Don't listen to other people's nonsense Xunwu is a Hakka, similar to the Hakka custom in Guangdong. Please refer to the customs of Meizhou. Most Wu Qiu's parents are still very open-minded, and there is only one meaning when they say how much money to give. Just like when you go to other people's homes to pay New Year's greetings, you always give red envelopes to your children. The bride price received by your parents is basically to buy something to accompany you. If the woman's family conditions are good, it may be the other way around. Of course, it is also in the form of having something to accompany you (if you are frustrated and have no talent, the woman's parents may ask you to leave directly, and it is useless to spend money). In short, generally you don't feel like buying a wife when you are looking for a wife. How much money you give, you will basically be paid back.

Supplement: Most girls who seek martial arts have Hakka fine traditions: simple and kind, hard-working, but the disadvantage is that there are not many particularly beautiful girls (boys who seek martial arts are more handsome) and they are not so smart and snobbish (I think it is an advantage).