment is from the heart, no matter who has beauty, whoever looks at beauty. Artificial beauty will only exist in an instant, while real beauty can be seen 10 thousand times without being tired. Artificial beauty can only attract surprised eyes, and charming beauty has rich connotations that can never be read.
Beauty is endless. Scenery that changes like the four seasons, no matter which time period, will have beauty, and beauty lies in display and discovery. Whether it is fragrance or charm; Whether it is warm or romantic; Whether it is ordinary or exquisite. Beauty and ugliness are always together. The choice is not in others, in your own heart, in your own hands, in your own eyes, and in your own life.