I am a girl from Wuhan. I want to say that the bride price is not a regional issue, but mainly depends on the feelings of both families and two people. In fact, many of our betrothal gifts and dowries are given to the young couple after marriage, and even the elderly on both sides will give the young couple all the help and support they can after marriage. Some women's parents think that their relatives' children are not as good as their own, and my daughter must not be less than them or she will be laughed at. There are many men's families who bargain blindly, but forget that what the other party wants is respect, not money. So it's really important to be suitable.
I have a son and a daughter and have prepared two suites. I can only guarantee that I don't want a bride price when I get married, but I can't decide whether I want a bride price or not. [Yi tooth] [Yi tooth] [Yi tooth] See in-laws say so! Suiyuan!
I come from Wuhan. Wuhan is mostly an only child. Therefore, bride price and dowry are more Buddhist. Basically, just follow the crowd and don't have too many relatives and friends around you. Moreover, bride price and dowry are basically gifts for young couples, and parents will not want them. Besides, they are all only children. In the future, both parents will belong to this child. What about bride price and dowry? If local men and women in Wuhan talk about marriage together, there should be few disputes about bride price and dowry. I'm afraid different regions have different customs.
It's popular to combine the powerful and powerful now. The man buys a suite and the woman buys a suite. Cousin, cousin is basically like this. Have the money to buy a big house with a good location, but have no money to buy a small house with a poor location. In order to avoid quarreling. In fact, it is also a disguised investment in parents' pension. Their parents are ordinary families, neither poor nor rich.
65438+went to Wuhan to attend my cousin's wedding in February. Let me talk about them.
My aunt told me that both sides are only children, the man is from Huang Bei and my cousin is from Qiaokou District. The house bought by the man is between his parents, each 30 minutes' drive away. Decoration is also the man, aunt bought bedding, kitchen supplies and some household appliances, which cost about 50 thousand. The man asked about my aunt's bride price, and my aunt casually said that the man gave a bride price of 66 thousand. On the wedding day, my aunt added 65438+100000 to my cousin. The change fee was paid to the son-in-law, 1 ten thousand yuan. My cousin has a car of her own,100000 or so. The day before, the woman held a wedding banquet, and the man held it the next day. Invite your own guests and spend your own money. My cousin hosted a banquet in the hotel here, and that man hosted a banquet in his hometown.
Nowadays people always talk about bride price, but all I see is dowry, not bride price. Finally, it went to the young couple as the start-up capital of the small family. There are bride price and dowry, which I think is quite good.
I come from Wuhan. 20 12, the son asks for a wife. They can fall in love freely. We paid off the house in full, and the daughter-in-law asked for 50 thousand bride price, and we gave 50 thousand to buy clothes and jewelry. We have a wedding reception, and the woman's relatives and friends dine with us (the money is paid by the man). Live alone after marriage. Come back for dinner on Saturday and Sunday.
Yeah, look at yourself.
It depends on the feelings of two children and two in-laws. Whether it is reasonable or not depends on strength. When the son got married, his in-laws bought a house, bought a car and took the girl to get married. Spent nearly1200,000, and spent more than1700,000 at home, including 700,000 for buying a house. I feel that my in-laws are polite enough. As long as I have two children, I will live well in the future without pressure.
I don't know. Look at yourself.