Su Daqiang's relatives can be so selfish, and no one is. As you said, he is not a real bad guy, and he is disgusting.
As the eldest brother, Su Mingzhe is always swollen and fat. Classic quotations include "You disappoint me so much" and "As the eldest brother of Su family, I also have responsibilities and obligations". He is a typical "China's eldest son", obsessed with filial piety, but constantly hurting small families in the United States, and his marriage and career are facing several crises.
Although I am bent on taking the responsibility of being the eldest son of my family, I must do what I can, and I can't sacrifice the quality of life of my wife to rob me of my responsibility as the eldest brother.
3. Su Mingcheng, the second child, is selfish, dependent on his mother's doting, gnawing at his roots, loving to talk about things, being good at rhetoric and pleasing his parents, and is Su Mu's most eccentric son. After graduation, Su Mu bought a house for him when he got married, and often took care of them after marriage. Therefore, Cheng Hui is taken for granted by his parents and belongs to a mentally unweaned baby. His mother's death left him without spiritual support, and his life was frequently in crisis. Su Mingcheng, who used to take shortcuts, did not choose to work hard to increase his income. He actually put his mind on the sale of old houses and participated in the investment projects introduced by his boss to earn high returns.
Ordinary abilities, desires and dreams, but others have no obligation to pay for your dreams.
A, father Su Daqiang
The father Su Daqiang played by Dahongni is a selfish, cowardly and irresponsible person. He always makes his family jump. Whenever something happens, he is like an ostrich with his head buried in the sand, pretending to see nothing. However, since the death of Su Mu, Su Daqiang seems to be a different person, just like turning over a serf. All kinds of practices are incomprehensible, so this figure is also the most talked about by the audience.
Seeing Su Daqiang lying on the leg of his eldest son Su Mingzhe on TV, he instantly felt a little sympathy. Su Daqiang didn't want to go back to his hometown anyway, so he had to move to his youngest son's house. At first, I thought that the sudden death of my wife was a great blow to Su Daqiang, and I was afraid of seeing things and thinking about people. This is understandable.
As the saying goes, an old family is like a treasure, not to mention that Su Daqiang is not too old and in good health. Maybe he can help his son Ming Cheng's family, and he won't be alone. But the development of the plot is just the opposite. After his wife died and moved to his son's house, he wouldn't do anything. Everything was taken care of by others, regardless of Ming Cheng and his wife's feelings.
Su Mingcheng and his wife are very busy at work. They don't come back at noon, get off work very late at night and often work overtime. This is indeed the daily life of young people in cities now. Su Daqiang lived in this house, not only not helping him, but also waiting for the young couple to come back and cook for him. When the young couple were really busy, they ordered takeout for him and bought rice that they could not bear to eat. In this way, his father Su Daqiang later complained about eating, saying that no one cared about him. Really speechless!
For example, one day Su Daqiang searched the kitchen and refrigerator at home, and there was only one pack of instant noodles in the refrigerator. He watched the instant noodles on the dining table hit the ground angrily. I am annoyed at this scene. It is normal for children to work so busy and work overtime for their careers. As a father, Su Daqiang not only did not understand the child's hard work and relieve the pressure on the child, but created such trouble for the child. It's really unreasonable!
Also, the eldest son offered to buy Su Daqiang a big three-bedroom apartment and let him live by himself, and then hired a nanny to wait on him. Su Daqiang was so happy that he couldn't wait for his son to show him the house. The environment and conditions were the best. This is all for your own happiness, regardless of the child's financial endurance. In order to buy a house, he exhausted his two sons, which seriously affected their work and normal life. Is it necessary to break up the children?
However, when Sue's family was in big trouble, for example, because of family conflicts, her second brother Ming Cheng fought against Mingyu, causing Mingyu to be injured and hospitalized. At this time, as the father of the head of the family, Su Daqiang not only did not dare to face the reality, took the initiative to solve the problem and tried to help the children out of the predicament, but also hid and frequently created contradictions. What is even more exasperating is that as a father, he did not care about his daughter's injury for the first time, nor did he find a way to resolve the contradiction. How can there be such a father in the world! I haven't seen it.
In short, the portrayal of the role of Su Daqiang in the play feels that people's shortcomings in life are infinitely magnified, and the audience's dislike for him is constantly escalating. The whole thing is nonsense without a bottom line! In fact, Su Daqiang only complains behind his wife's back and is a loser in front of his wife! It's sad to have such a father on the witness stand! I've only heard of my son cheating in my life. This is a complete cheating son!
Second, eldest brother Su Mingzhe.
Su Mingzhe lived in the United States for ten years, and from the moment he appeared, he gave people the impression of a delicate and senior white-collar worker. Start with the first episode. Su Mingzhe went to China to attend the funeral. As soon as she got out of the airport, she asked her sister Su Mingyu, "Su Mingyu, what's wrong with you? Why weren't you and Ming around when mom had an accident? Are you such a child? " ? Seeing this, I think Su Mingzhe was in a bad mood at that time, which is also reasonable. But this is not the case. With the development of the plot, Su Mingzhe's personnel design becomes more and more clear.
For example, Su Daqiang insisted on going to America and staying at Su Mingzhe's house. Su Mingzhe readily agreed without consulting his wife, which was the beginning of their later contradiction. In order to go to the United States as soon as possible, Su Daqiang made a scene at his home in Su Ming. He kept calling Su Mingzhe to tell Su Mingcheng that he was black, sowing dissension and making the family fly a dog to jump. And Su Daqiang secretly bought a duck neck to eat, which led to food poisoning. When Su Mingzhe learned about it, he called his younger brother Su Mingcheng directly and accused him. Su Mingcheng and his wife are really wronged!
For example, when Su Mingzhe was unemployed and couldn't find a job in the United States, he refused to find another job to save face. In this case, regardless of whether the quality of life of his wife and children is guaranteed, he insisted on bringing his father Su Daqiang to the United States. And Su Daqiang's house. Su Mingzhe was swollen and fat, so he had to buy a three-bedroom apartment. He promised that he would pay all the money for the house, and even the cost of hiring a nanny would be borne by him. Did he ask his wife for advice on all this? Have you considered the family's endurance? Obviously not. This is a very irresponsible attitude towards the family. He completely regards himself as a successful person, and his vanity is infinitely inflated. At this rate, his wife and children are bound to suffer.
Trivia in this life can be seen everywhere. Su Mingzhe never asked why, didn't investigate and understand things, only listened to one side of the story, always commanded remotely on his mobile phone, preached benevolence and morality, and felt good about himself. No wonder his wife Wu Fei said that his EQ is too low to be a manager, and his way of doing things will only deepen misunderstanding!
Although Su Mingzhe is the eldest son of the Su family, he lives abroad all the year round. In fact, he didn't do his duty as the eldest son at all. He didn't know anything about his family, and he didn't help to resolve the contradiction between his brother and sister. When I come back, I always pretend to be the boss of the Su family. It seems that nothing can be done without him. The most ridiculous thing is that there is a mantra: "I am so disappointed." He is too conceited!
Speaking of which, friends who have seen this play have a deep understanding. In fact, Su Mingzhe is also a wage earner in the United States, and his sister Su Mingyu's conditions in China can't be compared, and his brother Su Mingcheng's conditions are not much higher. However, he feels that living abroad is superior, which is wrong. As long as he works hard in China, he can get ahead and live happily!
Third, the second brother Su Mingcheng.
Su Mingcheng, the second son of the Su family, was a very annoying role at first. The most commented sentence on the Internet is that he is a "bookworm" and a combination of "bad habits". He grew up under the care of his mother, lazy at home and always bullying his sister Su Mingyu. As a result, the gap between brother and sister is deep and they hate each other. But ten years later, when they met, they still didn't agree, either bickering or quarreling, or even fighting at Su Mu's funeral. It's really too much.
Su Mingcheng was taken special care of by his mother since he was a child, and he gave everything he wanted. After work, his mother secretly subsidized him, including the wedding room, which was bought by his mother by selling an old house, while his sister 18 lived independently and didn't spend a penny at home. No wonder everyone says that Su Ming is old-fashioned.
But since my father Su Daqiang moved to Su Ming and became a family, I think Su Mingcheng still has something extraordinary. For example, Su Mingcheng did a good job of this unreasonable father, took good care of Su Daqiang, and did not lose his temper because of Su Daqiang's behavior. He also spent a lot of money on Su Daqiang, which completely changed his staid impression and made some places cute.
However, Su Mingcheng is also a stubborn person. As long as he thinks who is bad, he will never think from another angle. For example, when his wife Julie loses her job, he will go to what Su Mingyu did. He didn't find out the reason, but injured Su Mingyu in the hospital. The severity of the attack shows that the two men have deep grievances.
On the other hand, Su Mingcheng was unlucky enough. When I met such a noisy father, I was tossed with nothing, cheated on my investment, fell out with my leader, and worked hard. Even his wife divorced him and left a clean home. At least he was miserable in the first two-thirds of the play!
In a word, Su Mingcheng has many shortcomings, but there are also many bright spots. I like Su Mingcheng better, at least more real than his eldest brother Su Mingzhe.
First of all, I want to say that Su Daqiang, the old father of Su family, has a distinct personality, which makes many netizens hate it. As a father, he has no responsibilities as a father. From Su Mingyu's bullying as a child, we can see that if you don't protect Mingyu, you will only turn a blind eye and let Mingyu feel fatherly love. As the head of the family, he is too weak and oppressed by the powerful Su Mu. And this just led to Su Mu's death, and he began to become a monster. Constantly looking for a sense of existence, just thinking about yourself. With the deepening of the plot, I learned that he can finally consider his own children. This is what a father should look like. The second Sue home boss went to Mingzhe, and ignored the things outside the window when he was a child. I only read sage books and turned a blind eye to my sister's bullying. I don't look like my brother. Now in America, I have a sense of responsibility. He is the eldest son of the Su family. Perhaps the sudden death of his mother made him realize it, but regardless of his wife and daughter, he was only ignorant and angry. Su Mingcheng, the second child spoiled by his mother, should make his parents happy. The greatest success is to marry a good woman. Wife With all the things that happened in Su's family, he began to realize that as an elder brother, he had squeezed his younger sister over the years, and his relationship with Su Mingyu relieved a lot of the responsibilities of an elder brother. In a word, the three men in the Su family have shaped their personalities in family life and education of their children. Fortunately, they have gradually changed and become better.
Su Daqiang, the most controversial netizen in the play, was sad all his life. He was oppressed by his wife for most of his life from marriage to his wife's death. At work, I have been reduced from a teacher to a librarian because of my three children. It can be said that my feelings and career have been doubly depressed!
Since his wife's death, he has completely released this depression and given his children all kinds of "jobs" to rely on the elderly. The relationship with her daughter Mingyu is also so cold that it makes people angry. After Mingyu was beaten by Ming Cheng, as his biological father, he didn't go to the hospital, but thought it had nothing to do with himself! When I advised Mingyu not to tell Mingcheng, it not only hurt Mingyu's heart, but also made many netizens feel like a knife and hate him completely!
But with Su Daqiang getting sick behind his back, he forced to start washing his white clothes! This is a bit too abrupt! I began to be a caring father for my son, my boss and my second child. I am no longer the father who can "make". When I make a will, I take care of every child wholeheartedly, hoping that they will have their own happiness and feel sorry for them. How did this father suddenly grow up?
After Su Daqiang's Alzheimer's Disease, no one knows anything but Mingyu. He kept repeating a sentence with a drumstick in his hand: "This is for my daughter Mingyu, and this is for my daughter Mingyu." People greeted him, but he ignored him, as if his mind was full of Mingyu and his love for his daughter at that moment! This turning point is so fast that it is unacceptable to wash white because of illness! I want to say to Su Daqiang, be kind to your body, don't do this, be kind to your children, especially Mingyu. She is really not easy!
Look at the second brother Su Mingcheng. He was really angry when he hit Su Mingyu! Almost all netizens who beat their sister to be their wife wanted him to go to prison, but in a blink of an eye, Su Mingcheng, who had never really seen his sister, actually fought with others for Mingyu. It seems that he killed his enemy at first sight in the first half of his life. This short time has become a "sister-care madman." It's incredible! Finally, go to Africa to forcibly wash white! I want to say to Ming Cheng that I should apologize to Yu Ming and make up for my mistake. No matter what happens, no one can hit anyone!
And the eldest brother Su Mingzhe, although not as controversial as Su Daqiang and Su Mingcheng in the play, takes himself as the eldest son, regardless of the actual situation of his family, blindly filial, and there are big heads everywhere! When the wife offered to give her parents the same treatment, she rejected it on the spot. Later, she advocated giving the husband and wife the same set of property to her father without authorization, and the last apology was forcibly washed away! I want to say to Mingzhe that filial piety is necessary, but not stupid! Work hard and live a good life!
In fact, many families in China have similar phenomena. After all, TV plays are entertaining to the public, depending on what kind of mood and mentality you are holding. If you see Su Daqiang make you angry, your second child is spoiled since childhood, and your eldest child looks like a fat man, that just means that directors and screenwriters want to achieve results, and entertainment can't be taken too seriously. What did you say?/Sorry?
I have given up hope of getting the best review. But I answer this question in the simplest way. I want to say to them, "Everything is fine."
Su Jia Su Daqiang, his wife was timid when she was alive, and she was a demon all day after her death. She is selfish and doesn't think of her children. She just wants to have fun. Sue home boss, a pretentious, everything to participate in the command, no actual action, all day is "you let me down". Sue's second child is bright and successful, and she has no other advantages except being good to her wife. Finally, he even hit his wife. Love rat, no doubt.
Recently, the TV series "Everything is OK" in the midday sun has become popular, and people like me who can't catch up with a drama for almost a year are addicted to it. From Ode to Joy to Big Rivers, and then to this one, I have watched almost all the modern dramas "Noon Sunshine". It is a good production company, and the drama accurately targets the pulse of the times and the pain points of modern people.
Su Jiasan's father and son in Everything is OK have also been widely criticized recently. They are considered more unreliable, disgusting and selfish than each other ... Of course, I don't want to rehabilitate the public opinion image of Su Jiasan and his son. They do have many shortcomings in human nature, and they are really not excellent. But what I want to say is that the three fathers and sons are most of us ordinary people, and they are also ordinary people in reality.
Most ordinary people are not excellent and have their own shortcomings.
When we criticize Su Mingzhe, the eldest son of the Su family, for his cowardice, ignorance, saving face, being fat, being unwilling to face the reality, getting over the pain, being wordy and preaching, have you ever thought that this is not a common problem of many typical China men? Influenced by Confucian culture, China people attach great importance to family and face. We can say that there are many such men around us. As the saying goes, don't wash your dirty linen in public, and don't publish bad news in public ... Don't China people respect this ethics very much? All the bitter fruits and sufferings are swallowed in the stomach, and no one can see them when they are killed. Whether they are young people who have struggled from small cities to big cities, or China people who have gone abroad from China to study and settle down, they don't want their hometown people to know that they are doing well when they go back, no matter how hard and tired they are outside, no matter how stressful they are. How important is it to brag? Isn't this the face culture that China people pay special attention to? Don't mention Su Mingzhe. Nine times out of ten people in China are proud, and many people are still proud of their lives. Besides, like preaching, the so-called three must learn from each other, and the problem of "loving to be a teacher" is also very common. Just ask yourself, if you have power and status, do you also want to tell people what to do? Maybe no one else has asked your opinion, so you should start saying that you should do this and that.
Su Mingcheng, the second child, also has many shortcomings, among which "Ma Baonan is conservative, selfish, impulsive, short-tempered, lazy, enjoying success, greedy and extravagant" and so on are the most criticized. In fact, are these problems common among us ordinary people? Nowadays, housing prices are so high and the pressure is so great that young people want to gain a foothold in big cities. How many people really have the ability to buy a house and a car without family support? As for Ma Baonan, that is, a negative effect of his son's inability to rely on his parents, his mother will spend a lot of money for you, so can't you be sweet and obedient? This is all caused by the fact that the economy cannot be independent. There are so many only children in modern times that they have been spoiled since childhood. How many people can bear hardships and make a difference on their own? Parents have created conditions for you. No one is born like struggling, laziness is human nature.
Su Daqiang, an old man in the Su family, is also the spokesman of "being a father". He is weak and incompetent, selfish, shirking responsibility, narrow-minded, saving face, boasting, lazy, have it both ways, guarding a small notebook, full of complaints, greedy for money, bullying, relying on the old to sell the old, and so on. There are countless shortcomings; But our own father also has these problems to some extent. How many fathers in the world are brave and indomitable? Don't they all have their own little plans and their own little thoughts? People will feel insecure when they are old. In the traditional concept of China people, raising children for old age. This concept is deeply rooted. Now many young people are really old-fashioned and used to it. How to make parents not worry about their own pension problems? Of course, they can't give it all to their sons, especially since the second son is a long-term doyen.
In the TV series, Su Jiasan and his son are actually typical representatives of China family men, but these shortcomings are slightly exaggerated by the plot. Many people do have these bad habits, but we feel good about ourselves and don't want to admit it. This is the characteristic of ordinary people in China. Their advantages are not outstanding, but they still have many shortcomings. Ordinary people themselves are not good enough, otherwise how can they fall into the crowd? This is just their ability and skill.
Most ordinary people have shortcomings, but they are not bad, and they need to see their bright spots.
The shortcomings of the three fathers and sons in the TV series "Everything is Fine" have indeed been infinitely magnified, and public opinion has also criticized them. But you can say that you hate the virtues of the Su's three sons, but you can't say that they are bad people. Even if they have shortcomings of one kind or another, people themselves are not bad, and even have a lovely and warm side. As a complex complex, an ordinary person has both advantages and disadvantages. The so-called perfect person you see doesn't exist, or you haven't found him yet, or people won't let you see him at all.
Uncle Su's works are all kinds of monsters, but others are honest. He said one thing, never wronged anyone, kept a small notebook, and told the truth basically in line with the facts, but he didn't finish some words. Secondly, Uncle Su is very trustworthy. Su Mingyu has never enjoyed family support resources since she was a child, so even if her daughter has money, she should not be responsible for supporting the elderly. He is very insistent on this point. Finally, Su Daqiang is actually observant, smart and accurate in judging people. He knows his children's personalities like the back of his hand, so he also has his own skills in the Su family. He speaks on his own, like a demon, and knows every child's weakness like the back of his hand. He is stupid and clever.
Su Mingzhe, the boss of Su, has many shortcomings, but don't forget that he also has some bright spots. Excellent grades are not the average level. Jiangsu was admitted to Tsinghua University, studied in Stanford, USA, and studied for a doctorate ... Well, how many ordinary people can do it? It is not so easy to learn well to this extent. Besides, he is really filial to his parents. He had to go home after his mother died and lost his job, and he was also respectful to his father. I am also responsible for my family. I am bent on reconciling the relationship between Sue's brother and sister, but my ability is not enough, but my starting point is still good.
Sue's second son, Su Ming, is a bit "fried" when it comes true, which is the kind of "fried" that often explodes thunder, and may also be scolded the most, especially when he and his sister Su Mingyu really went too far. How can he tear it like this? But he also has a bright spot. First, he is also very filial. After the mother died, it was actually the second child who really assumed the responsibility of supporting his father. Su Daqiang has been living with the second couple. Although I have been living on my laurels, I am mainly filial afterwards. Su Daqiang's picky needs were met by the young couple no matter how hard they worked. There are also details of a second child covering his sleeping father with a quilt. Although he is not at all, at least he is not unfilial. Besides, the second child really loves his wife. When there is an irreconcilable contradiction between his wife and his father, he becomes a father and has to coax his wife. Actually, it's not easy to miss him. When he was with his mother, the situation was quite different. It is said that Su Mingcheng longed for old age, and later he and Julie also paid back the money. He doesn't want to be prolific, but that's his ability. He's used to his mother. How productive can he be?
The reason why Everything's OK is good-looking can arouse everyone's enthusiasm for discussion and drama pursuit is because the characters in it are still realistic. They are all ordinary people around us, especially the three sons of Sue's family. They are so representative. The works do not beautify their personal settings at all, but constantly enlarge their shortcomings through family conflicts. In fact, think about it, isn't this ourselves? Think that we all have some shortcomings and problems. Everything is OK is a work that makes us face up to ourselves and reflect on ourselves. From this point of view, this work is really good.
In real life, it is bloodier than this family, and the ending is entirely the author's good wish! In fact, it is impossible to be complete!
Sue and his son are not like men. There are too many such things, such families and such men, even if they like to call themselves big men, what kind of men they are.