Can I go to a happy event after attending a white event? Marriage is a very happy and auspicious thing for everyone, so taboo is not allowed in the process of marriage, but a funeral of a white event is not unlucky. Let us know whether you can attend a happy activity after attending a white activity.
Can I go to the wedding after attending a white activity? 1 1. Can I attend the wedding after the funeral?
1. According to our traditional folk custom, no matter who celebrates the wedding, even beggars who are usually taboo will prepare meals for him, because after all, marriage is a good day and everything can be turned into luck.
Therefore, people who have just attended the funeral can attend the wedding. Of course, it can't be Dai Xiao. If Dai Xiao participates in it, it will conflict with the festive atmosphere.
3. Funeral is a ceremony for the dead, and wedding is a just ceremony in law, which has the meaning of congratulations, so there is no conflict between them.
4. If you just attended the funeral and then went to the wedding, you must be careful not to wear white or black, which is a taboo color, and don't dress too brightly. Because in ancient times, we all paid attention to funerals and thought the dead were the most important. If we dress too brightly, we just don't respect the dead, but wearing depressed colors contradicts the wedding. The above is an introduction about whether you can attend the wedding after attending the funeral. I hope it will help everyone.
Second, people who can't attend the wedding
1, pregnant woman. Generally speaking, if there is a pregnant woman at home, people won't allow her to attend, because a pregnant woman with a fetal god will collide with the new XiShen. If the fetus is weak, pregnant women may have a miscarriage, and if it is serious, they will not be pregnant. If she is weak, then if she is unhappy after marriage, the new couple may divorce.
2. Newly married people. Just after the wedding, there must be a sacrifice, so there will be a collision between the two XiShen, which is not suitable for other people's weddings.
3. People who have recovered from a long illness. We know that a person who has recovered from a long illness, his fortune begins to rise, so close to the new couple, he will certainly absorb the good fortune of the new couple to himself, which is unfavorable to the future marriage fortune of the new couple.
Can you still attend the happy event after attending the white event? 2 1. How long can I attend the happy event after the funeral?
Generally, after attending the funeral, you can attend the happy event, which has no influence on the participants. In ancient times, white events were also called white wedding events, so white events are as happy as wedding events, so you can attend wedding events immediately after attending white events. However, in some places, customs are different. You think you will have bad luck after seeing the white incident. You should communicate well with friends around you to avoid conflicts. But in most areas, the deceased is the most important. After attending the funeral, you can attend the happy event.
Others are people who abide by filial piety. Such people must be familiar with the local customs when attending other people's weddings, and don't rush to attend the wedding and have conflicts with others. This is also disrespectful to the deceased. In feng shui, people who abide by filial piety have a heavy yin. If they suddenly attend a wedding with many people and the sun is heavy, they will be happy easily and get sick because of the lack of yin and yang, thus affecting their fortune. During the mourning period, because the behavior is relatively low-key and it is not suitable for eating fish and drinking, try not to attend other people's weddings or go to other people's homes during the mourning period.
2. Can I go to the wedding after the funeral?
Can you attend the wedding at the same time as the funeral? Now most areas are allowed to participate in the happy events after the funeral. Because funerals are also called white weddings, funerals are the same as weddings, and attending them at the same time won't affect them. But the specific situation depends on local customs. Some local customs think that it is unlucky to attend funerals and are not allowed to attend happy events, so try not to attend other people's happy events after attending funerals. Some places think that attending the wedding after the funeral is a kind of respect for the deceased and will not affect the wedding, so you can attend the wedding after the funeral.
3, family funeral taboo within seven days.
There are also many funeral ceremonies in China. If a family member dies, keep quiet at home when the family member is dying, call the closest person of the deceased to his side, listen to the final instructions, and let them feel at ease and put it down. Don't cry loudly after the death of a loved one 16 hours, lest the deceased can't let go. During the wake, try not to take a bath or wear brightly colored clothes for seven days. During the wake, men and women can't share the same room. This is a respect for the dead relatives.
Can you still go to a happy event after attending a white event? 3 happy things meet white things, okay?
On the way to the wedding, we should not only avoid "merrily merrily" but also avoid "rushing and punching". In Taiwan Province Province, it is considered unlucky for a wedding procession to meet a funeral procession. Because it is the murder that destroys the happy event, it is called "fierce rush to happiness". Central Plains and other places also have taboos in this regard. However, some people say that funerals are not taboo, because funerals have coffins, and "coffins" are homophonic for "official wealth", so some people say that funerals are auspicious. However, after all, weddings are not harmonious. General funerals always remind people of "the dead" and hear "crying", which is always difficult to coordinate with the festive atmosphere of marriage. There is a folk saying: "Everything goes well when you go out for a funeral." In other words, if something bad is robbed by others, you will be safe.
Taboos to participate in white affairs
If the newlyweds go to the funeral, don't go straight home afterwards, which will bring bad luck to the family. It is also good to take the other half to a place to be alone for a while, or to burn incense in places like temples, clean up their bad luck and then go home, which is much better than going home directly.
If the newlyweds are going to attend the funeral, remember not to be late, because being late is a rude behavior and disrespectful to the deceased. So, if the newlyweds attend the funeral, don't be late and don't do anything at the funeral. Just send the deceased quietly, without affecting the fortune of yourself and the other half.