1, a regular red envelope, is the kind that everyone says to be human and start hundreds of times. People who give out red envelopes or collect them specially at the door can also congratulate their parents in advance. Newcomers usually receive a dozen or twenty dollars, or touch and tear a red envelope corner and give it back to you, giving you a small gift such as a pack of fruit.
2, toast red envelopes, married people also need to prepare two toast red envelopes, usually one or two to ten, anyway, casually, when the couple toasts at dinner, they will give them to the couple, one to the bride and groom, and this red envelope will not be returned to the couple.
Therefore, Foshan people generally don't worry about red envelopes when they go to wedding banquets. Our idea is that relatives and friends will come to the wedding banquet to give you face. Who will miss this meal now? So of course you can't ask people to come and go happily.
However, I have heard of several cases, and I really can't get them back. This can only be said to be a rare case. I still need to know more about them. After all, Foshan is quite big. Anyway, I have never participated in the whole collection myself.
Nanhai, Shunde, Chancheng city or near city (no geographical discrimination, because it is not clear about Gaoming, Sanshui District and some rural areas) basically do not accept red envelopes. Usually, the guest seals the red envelope without specifying the amount. The host touches the red envelope or tears off a small corner of the red envelope and returns it to the guest as a sign. When the host family invites relatives and friends to dinner at the wedding, they usually choose hotels or dishes according to their own ability. This is called big head and big hat. Relatives, friends and colleagues all came to the banquet as a contrast. If it is a wedding banquet, the bride will give a small red envelope when offering tea at the banquet. The quantity is arbitrary, so I think these customs are very good and there is no pressure on the host and guests.
Brilliant wedding red envelope 100, friends with close relatives and friends give red envelopes 100, 200, 300, 500 ... reward: the host family receives less than half, and some people tear a little from the corner of the red envelope out of human feelings. What's more, some towns and villages do not accept gifts at all, and some brothers and sisters in towns and villages do not return gifts when they get married.
That's easy. The normal price is100,200, 300 yuan, 500,800 at home, 1000 yuan or more, depending on income and feelings. Some host families only receive part of the gift money, and the rest are returned to the guests. There are also some main families, the more the better, and they are all collected in order. Anyway, this gift amount feels appropriate!