1. From a rational point of view
The affection between men and women is not whether they are in the workplace or not. Of course, relatively speaking, the affection between men and women in life is much purer than that in work, because there may still be various factors such as money and rights in the workplace. It is normal for men and women to have a good impression on each other before, or to exist unilaterally. Just the right workplace affection will make your love stand out in front of each other, especially the leader. Generally speaking, such a good impression will improve work efficiency and enhance work ability. This is good for the company or itself.
2. From an emotional point of view
The first reason why male and female employees in the workplace have a good impression on leaders of the opposite sex is their appearance. My fair lady, a gentleman, and an equally handsome male leader will also make a large number of female employees fall in love. At first, this kind of affection may come from appearance, but later it was more attracted by the charm of the leader himself. This charm comes more from the steadiness and maturity of the leader's own years of workplace experience, rather than a good feeling, which is a pursuit with a trace of yearning.
Step 3 control your feelings
Most workplace romances are not optimistic, which is why many couples will not choose to work in a company after marriage. Office romance, if successful, will also cause fatigue because of living in the same space day and night. Beauty has a certain reason. Office romances are also more likely to be gossiped by colleagues. Many people think that falling in love with leaders will bring great help to their career and life. In fact, truly wise leaders pay more attention to ability. After an office romance, your leader will subconsciously relax the demands on you, regardless of public or private. After a long time, your work ability will not be improved, but will delay your real internship because of gossip among colleagues.
If the office romance fails, living in the same space and breathing air will make you feel stressed. If the water is divided peacefully, it may be peace after the gossip storm. If there is a contradiction, you must be the one who left before you and the leader.
Therefore, it is normal to have a good impression on the opposite sex leaders in the workplace, but you should have a good sense of proportion and suggest not to engage in office romance.
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