The so-called "sitting in bed" means that on the night of the wedding, people say they are pregnant. Some people think that "sitting in bed and being happy" means adding happiness to happiness, which will bring double happiness. One month after marriage, some people will hold another banquet for those who are "happy in bed". They will wear red clothes and blow and beat to celebrate. Especially in some remote rural areas, people who think they are "happy in bed" are lucky, and pregnant women are proud of their double worth. In fact, the practice of modern medicine and eugenics proves that "happiness in bed" is not all happiness, while others lead to lifelong regret and cast a shadow over happy families.
Most people who hold weddings always set several tables, especially on the big day, a couple have to juggle between banquets and take turns toasting the guests. Out of politeness and excitement, the bride and groom naturally have to raise their glasses and drink more, or even get drunk. In some places, after the banquet, young people will "make trouble in the bridal chamber", and the bride and groom will be punished for drinking and smoking. In some places, there are also "drinking a glass of wine" and "drinking in bed" after entering the bridal chamber. It can be said that they are drowned in alcohol and tobacco all day. Some newlyweds get pregnant after drinking.
So, what's the harm of "sitting in bed"? First of all, pregnancy after drinking is not good for fetal development. Alcohol is harmful to germ cells, whether sperm or eggs. Pregnancy after drinking will make the incidence of fetal growth retardation, short stature, deformity and mental retardation higher than normal 10 times. Even if there is no deformity, the fetus is stunted and dull, which leads to "fetal alcoholism syndrome". Secondly, before marriage, the two sides ran around shopping and decorating their new houses, which was quite tiring. From the perspective of eugenics, pregnancy under extreme fatigue is unfavorable to the healthy development of the fetus. Some obstetricians and gynecologists believe that women who are pregnant after marriage are more likely to get "pregnancy poisoning" than those who take a break after marriage and get pregnant again. Moreover, during the honeymoon, alcohol and tobacco are often excessive, and harmful components in tobacco can lead to fetal growth retardation, deformity, and even congenital heart disease. Therefore, it is best for newlyweds to avoid "sitting on the bed".