Raising children is undoubtedly the touchstone of husband-wife relationship. In the face of various tests in the process of bringing a baby, how to avoid quarreling and work together? This paper will provide parenting experience and suggestions for novice parents from the aspects of role distribution, lack of sleep, parenting concept, economic pressure, prejudice and stereotype.

Role assignment

Every member of the family should bear corresponding responsibilities. When one party feels that he has paid too much, it is inevitable to quarrel. Both husband and wife should share housework and childcare equally to avoid unnecessary contradictions and pressures.

Lack of sleep

The baby is crying, changing diapers, feeding ... these may disturb your work and rest. When fatigue strikes, even the sweetest relationship can't stand the toss. Husband and wife should understand and support each other and jointly cope with the difficulties in raising children.

Educational idea

Every family has its own educational philosophy. Sometimes, there may be conflicts between emphasizing discipline and encouraging autonomy. Husband and wife should communicate frankly, respect each other's opinions and seek knowledge of educational methods.

Financial pressure

From milk powder and diapers to toys and vaccines, the cost of raising a baby can be quite high. The limited budget makes many couples feel pressure and sometimes even quarrel. Both husband and wife should plan the family budget reasonably to avoid affecting their feelings because of economic problems.

Prejudice and stereotype

In some cases, gender bias and stereotypes can also be the fuse of quarrels. Husband and wife should respect each other's choices and don't have unnecessary pressure and contradictions because of gender issues.