This is a feudal superstition. This is just a custom handed down from the older generation. There are also these taboos about marriage: when a woman gets married, her eldest brother carries a sedan chair and goes out by himself, which is regarded as no attachment to her family. The bride's family can't get married until she cries aloud, and the more she cries, the man can't get married that year if he is sick, but he can get married ahead of time. This is called rushing to celebrate and avoiding mourning. If there is a funeral at home, you can't get married within one year, but you can hurry to celebrate during the funeral, and unmarried women can't spend the night at your husband's house.

When a woman marries, don't touch the ground and look back, for fear of taking away her family's blessings, and for fear that the man will marry into the woman's house. This is called drilling a pot hole and putting a sticker on the door to escape happiness. Two brothers or sisters can't get married in the same year. It is the most typical incest that the younger can't marry the older. The most taboo of marriage with the same surname is the common taboo for aunt's family and uncle's family.

On the contrary, premarital sex is taboo, emphasizing "virginity", especially for women who are physically sound and disabled, and it is forbidden to love and get married. Opposing the free love between young men and women generally prohibits women from being older than men, especially women who are one year older than men and born in the same month, which affects the reproduction and marriage discussion of the next generation.

When both men and women get married, they should avoid the woman being a tiger. When they are born in the middle of the night, they should avoid the woman being a sheep. "The woman makes the house empty for the sheep" should avoid meeting trees, big stones, well platforms and so on. On the way to the wedding, and it is inevitable to cover the wedding day with red cloth to avoid no one listening in the room at night.