If he is willing to marry you, then no matter what he is doing with domestic violence, he must love you. Since you two will choose to get married, you must both love each other. So you may have an argument over something and for some reason. Maybe he has a bad personality, so he used domestic violence against you. But as long as there is a reason for domestic violence, then you can all find the reason, and then you two can talk about it again. As long as we can fundamentally solve the problem, we can avoid the recurrence of such problems in the future. And if your husband is not a person who likes to punch and kick you, he has reason to start work on you, then you don't have to worry too much about this problem. After all, there is reason to say that there is a solution.

The influence of family background on him

We can observe that nine times out of ten people who are prone to domestic violence are influenced by their families. Because being born in a family has a great influence on a person, he may see his father using domestic violence against his mother when he is just confused. So over the years, his inner thought is that domestic violence is normal, and he may think that other families have grown up like this. So after he gets married, he will naturally use domestic violence against his wife. Because no one told him that domestic violence was wrong, and he accepted the view that domestic violence was used to solve problems that could not be solved, because this was the truth conveyed to him by his father.