I didn't know the custom of bridesmaids until I was about twenty. Because no brother or sister is married, I don't know much about it. The only way is through Weibo or Twitter.

I think in the traditional concept of China people, getting married is a lively thing. I think the noisy bride is a good friend of the bride and groom on the one hand, and has the opportunity to get together for entertainment. On the other hand, I hope to increase the excitement of the wedding by being a bridesmaid, because most people in China like to join in the fun.

I think the intention of this custom is good, but with the immorality of people's ideas, the bride has changed.

I saw a video on Weibo earlier. On the occasion of their wedding, two groomsmen forcibly dragged one of the bridesmaids into the car to commit obscene acts. The bridesmaid has been resisting, but a weak girl can't resist the two big men after all, and the two groomsmen have been giving out lewd laughter.

To be honest, this video really left some shadows in my heart. I think this subverts my understanding of newlyweds, and I also have serious doubts about the morality of some groomsmen now.

I don't object to flirting with bridesmaids or bridesmaids when we are newly married, but don't go too far and stop. You have no bottom line. If it was your girlfriend or your wife, would you feel better if she was so upset by others?

Now the times are progressing, but some people's ideological level is seriously declining. The existence of traditional customs in China is to hope that people will not forget their roots and understand the significance of previous customs when practicing. However, I don't think it is necessary to ignore this distorted custom.