What is the way of falling in love at first sight?
It means that boys or girls have feelings for each other as soon as they meet, and like him or her as soon as they meet. On the contrary, the difference is that I like each other's speed.
A simple interpretation of love at first sight: Bell: concentration; Love: love concentration. Men and women fell in love as soon as they met. It also means that you like it as soon as you meet.
Out: Qing? Mo prodigal son's West Lake on Sword: It was Meng's love at first sight, and my heart felt something. ?
Usage: linkage type; As predicate, attribute and object; Used for love between men and women.
Example: Xu Chi's Three Gorges story? Travel far: Qilian Mountain captured my heart, Qinghai Lake I ~? .
Synonym: love at first sight, love at first sight, hit it off.
Antonym: indifference, stranger, passerby
Two-part allegorical saying: White Lady borrows an umbrella.
Riddles: 1. The story of Lu Bu meeting Diusim.
2. Love at first sight (type four words) Answer: quite satisfied [1]
fall in love at first sight
Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu.
It was love at first sight for Mongolia, so my heart felt something.
Mo prodigal son's Story of the West Lake? Xi ling Ji Yun
The cultural background of love at first sight is unique in the emotional pedigree of China people. Love at first sight? Our relationship needs to be reviewed.
Love at first sight, read this flat syllable, just like those ups and downs of the historical chapters, China for five thousand years, is nothing more than love and hate. In fact, we are not the only ones in China. Whose history can be divorced from love? However, due to the limitation of Chinese, many questions have become unsolved throughout the ages, for example, people who love each other ask? Why do you like me? This fundamental reason is often vague. Even with a thousand years of emotional writing history, people in China are always unable to express their feelings. In the Qing dynasty, a man finally broke the silence and deciphered the love spell that was wrapped around countless people's hearts, which was simply four words: love at first sight.
Love at first sight jumps out of the category of love. For example, in the workplace, people emphasize to leave a deep first impression on others, so you will find that every time you see a resume, the men in the photo are well dressed and the women are charming and lovely. Many clothing stores have also specially introduced interview clothes for people who are about to interview.
The core argument of Pozmann's masterpiece Death by Entertainment is that appearance is more important, and image is more important. Nowadays, politicians spend more time in front of the mirror than reading speeches. Some people say that today, Lincoln, who is ugly, will definitely not be president, and Roosevelt, who is in a wheelchair, will not be able to sit for that long. His point of view is to be prepared every day and always be ready to meet the right person or thing.
This is almost a tone, a template that can be copied at any time. When time, place, characters and props change, the subject, predicate, object, tone and vocabulary are reversed, and the names of sighing men change from Mo prodigal son to Cao Zhi, Li Bai, Qin Guan, Li Shangyin and Nalan Xingde. Only the feelings and sighs have not changed, but the piled words are enough to stop people.
Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu.
Su Xiaoxiao's deeds were first seen in an ancient poem "Xiao Su Ge in Qiantang" in the collection of poems edited by Chen Ren Xu Ling in the Southern Dynasties.
My concubine rides a tanker and Lang rides a green horse.
Where is the knot? Xiling pine and cypress.
What a frank and unrestrained emotion, choose an elegant time and tie the knot easily. Nowadays, such feelings and self-confidence are gone and hard to get. Xu Ling didn't explain Su Xiaoxiao's identity background, and the latecomers just imagined it. According to Yuefu Guangti, Su Xiaoxiao is a famous geisha in Qiantang, with seven people in the south. Some people say that she is from Jiaxing County. Li Shen's Preface to the True Mother's Tomb says that there is a prostitute Su Xiaoxiao's tomb in Jiaxing County, which is stormy, or there is a singing voice on it. Because there is no textual research, and there are many legends, the fragmentary pearls left by scholars in previous dynasties have left a lot of creative space for Mo prodigal son. The West Lake on Sword is a masterpiece, among which the chapter of Xiling Rhyme is particularly amazing.
There are many suitors in Su Xiaoxiao, and they were already famous in Suzhou and Hangzhou before 28th. ? There have long been rich sons and Hakka squires, who want to be singers or marry concubines, and they are willing to pay a lot of money. One after another, Su Xiaoxiao is resigned to his fate. ?
Aunt Jia, the pimp of the brothel, advised her to choose a good family to marry before it was too late, or she would have lived in vain. Su Xiaoxiao's answer to the procuress is the first work of independent women;
My aunt's original intention is to cherish my niece, which is extreme. But my niece has a hobby, and her favorite is the scenery of the West Lake. You can only sit in the cage and watch the sky, but you can't swim two peaks and three bamboos. Besides, wealth and poverty are tied to life. You will never be born in a prostitute's house. Since I was born into a prostitute's family, it is not the fate of a golden house. Entering the back door, the lions in Hedong will not show off; Three or five little stars must be jealous. Luxury goods and things that are not durable have no certain feeling of wealth, and it is easy for people to get ahead. It's better to move the famous flowers from the shrine, put them in the city of Japan and smell them in your nose. Who doesn't cherish the fragrance and cherish the jade; Who doesn't love color when they see it? When the daughter laughs, Hualiu will fight for herself. Ten dollars, the romantic was willing to let. The fragrance is beautiful, like sweet bait, the sound of flying out of the tube, peaches everywhere. Looking at each other at dusk, wild mandarin ducks don't look at birds; Spring is red, autumn is purple, and fake marriage is different. Why do you swear to pity the new like a sunny day? Forgetting the past may be regarded as a cloud. Happy today, rest tomorrow, nothing more than dew; There are so-called fireworks for the time being. In love, people do their best and run away with a smile; Care, might as well be tolerant and happy. Although leaning against the door to offer a smile, don't laugh for the sake of fame; Pity for widows will not be abandoned by the holy king. Brothel red powder, not only has this narrow and evil profession; If you marry Zhu Yan, you won't have a gentle miracle. From this point of view, with my niece's talent, a pen and an ink will definitely open the Jade Hall of Chu Museum; As a niece, smile and frown, and swear to enjoy the golden house in Qin Lou. Money and food in the house are endless, and horses are filled all day long. Be a beautiful heart, and then have a romantic wish. If you can be an outstanding beauty in the prostitute house, wouldn't it be better to be a concubine accompanying the team at the waiting door? If this is my niece's ambition, why don't I know my aunt?
What a Su Xiaoxiao! Looking at women in ancient and modern times, who is so self-aware and sober, who can be so calm? For example, Huo Xiaoyu loves talents, but she meets her husband; Liang Hongyu has an eye for people, knows each other, but is legendary; Cui Yingying was abandoned at the beginning of the chaos, which was also a sad end; A lion's roar can't save love. It's better to look down on Xue Tao in the Tang Dynasty and Li Shishi in the Song Dynasty, as Su Xiaoxiao said. Brilliant and charming, Liu finally threw herself into the river without hesitation, and even the great historian Chen Yinque could not save her tragic fate.
A person who loves Qiantang landscape and nature will be so unruly that he will naturally not commit himself to ordinary people. Aunt Jia talked about Su Xiaoxiao and things again. One daughter, one hired; Xianggong's son is also a noble person; Small family is weak, and teenagers are also; Bright and affectionate, romantic figures also; My niece won this stupid melon, and she won't disgrace her previous reputation and her future reputation. Please think for yourself and don't miss it. ? With the love at first sight and Jia Yi's trust, Su Xiaoxiao and Ruan Yu finally consummated their marriage. Later, Ruan Yu was urgently recalled to Beijing by the Prime Minister's father, and he was never heard from again. If there is another chance for her to have an eye for people like Bao Ren, it will be too easy. Only knowing each other, knowing each other, there is no more love, only the beauty of Qiantang in her eyes has not diminished. Four or five years later, she passed away peacefully, just as she was calm and open-minded in history and at the beginning of the story.
She was glad to die a fair death. ? When beauty is not lost, the winner will be eternal. . Mo prodigal son in Qing Dynasty must have read the story of Mrs Sinan in Han Dynasty before he saw through the human smile and issued his last words with the same insight into human nature. Communication is a cloud, but love is still flowing. It came and went, and suddenly it came and went. Why not? To whom? As for the coffin, I have materialized and disappeared. What is abundance and frugality? Listen to human feelings. But I was born in Xiling, died in Xiling, and was buried in Xiling, so I failed to live up to my Su Xiaoxiao's landscape addiction. ? After all, she returned to her favorite scenery, which made her an eternal story.
Over the years, countless people have joined Su Xiaoxiao. Qiantang has been prosperous since ancient times. Let her rest in peace.
Cui Yingying and Zhang Sheng.
Wang Shifu wrote in The West Chamber that when Zhang Sheng saw Cui Yingying in Fusui, he shouted? Is cracking down on something 500 years ago. , met the fairy elder sister. According to the meaning of Buddhism, fate is doomed, and 500 years is a reincarnation, right? In 500 years, you will be in the same boat? Say, even some illiterate people can sing? In order to meet you, I begged in front of the Buddha for 500 years? At that time, Zhang Sheng was a romantic place, but he cried in his heart that he had never seen anything he liked so much, and he couldn't say anything. He was speechless and stunned.
Master Wang has never seen it, only Ren stammered that he felt this way. They don't even know what this feeling is called. Love at first sight? . To prove the beauty of Cui Yingying, Master Wang invited a monk. ? When the master is old, the throne is staring; A monitor was really tired. He looked at Facong's head and made a golden bell jar. ? Such a funny scene, actually? Iron man? Will be tempted, won't it? Me? Zhang Sheng regards Yingying as a treasure.
Cui Yingying, I didn't know she had such a flirtatious look. When did Cui Yingying leave? A bedroom turn? Some people said they gave Zhang Sheng a glad eye, while others said they didn't. This problem has become a war of words among a group of bookworms. To answer this question, you have to use Stephen Chow's "Tang Bohu's Eye-catching Phase".
Tang Bohu thinks Chou-heung is full of affection for San Xiao. She thought she fell in love at first sight and went to verify it, but she was ridiculed. She can't fall in love at first sight, but she is sentimental. If you add Zhang Sheng's copy of Duan Yu in Jin Yong's works, you will find that these three men who always misunderstand have suffered a lot in the scandal, and you can see it. Love at first sight? Narrative matrix, flooding and classics. Even Wei Xiaobao, who has really seen the world and enjoyed everything, will feel bored when he sees Chisui yelling with a sledgehammer? I'm already dead. Am I dead? . Otherwise, the love of writing has become a big problem, and it takes great efforts to control this kind of writing. Women should not only have a shocking appearance, but also have outstanding wisdom and talent. If these are not available, the origin is very important, and they must not feel in love with vases. The strangest thing is that the writer tries to prove that when? Love at first sight? When it happened, both sides fell in love not only with each other's faces, but also with their own souls. But obviously, this is a lie.
There is no doubt that Cui Yingying has it all. Gradually, Zhang Sheng discovered that Cui Yingying, the daughter of the Prime Minister, was born in a noble family, knew a lot about the world, had amazing wisdom in dealing with the world, had a high literary accomplishment, and was especially good at calligraphy. Look at this poem: Gui Lan was lonely for a long time and had nothing to do with Fang Chun. People who are expected to sing should pity others. ? Zhang sheng said with emotion:? At this time, at that time, the beauty was talented and the world was exclusive. ?
so this is it？ This time, another time? Revealed all the secrets, thinking that Zhang was fascinated when he saw Cui Yingying, and knew nothing about Cui Yingying. He began to look into her eyes from head to toe, and even read her joys and sorrows. There, everyone is flirting with Xiang Shoulder. Who thought that when they met a fairy in the temple, they couldn't steal jade or incense, so they were fooled by this cloud. It can be seen that Zhang Sheng is right? Love at first sight? Expect. But a smart person like Su Xiaoxiao can't expect too much from her, can she? Love at first sight? To take her to get married, she just found a dedicated person for the first time.
So, we can say, Love at first sight? Is actually a way to open your desire? Love is just flesh and blood. Soul? Did you really see the soul? In this way, whether in fictional works or in real life, everything is likely to continue. In implicit Chinese, although we have amazing love words, it is difficult to find that kind of frank approval.
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Then, let's take a look at what Casanova, a famous western prodigal son, said. ? If you love human beings, you should love them completely? ,? A person's life, happiness or not, luck or not, can only be enjoyed once. Who doesn't love life, who is not worthy of life. ? The world and body constitute the whole of Casanova, and he spared no effort to seize every moment to enjoy it. Because the next moment is unpredictable. He said:? Four fifths of my happiness is achieved by pleasing women. ?
Casanova brought love from imaginary castles in the air to real life. In this world, he can enjoy happiness with every woman who has the heart and courage. Just as Rousseau, a Frenchman, looked for sentimental sentiment from love, and Goethe, a German, borrowed Witt to look for melancholy from love, Casanova, an Italian, showed such a principle: wild love is necessary, which can most effectively help all sentient beings get rid of all kinds of burdens. It is not difficult to imagine that in his romantic life, there are more than one hundred women, from fifteen-year-old girls to seventy-year-old women.
Yes, it's the body. Not only men, but also women. Duras also said:? If you have never experienced passion, you can't experience anything in life. ? Follow? Absolute obedience to physical desires, absolute experience of passion? Duras, from the beginning, broke the restrictions from the region and the nation, and communicated the most essential life regardless of the occasion, in an attempt to wake up the sleeping body. When Duras took Andre, a college student 40 years younger than himself? When Yang got it, was he resisting the irresistible decline of his body or trying to prove his insatiable excitement and passion for life?
In a blink of an eye, some modern women made a similar cry: Hearing the voice of German man Mark, I got wet below. ? This is a rare expression in Chinese. The body was opened, in addition to showing its super desire, it also internationalized the body like Duras. But even this voice was quickly drowned out.
Look at the current network, it's all visual, all to cater to many people? Love at first sight? Psychological expectation. For example, the popular SNS dating site, real-name registration system, needs a beautiful personal photo as the first element if its space is to be popular.
It is almost certain that if you can't fall in love at first sight, you can't fall in love again. This is the attitude given by the times, not from China. [2]
Psychological characteristics of love at first sight Generally speaking, when men and women meet for the first time, apart from expressing acceptance, acceptance and appreciation for the other person's explicit personality characteristics, such as good knowledge, good manners, beautiful appearance and proper advance and retreat, heterosexual communication is aesthetic? Physiological effects? It is also an important factor to stimulate emotions. It can be considered that both parties who fall in love at first sight are generally accompanied by some kind of emotional or physical experience and feeling, such as closeness, pleasure, admiration, etc., which is exactly opposite sex attraction? Natural? Fundamentals, especially those? Conditions? This is especially true for quite a few men and women. As we all know, the situation of having a good impression or sharing similar interests at the first meeting will also happen between the same sex, but this feeling is different from that of the opposite sex who fell in love at the first meeting. What if? Love at first sight? If the opposite sex likes it at the first meeting, then? Hit it off at first sight? It can be said that people of the same sex hit it off at the first meeting. However, this kind of congenial feelings may be like-minded, may be a brief encounter, or may be a bad love and similar interests. Love at first sight and love at first sight are very similar in psychological process, but quite different in emotional content and mechanism.
How long does it take for love at first sight? The answer is 30 seconds. According to a large-scale fast dating experiment conducted by British experts, if you can't impress the opposite sex within 30 seconds, then you are destined to be? No one? .
The experiment was conducted by weismann, a professor at the University of Hertfordshire. He asked 100 singles looking for a life partner to date 10 people of the opposite sex quickly, and at the same time rated the attractiveness of the date and decided whether to contact each other again. It turns out that most people make a decision within 30 seconds, and women have a shorter time to choose.
Weismann said that men are often criticized for focusing only on women's appearance, but the experimental results are just the opposite. Women are more picky about appearance than men. In other words, a man has only a few seconds to win his heart, so the opening remarks are very important.
In the experiment, for those excellent participants, almost 100% of the dating partners want to meet again, and about 30% of them don't even have a chance to date again. The reason may be that their eyes are too high or they are clumsy when dating.
Love at first sight test love at first sight index
What would you do if you received an inexplicable E_mail love letter with beautiful words and rich emotions, without signature or recipient?
A. Wait quietly for the next letter
B. Write back and ask questions
C. reply to a letter with rich words and emotions
D. Ignore it and return it directly.
A. You are a little passive, afraid of rejection, and would rather sit in the same place and wait than summon up the courage to express your mind. If the other party doesn't respond, don't you dare to take the initiative and hold it all the time? I am lucky to get it; No, my life. ? Fatalism, helplessly let go of the opportunity.
B. You have reservations about love at first sight, but you won't shut the door on the opportunity. I hope I can explore the road carefully step by step to avoid hurting myself.
C. On the emotional journey, you are extremely ambitious, and you can take the initiative and make bold courtship. Although not every time you fall in love at first sight, you can win the battle. At least the determination and courage to go to the battlefield of love have made the other party dare not and cannot ignore your existence.
D. you are always cautious about people of unknown origin and don't want to let people into your world casually. You have built the wall so high that only those who play according to your rules of the game have a chance to break into your solid heart, so you can't fall in love at first sight.
Will it be love at first sight?
Backpack is a popular commodity, and various backpack styles are constantly being renovated. Young people must have several backpacks. Which of the following is your favorite backpack type?
knapsack
(b) Large one-shoulder backpack
(3). backpack
(d) small shoulder bag
To tell the truth, you are not a believer in love at first sight, but interestingly, you have quite a few chances to be electrocuted. A stranger's good face and handsome figure, or his eyes and movements, may make your sensitive heart jump and forget who you are on the spot, but with more experience, you are a little careless, because you never dare to turn your thoughts into actions and then gradually forget them, so there is only that moment.
B- For love at first sight, you love the unknown feeling, don't know the other person's name and any background information, just follow your intuition, whether it comes from animals or the so-called sixth sense, that is, electricity is applied to your visual nerve and whole body cells. You like the pure sensory feeling, but you don't have much chance to be electrocuted, which is a little sad. Maybe so, you will cherish these opportunities.
Love at first sight is an unrealistic idea for you. You don't believe in what was predestined in previous lives. After seeing it at first sight, you still need to get along to know whether it is suitable or not. You believe in love at first sight, which is more important to you, because it is a super risky thing for you to fall madly in love with someone just by one eye impression, so you are shocked.
It is not so much that you believe in love at first sight as that you long for it. No matter how cool your appearance is, in fact, you still have expectations for love inside. No matter how many stories you read about men and women leaving you, no matter how many times you have experienced ups and downs in boundless love, you still believe that among the hundreds of millions of people in this world, one person will be your soul mate. When you see him (her), you will feel that fire meets calcium carbide.
Love time
Talking to people is all about love.
Love at first sight, love after a long time.
Ask if you believe it.
She said: all believe it.
I didn't believe it before. I thought it was too difficult. Later, I gradually felt that I should believe that it was not what kind of experience I had, but what I saw and heard was more gorgeous and beautiful.
Love at first sight is not incredible. In fact, it is easy for people to like some people and things in an instant. As far as the eye can see, it is pleasing to the eye and pleasing to the heart, and then I hope to have it all the time.
Pearl jade, a cheongsam, a good book, or just a hairpin.
There are also people who have a crush. But this feeling is different from the favorite items.
It's not without reason, but most of them are small, and it seems that they are not easy to detect themselves. Because of a look, a movement, a smile. There is such a feeling in your heart that it is as gorgeous, silent and spread like summer flowers in an instant.
These flowers are becoming more and more charming.