The night before the wedding, both men and women will prepare a banquet, and different regions have different names for this banquet. Generally, the banquet prepared by the man is called leisure banquet, pre-banquet or greenhouse wine; The banquet hosted by the woman's family is called wedding wine or divorce wine. The wedding customs in different regions are different, and the names of banquets on the night before marriage are also different. In some places, there are men and women. The man called the greenhouse wine, front seat or empty seat, mainly to invite friends who are going to get married to help and arrange the division of labor to get married. Before the woman gets married, relatives and friends, such as aunts, uncles and aunts, hold a banquet to invite her, which is called wedding wine or divorce wine.

What are the customs before marriage?

1, the day before the wedding, can't couples meet?

It is a custom that the couple can't meet the day before the wedding, which has been handed down from ancient times in Chinese weddings. The reason for this custom is that in ancient times, marriage was the fate of parents. According to the matchmaker, a couple got married before they met. If the newlyweds meet the day before the wedding, it will not only violate etiquette, but also be laughed at and rushed to get married. With the progress of modern socialization, this custom is becoming less and less, but it still exists in some areas. Regarding whether the couple can meet before the wedding, it is suggested to follow local customs.

2. Can the bride go to the wedding room the day before the wedding?

There is a folk custom that the bride had better not touch the wedding room before marriage. But this is a folk saying after all, and newcomers can refer to it appropriately. You can decorate and tidy up the wedding room together, but don't go to the wedding room the day before and you can't sleep in the wedding bed.

3. Where did the bride and groom sleep the day before the wedding?

Usually on the day before the wedding, the bride and groom live in their own homes. After all, it is the last night before marriage, especially the parents of the woman, and there should be a lot of disappointment. It's better to talk to them more and spend more time with them. If the bride and groom are in different places, then before the wedding, the groom sleeps in his own home, and the bride may need to stay in a hotel. In a word, the couple had better not live together.

If the groom's parents' home is a wedding room, then the groom should try not to sleep in the wedding bed. He can sleep in the second bedroom, at least not alone. Unfortunately, he can sleep in the bed.