1 Generally speaking, the four major items of marriage proposal are whether there are four kinds of cigarettes, two bottles of wine and some sugar. You can eat any other fruits and cakes you like. There must be two bottles of alcohol and tobacco in front of Sanyo. Don't pay too much, because there is no single proposal, because marriage is two people in pairs. The place to go to the woman's house has generally not changed. Proposing marriage refers to proposing marriage at home. Your parents didn't know that all three parents were going because they were going to discuss the engagement or the wedding bride price. It depends on the preference of the bride's parents, but you don't like it. If the bride price is different then, we can discuss it slowly when we get home. After that day, there is no need for your parents to come forward for further discussion. It's just that you and your daughter-in-law convey each other's parents' opinions and discuss them. I am very careful. I wish you success!