Now, when you get married, the clothes you wear will change with your own mood. However, it is obvious from ancient weddings that you can't wear bright clothes, but only dark black ones. Especially in the Zhou Dynasty and Han Dynasty, the whole wedding scene was solemn, not as lively as it is now. There was no music at that time, and the color of clothes was mainly dark black.
Whether modern people get married or ancient people get married, there are certain steps. In ancient weddings, the first thing you have to do is to sue the temple. It means that before the groom meets the bride, he needs to pray in his temple and explain to his ancestors that he is going to get married. Then she resigned from the temple, and now she is usually a bride. Now she is saying goodbye to her parents. Mother tied a ribbon representing her thoughts on the bride's waist and taught her daughter a lesson. Then, in the same prison, two newlyweds eat meat sacrifices together, which shows that two people * * * are respectful and humble, * * * is advancing, and * * * is regressing. Secondly, marriage, that is, drinking a glass of wine, one party drinks his own wine first, and then hands another glass to the other party to drink it off.
It is not so easy for the groom to meet the bride. The ancient wedding mentioned that the groom had to write three poems, requiring the man to be talented in order to write poems that satisfied the woman. This requirement was quite popular in the Tang Dynasty. Wedding dresses in the Tang Dynasty are very luxurious, with music, singing and dancing. The biggest feature is that poetry can support the whole wedding banquet.
In ancient weddings, poetry was written step by step. The first is the husband, in short, teasing the groom. On the way to greet the bride, relatives and friends on the bride's side will beat the groom with straw. When the groom gives the prize money, he still needs to sing poems to praise the bride until everyone present is satisfied. Secondly, make-up poems, that is, when the groom arrives at the bride's house, sing poems to make the bride get dressed quickly. If the bride is satisfied, she will leave the boudoir, bid farewell to her parents and get on the bus to go to her husband's house. Then, it is a carriage. That is, the groom has picked up the bride and is going home. Good people will let the carriage block the way home. If you want to release, you need to write a poem that everyone is satisfied with. After that, it was Lu Qing's worship. On the wedding day, two couples live outside and use Lu Qing, so they need to pay tribute to each other. When the bride entered Luqing, she met a pig for the first time, which meant that many children were blessed. Then there is a poem. The groom needs to look at the bride's face. Before meeting the groom, he needs to write a poem to praise the bride and make her happy. Finally, raise your hand and salute. The newlyweds held hands tightly and recited poems together.
There is not so much pressure to get married now, as long as the ceremony is simple and easy to handle. But in ancient weddings, there are many requirements that you need to seriously implement. However, in the eyes of people now, it is quite interesting. Poetry can reflect the literary talent of newlyweds, and it can also be elegant. Wearing dark black clothes makes you look solemn. Modern society does not advocate these, just follow one's inclinations.