Take care of the overall situation in everything
In any case, marriage is indeed a very important choice in life. Once two people enter the marriage hall, it means that they must work together for trivial matters of life, and we must discuss big and small things together. Only in this way can we have a harmonious family. Everything should take care of the overall situation, so getting married is the most important thing, but holding hands at the wedding scene, since it depends on the girl's face, can such a man even lose face? And women don't think about this level for men. At least the performance on such an important day is ok, but I don't want to cooperate with such an important scene. This is a kind of disregard for the overall situation, which will make many people watch them start their marriage with an unpleasant starting point.
Humble is doomed to pain.
I think people can only get married with the people they like, otherwise marriage is the grave of love and the shackles that bind personal freedom. If we are not with the people we love, we will feel bored when we meet, and we don't want to solve what happened together. Then, after we got married, our lives didn't change much, just sleeping in the same bed and having different dreams! Such a marriage choice may take a boy ten minutes, because a woman who doesn't even give face can't understand an animal that a boy has been out in the wind and rain all his life. But life is like this, the gap between men and women is too big, and if you want to marry a good wife, you basically have to endure a lot of small temper. And many times, there may be many grievances in the south, but people at the bedside can't understand them.
I hope we can all see ourselves in our marriage life, instead of being bound by life and lost in the so-called marriage.