Article 1: The most important thing is why today's heart loses its present mood because of painful regrets, and why it is always worried about inexplicable troubles. The past is gone forever, and it's no use regretting. The future is still out of reach, no matter how worried you are, you will be sad. Today's thoughts, today's events, and today's people are all real and feel good. Of course, it is wise to sum up past experience and guard against future risks. Yesterday has passed, but tomorrow hasn't come yet. Today is real. The second word of comfort: your heartache can only be cured by yourself. Why do you want to lose your present mood for painful regret? It is also necessary to vent your grievances once in a while. But endless complaining will only increase troubles and let others see their incompetence. Complaining is a fatal negative state of mind. Once one's complaining becomes a bad habit, one's life will be dark, not only one's good mood will be gone, but others will also be unlucky. It's no use complaining, optimism is the most important thing. Article 3: Good mood is created by ourselves. We often can't change other people's opinions. Only we can change it. The bad life lies not in the sins of others, but in our bad mood. The golden key to a better life is not in the hands of others. Give up our resentment and sigh, and a better life will be within reach. Subjectively, we want to live a good life, objectively, we have not lived a good life. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives. Don't expect to change others and be the master of your own life. Article 4: Do what you should do with your heart. Life is so short, how can it be wasted? A wise philosopher once said, "when someone scolds me in the street, I won't even look back." I don't want to know this boring person at all! " "We should neither hurt others nor be influenced by others' criticism, but should learn our skills in a down-to-earth manner according to our own wishes. Especially when you are a teenager, you should go all out to learn your skills and don't be distracted. Fifth consolation: Don't always embarrass yourself, learn to appreciate yourself, which means you have the golden key to happiness. Appreciating yourself is not narcissism, narcissism or complacency ... give yourself a little confidence, give yourself a little happiness and give yourself a smile. Why worry about unhappy life? ! Always give yourself a vacation and learn to find a happy mood. The sixth word of comfort: don't chase worldly honor all your life, and look for something recognized by others, you will lose your happiness and happiness forever. Vulgar comments will annihilate your personality, and secular suggestions will leave you at a loss. Money for money will make you disown your six relatives, power for power will make you bold, and fame for name will make you unprepared. In the deliberate pursuit, the real me will become fragments fluttering in the wind, and the secular me will become disgusting. Get kitsch, lose truth, strengthen confidence and own yourself. Seventh word of comfort: extremely undesirable. Some people often become insane because of excessive anxiety; Some people are indifferent to everything because they are insensitive. The former often suffers from being unable to find the reason, but dies because of being too smart. The root of stupidity lies in regretting everything. The latter doesn't know what regret is, and lives in a daze all day. There is no difference between life and death. Going to extremes always fails, looking for the wisdom of life. Article 8: Don't care too much about other people's comments. There is not a painting that is not evaluated by others, and there is not a person that is not discussed by others. If you are silent, someone will accuse you of being "shrewd"; If you are good at talking, someone will accuse you of "bragging"; If you praise others, someone will accuse you of "ulterior motives"; If you criticize yourself sincerely, some people will be furious and think they are "meddling". "Just look at other people's faces, you can't live, you have yourself, you are not limited to yourself. Article 9: The more evil thoughts, the deeper the pain. Why can't we live in peace? The key is not to drive away the demons in time. Because you have evil thoughts, you will not restrain yourself rationally, and you will often do stupid things that you regret. Because the dust of the soul is not cleaned up in time, weak-willed people will fall into deep pools from time to time. Because you are often possessed by ghosts, you will be blinded by stupidity and unconsciously enter the wrong fork. If there is evil in your heart, you will be uneasy and you will get rid of evil thoughts. Article 10: Be careful not to live too tired. People often sigh that living is really tiring. Tired, it is mental stress; Being tired is a heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired are always relative. If you want not to be tired, you must learn to relax. Life is to relax. Mental fatigue makes people fall into sub-health state for a long time; A tired heart will make you depressed. Don't be too tired, learn to release yourself. Article 1 1 words of comfort: Everyone has his own way of living, knowing his own pain, understanding his own sadness and feeling his own happiness. Maybe the hell in my own eyes is the existence in the eyes of others; Maybe the heaven in your own eyes is the hell in others' eyes. Life is so funny. Don't always doubt that spring scenery is in others, the key lies in the adjustment of your own mentality. Living well is the most important thing. Article 12 words of comfort: slaves who don't want to be slaves always sigh "moths put out the fire", people always ridicule "fish take the bait" and people always laugh at "falling into the mire". But think about it carefully, is there a tragedy of this desire around our lives? No one is satisfied. Those who indulge their souls will eventually lose their true freedom! We must always be on guard against bad desires. Get rid of bad desires and don't indulge yourself. Article 13 words of comfort: If you want to live a relaxed and happy life, you will be carefree if you don't blindly compare with others; If you don't set your life goals too high, you will always be happy; If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will stay away from pain; If you don't always demand yourself, you will live comfortably; If you don't always find fault, it will be easier. If you live too tired, you will be miserable and satisfied.