People are born different, everyone has his own growth history, and my growth is mixed with sadness, loneliness, patience, deformity and pen in my hand. I am a girl born with harelip.
As long as I can remember, I knew I was a girl with harelip. There are many external shadows in childhood, which leads to many hidden pains in the heart. Many classmates and partners outside call me gap, even if I am my father. Today, I still feel inferior. I have never told anyone, even the closest person; For a long time, I became silent, always keeping my head down and afraid to look into other people's eyes. I'm still afraid of meeting strangers and the surprised eyes when others see me for the first time.
I cherish people who are willing to be friends with me, because I know very well that when you are abandoned by all the people in the world, there are still some people who are willing to come to your side.
Many female students in junior high school are being chased. They are all in love. I also have a boy who has a crush on me. I dare not confess. I don't believe that any boy will value a defective girl. I'm afraid he'll see an ironic expression after confession.
If one day, you meet a child different from you, please give him an equal look and a kind smile; Please also tell your children that it is kind not to participate when they see those who laugh at others. Perhaps the first lesson in life is to learn to love and respect!
The bluer the sky, the more afraid I am to look up.
I have never blamed my parents, because they gave me the best treatment and the best love within their own conditions. I tried to imagine how my mother would feel when she saw such a defective child through the pain of childbirth.
Because my friends with low self-esteem went out to work after graduating from junior high school, because the rabbit's lips made it extremely difficult to find a job, but they insisted silently, and they also made a determined effort not to worry their parents. They usually scrimp and save, and take part-time jobs after work in order to raise enough money for surgery. Give me back a perfect self.
I saved a year's money and went to a plastic surgery hospital for cleft lip and palate repair.
After the repair, I fell in love, it was online dating, and the buckle I used at that time was also because I was afraid to see the man because of my inferiority, which led to the breakup.