The first hospital is a small hospital in the community. After the doctor helped me stop bleeding and clean up the wound, he told me the sensitivity and seriousness of the wound position on my face and suggested that I sew the needle immediately. I didn't realize the seriousness of the wound before. When it comes to sewing, I began to be cautious. After all, the wound is on the face, and ordinary sewing will definitely leave ugly stitches. I began to ask the doctor if there was a better way to deal with it. At this time, the doctor said that this community hospital only has ordinary stitches, and suggested that I go to a large public hospital 2 kilometers away to seek a better treatment.
The doctors in this hospital fulfilled their obligation to inform, but the way of treating the wound was too reckless, and they didn't communicate well with the patients and tried their best to come up with the best solution. If I hadn't taken the initiative to seek a better treatment, this wound would have been treated like this. Predictably, I will regret it.
The Second Hospital is a large third-class first-class hospital. The first doctor was an emergency surgeon. He told me directly after he saw my wound. I suggest you go upstairs and find a plastic surgeon to sew it with a beauty needle for you. It costs about 1 0,000 yuan. If you don't want to spend money, you can come down and I'll do ordinary sewing for you. That scar will be even bigger. I was particularly unhappy when I heard the doctor's words. Feeling very casual, I pushed it to the plastic surgery department and always emphasized the cost. This feeling of straying into the "Putian Department" naturally produces a sense of resistance.
Then I went upstairs to see a plastic surgeon. The doctor looked at the wound and said, "I don't think this wound needs stitches. Just wrap it up and let it grow on its own." Anyway, it will definitely leave a scar, and sewing only makes his scar thinner, and sewing requires anesthesia, which is expensive; Another treatment is to use cosmetic glue to bond the wound. The price is similar to sewing needles, but it is easier for people who don't need anesthesia, but this kind of glue is not available in our hospital. You need to go to another hospital. "After talking about several treatment methods, the doctor has been emphasizing that all the methods are explained to me clearly, so that I can choose treatment methods according to my own situation.
In this hospital, the first-time doctors are obviously in a very irresponsible state, and they are very perfunctory to patients in terms of communication attitude and professional ability. The second doctor explained it clearly, but he never gave me a plan he suggested and kept me choosing. If I have the ability to choose a plan, this is obviously a way for hospital doctors to shirk their responsibilities.
The Third Hospital is also a top three hospital with good reputation in the local area. There are many people in emergency surgery, and only one doctor is busy on duty. See my wound and say-"Isn't it handled very well? What should I do? " I expressed my intention and he directly assigned me a plastic surgeon.
The plastic surgeon in this hospital carefully looked at my wound and said that he basically repeated the advice of the doctors in the Second Hospital, explained the advantages and disadvantages of sewing cosmetic needles and glue, and ruled out the scheme of sewing cosmetic needles from other angles. Then he said a very important sentence-"I think you are so young that a thousand dollars will not be a burden." As a doctor, I suggest you stick it with glue. Although you will still leave a scar, it will heal faster and the scar will be thinner. Young and young, appearance is still very important. If you can handle it well, handle it well. " After this communication, I readily accepted the doctor's plan.
In this hospital, the first doctor was probably too busy to receive patients mechanically and quickly, and he didn't have a good impression at all. that this is not the important question. This is an emergency. It's very kind of you to assign me to the right department. The second doctor is also the best doctor on this trip. He not only gave a very detailed explanation of various schemes, but also actively analyzed and ruled out related schemes that he did not approve from his own professional perspective. Moreover, he has strong empathy, can think from my perspective, give me advice and help me make a decision. This kind of doctor is no better! If I had met such a doctor at the beginning, I wouldn't have had so many twists and turns.
After experiencing emergency treatment in three hospitals, I deeply realized that these four abilities are essential for being a good doctor-insight, empathy, decision-making power and persuasion.
Aren't these four points exactly the core qualities needed for PM positions?
Ps: I still have a scar about 2cm between my eyebrows, which is very uncomfortable and extremely depressed! Take care of the scar on your back.