As the saying goes, "Marry a chicken and follow a dog", once a woman gets married and has a family, her relationship with her family will gradually alienate.
The woman's parents have worked hard to raise their daughter for more than 20 years. After marriage, they will become other people's wives. It is understandable to ask for some bride price.
And some parents, with the mentality of "selling their daughters", want a bride price as soon as the lion opens his mouth. Once the man finds it difficult to accept such conditions, the young couple may separate.
If you meet a more extreme man, you may also be killed. A "bride price murder case" in Zhuzhou, Hunan Province is a bloody lesson.
Because the demolition is just around the corner, one more man will get more compensation, so he hurried to get the certificate with the woman. After the two lived together, the husband found that his wife had lost 1 time, so he was unhappy all day.
In the eyes of elders, getting a license is not a marriage, and it is a formal marriage after the wedding. However, before the wedding was reissued, the woman's parents demanded a bride price of 200,000, which made it difficult for her husband to accept.
He thinks that when his wife is not 1, he still needs 200 thousand bride price, which is obviously bullying. Finally, the husband was so angry that he killed all six people in his father-in-law's family, including his pregnant wife.
How did all this happen? How did the murderer end up dead?
Demolition marriage
20 13, Liyu Community in Tianyuan District, Zhuzhou City, Hunan Province is facing demolition, and compensation is paid according to the population.
Luo Laohan, who lives in Liyu community, began to prepare for his son's marriage. Luo Wei, the son of Luo Laohan, is 23 years old and not married.
If you get married before the demolition, there will be one more person in your family, and then you can get an extra 200,000 to 300,000 yuan for the demolition. To this end, Luo Laohan launched various relationships in order to find a suitable marriage partner for his son.
20/kloc-in September, 2003, 23-year-old Luo Wei met 20-year-old Cheng Yao under the introduction of the matchmaker. After the blind date, the two felt good about each other and naturally talked about love.
In order to get more compensation, the two met for only two months and then got a marriage certificate in a hurry.
However, in such a short time, the newlyweds didn't know each other thoroughly at all, which also laid a hidden danger for future misfortune.
Cheng Yao is from Tang Jiu Village, Shifeng District, Zhuzhou City. He used to work in a bank in Changsha, Hunan. During this period, Cheng Yao talked about love, and her boyfriend was also from Shifeng District, Zhuzhou.
After falling in love, Cheng Yao gave up his banking job and resolutely returned to Zhuzhou to be with her boyfriend. This is Cheng Yao's first love. She put all her feelings on her boyfriend, and they naturally had a close relationship.
When Cheng Yao's parents learned that their daughter was in love, they investigated Cheng Yao's boyfriend. As a result, parents learned that their daughter's boyfriend didn't have a formal job at all and was a standard "neet", so they naturally opposed this relationship.
In the eyes of parents, such a man is simply not enough to be entrusted for life. So under the repeated pressure of parents, Cheng Yao broke up with her boyfriend.
In order to find a good family for her daughter, parents began to arrange blind dates, and finally met Luo Wei through a matchmaker.
Luo Wei and Cheng Yao lived together after they got the marriage certificate. However, the first night, Luo Wei found that this was not the first time for Cheng Yao, which made him very angry.
Luo Wei is honest. Although he is 23 years old, it is the first time. So when he found that his wife was not the first time, his heart was full of anger and shame.
Unfortunate wedding life
Honest people like Luo Wei are usually paranoid. He couldn't get over it when he learned that his wife was not the first time.
In order to alleviate the depression in her heart, Luo Wei began to vent her anger to Cheng Yao, with a very bad attitude and often carried out domestic violence.
Before receiving the certificate, Cheng Yao had happily shared his joy on the Internet.
However, not long after receiving the certificate, she wrote on the Internet: "This family has no warmth, no care, only silence and violence. Who can understand such a day? "
After discovering that Cheng Yao was abnormal, my girlfriend and cousin had in-depth communication with her. After learning the reason of Luo Wei's domestic violence, they can only persuade Cheng Yao to "communicate more".
However, no matter what Cheng Yao does, Luo Wei's heart is always there, and he has been tortured by shame and anger.
After marriage, Luo Wei stopped paying attention to personal image and grew long hair. The whole person has been in a daze all day. Luo Wei, who is usually friendly to others, began to get used to being alone. If you are slightly dissatisfied, you will lose your temper and even hit people.
Because it's not the first time, Luo Wei and Cheng Yao are both in pain.
A few months later, Cheng Yao was pregnant and the compensation arrived. Luo Wei's family was divided into more than 2 million, with an average of about 300,000 per person, and even the children in the belly were divided into more than 80,000.
After Cheng Yao became pregnant, Luo Wei relented and stopped chatting up, but he remained indifferent and didn't take care of his pregnant wife at all. Cheng Yao is also a young man and has his own personality. She couldn't stand such treatment, so she simply went back to her mother's house in a rage.
Both parents knew that the young couple were at odds and tried their best to persuade them. In the eyes of the elderly, getting a marriage certificate is not marriage. Marriage is not official until the wedding is held.
So the elders of both sides discussed to reissue the wedding, hoping to ease the relationship between Luo Wei and Cheng Yao.
200,000 bride price brewing tragedy
In June of 20 14, Cheng Yao was pregnant for six months and needed to get married urgently. So the elders at home took Luo Wei to Cheng Yaojin's home to discuss the wedding.
After some conversation, Cheng Yao's parents hoped that the man would accompany the bride price of 200,000 yuan, and Luo Wei's elders also agreed. After all, I gave Cheng Yao about 300,000 yuan in compensation, not to mention a child in my stomach.
The matter of reconciliation and wedding was negotiated peacefully. Who would have thought Luo Wei was even more angry?
In Luo Wei's view, this is not the first time for his wife. How can he ask for a bride price of 200 thousand? Obviously bullying him.
But Luo Wei is not good at talking, so he can only bury everything in his heart. On the same day, Luo Wei brought Cheng Yao home, and both elders thought that the young couple had made up.
However, in the following days, Luo Wei remained indifferent to Cheng Yao, and there was no preparation for the wedding. Cheng Yao's father also made a special door-to-door inquiry. As a result, Luo Wei just replied coldly: "What else do you want me to do?"
Luo Wei's pain cannot be told to his family. The reason why his relationship with Cheng Yao is so bad is that no one knows the real reason except his girlfriend and cousin.
Cheng Yao saw Luo Wei still unchanged, and she was completely cold. In the end, she decided to divorce and never live like this again.
After Cheng Yao filed a divorce with the court, he asked Luo Wei to pay 200,000 yuan for the child's birth check-up, maintenance and relocation compensation. On July 3, 2065438, a court summons was served on Luo Wei.
When Luo Wei saw that it was another 200,000 yuan, he completely lost his mind.
In Luo Wei's view, it is not the first time for his wife to hold a wedding or divorce, and he should not pay a penny. Cheng Yaojia's request is simply cruel.
Because of his wife, Luo Wei's temperament changed greatly after she got married. Perhaps in the eyes of others, it is not the first time to be a wife, and there is not much problem. However, Luo Wei was always tortured by this incident and even tried to commit suicide to get rid of it.
When asked for a gift of 200,000 yuan, Luo Wei has become a "powder keg", a detonator can detonate, and the court summons has just become the fuse.
On the second day after receiving the summons, Luo Wei embarked on the road of no return.
At about 2 am on August 1 2065438, Luo Wei sneaked into Cheng Yao's house with a knife and killed all six members of Cheng Yao's family. Cheng Yao himself, his grandfather, parents, brother and sister all survived.
It is worth noting that Cheng Yao was pregnant for eight months when she was killed, and the child was about to be born.
Although he is his own flesh and blood, Luo Wei is not soft-hearted, which shows that he is completely crazy.
Luo Wei didn't run away after killing. He had planned it long ago and finally committed suicide by throwing himself into the river at Liyu Ferry in Tianyuan District.
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There are many things worth pondering in this "bride price murder case". If Luo Wei and Cheng Yao had a deep understanding before obtaining the license, perhaps they would not have obtained the license, and such a murder tragedy would not have happened.
If Luo Wei's family hadn't greedily demanded more compensation, perhaps Luo Wei wouldn't have married in a hurry. There are too many tragedies caused by demolition. It's too expensive to lose your life because of a little money.
In the face of marriage, I hope both men and women should be cautious. After all, this is a lifetime thing. Don't get married because of money and interests, to avoid such a tragedy.