After graduation, they plan to go to Australia for further study together. However, Hongyu's English is not good, and he failed IELTS. Zhang Yu got the ticket to go abroad before him. The two discussed that Zhang Yuxian went abroad and Hongyu continued to prepare for the IELTS test.
In the days when Zhang Yu went abroad, Hongyu could only contact her by phone and internet every day. Gradually, Hongyu began to feel that in addition to recalling the past, there were fewer and fewer topics on the phone. In the past, Miss Zhang Yu always stepped on Hongyu's Renren.com homepage and sent messages to pay close attention to his latest developments. But now, I can't find Zhang Yu's familiar avatar in the friend list of browsing the log.
"I am not brushing the screen, I am lonely." Facing his own pain, Hongyu can't speak to his buddies and parents around him. At this moment, he thought of telling Sharla Cheung, a female classmate in high school.
As long as Hongyu asks, Sharla Cheung will come out to chat with him and listen to his catharsis no matter how busy he is. Hongyu's concern for Sharla Cheung gradually transcends the boundaries of friends. He bought Sharla Cheung expensive jewelry and electronic products, and took Sharla Cheung to play in the wild alone. When Sharla Cheung is not feeling well, he will be caring and attentive and send water to buy medicine.
In the face of good friends taking care of themselves as girlfriends, Sharla Cheung began to be unable to accept Hongyu's excessive concern. One day, Sharla Cheung's MP4 broke down. Redjade saw it and bought her a new one the next day. Sharla Cheung didn't want it, but Redjade gave it to her assiduously. Sharla Cheung finally couldn't stand it: "We are not boyfriend and girlfriend, but what are you doing to me now?" I don't want to be your spare tire. "
When he heard the word "spare tire", Hongyu was surprised at first, but when he calmed down, he remembered that this was not the first time he had contacted the word. In the past, he often saw many "spare tire" discussions or stories on the emotional forum of the campus network, many of which happened in long-distance love like him.
Hu Zhongming of Kunming University of Science and Technology and his girlfriend, who are thousands of miles away, have also encountered the same problem.
Hu Zhongming's girlfriend went to school in Nanjing, and their long-distance love was once told as a much-told story. Every night in the dormitory, there are two people making long-distance phone calls. Zhong Ming also specially organized a campus long-distance love family package and a campus couple number to stay with his girlfriend. But recently, Hu Zhongming felt something was wrong with his girlfriend. He is always absent-minded on the phone and comes back to the dormitory very late at night. He went to test her roommate, only to know that his girlfriend had been hiding it from him and another boy at school.
Hu Zhongming asked his girlfriend in despair. His girlfriend complained that she felt insecure living here alone and her boyfriend was not around, so no one wanted to ask her for help when she was in a lot of trouble. At this time, another boy around me appeared and was considerate of her. In her mind, the loyalty and honesty that took care of her was gradually replaced. She also wanted to tell Zhong Ming, but she couldn't bear to hurt him. She wrote in her blog: "Long-distance love is really difficult. When I was lonely and sad, a man appeared in front of me, gave him everything that he couldn't give in the distance, and turned all his fantasies into reality. At this time, I just made the best choice for me. Is there anything wrong? "
Some people may think that long-distance love is the breeding ground of spare tire phenomenon, but the author found in the interview that even in the same place, some couples living on the same campus will find "spare tires" behind their backs.
Fang Wei, a student in Taizhou, Zhejiang, is a cheerful and lively girl. A while ago, my roommate found that she often went back to the dormitory to giggle sweetly or disappeared mysteriously, and didn't come back until very late. Everyone speculated that she was in love. She just laughed without a word, shouting secrecy. But these days, Fang Wei suddenly got tired of surfing the Internet in her dormitory every day. The MSN status always says "I want to be happy", which makes people very worried.
It turns out that recently, Fang Wei has been dating Xiao Yong from the same school. They walk together on campus in the evening and go to the stall at the school gate to eat together. Fang Wei likes this feeling of love. Xiao Yong is the man of the hour in the school. He told Fang Wei to let everyone know that they were bad. He also said that his ex-girlfriend who just broke up was also in the same school. If she knew, it would be embarrassing, so Fang Weishun started their so-called "secret love affair" from scratch.
Happiness is always short-lived One day, Fang Wei was studying at night when she suddenly received a short message from Xiao Yong, saying that she would never contact again. At first, Fang Wei thought it was a prank, but when she ran downstairs to ask him if he was in Xiao Yong, Cai Yong Jr. said awkwardly that he and his ex-girlfriend got back together long before they were with Fang Wei. Because Xiao Yong was deeply hurt by the last breakup, Xiao Yong always felt a little insecure after this reunion. Under the psychological effect of being afraid of being abandoned and finding a good way out in advance, Xiao Yong chose Fang Wei, who has been very kind to him, as his "spare tire" girlfriend, giving himself emotional double insurance.
Later, Xiao Yong's real girlfriend discovered the existence of "spare tire" and immediately asked Xiao Yong to sever contact with Fang Wei or leave him. Xiao Yong hesitated for a long time. After weighing, she finally chose a real girlfriend, hacked Fang Wei's QQ and deleted her mobile phone number. Fang Wei suddenly fell to the ground from a girl's happiness and never returned Xiao Yong's phone calls or online messages. "When his car was confused, he put on a spare tire for me, and he exchanged my bruises for his psychological comfort." Fang Wei described the understanding that this relationship brought to her.