When the following three signs appear in your life, you are refusing to mature.
The year before last, zhuyuchen's mother became famous overnight after participating in the variety show My Boy.
Zhuyuchen also revealed in a talk show that her mother basically walked around him all day, carefully preparing three meals for him.
Mother gets up early every day to make pear juice and juice for him. This is ten years.
He admits that he can't drink two mouthfuls of pure water a day.
Once, he had to go out to work. Mother insisted that he bring boiled pear juice and juice.
"Can't I drink?" Looking at those bottles and cans, he couldn't shake them off, so he muttered and drank.
No matter where he goes to film, his mother always takes care of her son.
Even her son knows every relationship, because mother Zhu will intervene.
No wonder zhuyuchen, who is almost 40, doesn't even have a girlfriend. No one can stand having such a good mother-in-law.
In this way, mother Zhu lost her life for her son, which also seriously affected her daughter and dared not marry.
Zhuyuchen's mother seems to be great to her son, but in fact, she has no boundaries, which is an immature performance.
"Do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is the best way to describe her.
I don't know if she will feel remorse and wake up when she sees zhuyuchen in pain in the middle of the night.
Doing things with boundaries is a kind of respect for others and a kind of responsibility for yourself.
I saw such a speechless news on the internet the other day.
A woman in Thailand met a man in a restaurant. The next day, the man proposed to her.
The man claimed to be a wealthy financial businessman with a net worth of tens of billions. He fell in love with Linda at first sight and wanted to enter the marriage hall with her.
Then they got the certificate and were ready to get married.
The wedding was arranged by the woman alone and a sum of money was paid in advance.
After the wedding, when the wedding company asked to settle the remaining accounts, the man refused to pay.
At this point, the woman found that the engagement slip opened by the rich businessman's boyfriend was gone.
Ms. da remembered the police and asked for a divorce.
Coincidentally, I just saw a similar news.
Mr. Luo met a girlfriend who studied in Europe, had a rich family and had several properties on the dating website.
Such a good condition makes people see it, and their eyes can't help but shine.
So Teacher Luo liked her very much and fell in love with her for nine months. That's responsive. There are more than 70,000 red envelopes.
Recently, he quarreled with his girlfriend, who made up with her. The next sentence of my girlfriend was shocked. Mr. Luo: Her photo is fake. Don't be fooled.
Finally, the police found out that the so-called white girlfriend is actually a greasy middle-aged aunt who gave birth to a child before marriage.
Life is like this, but what you think is a good thing from heaven may be something else.
Mr. Luo is lucky. Compared with the big lady, he was awakened by a kind person halfway. But the essence is the same: vanity is too strong.
See only the surface of perfect things, but don't think about the essence behind them.
People with too much vanity only pay attention to the inner desire and satisfaction brought by the so-called beauty, but there seems to be no clear standard for judging morality and right and wrong.
It can be said that they just follow their feelings without considering the consequences of vanity.
It is immature to enjoy the process without considering the result.
There will be no pie in the sky, even if there is, consider whether you are qualified to be hit by it first. If you don't bite off more than you can chew, you must be greedy for vanity, and the result is estimated to be light.
Too much vanity, sometimes self-harm.
In recent days, I have caught a cold and coughed, and I feel sore all over, especially sleepy.
Breastfeeding every night, plus constant rotation during the day, dragging my tired body, I feel helpless and want to cry in the middle of the night.
In this way, Bao Xiao, who was only a few months old, was naturally infected by my illness, and the little guy coughed the next day.
Dabao also caught a cold. As soon as I heard their movement at night, I just closed my eyes to see which one was kicking the quilt, so I sat up from the bed and quickly covered it.
Autumn is dry, and it is really hard for children to take care of them. Besides, they are ill and have no time to take care of others. It's just that the mind wants to but can't do it. The grievances in my heart will naturally come.
I chatted with my sister the night before yesterday and accidentally told her that I was ill.
I can clearly feel the anxiety over there through the receiver. I quickly adjusted my mood and comforted her: nothing, it will be fine in a few days, don't worry!
In fact, if you think about it, you can't bear big things, because you feel wronged and say it, but let the people you love care.
Yes, the older you get, the more you have to learn to accept and hide something. This is a sign of maturity.
Mature people have the ability to digest and solve. On the contrary, people who refuse to be mature will only be entangled in confusion and cannot leave.
The writer talked about such a thing in the evening. Once she hosted a banquet for her family, and a relative asked her if her newly bought house was decorated.
She said, not yet.
Who knows, her mother answered at once, almost ready. There are many rooms. It's over. Take the children to play and stay for one night.
At that time, her husband looked at her in horror, and she immediately said firmly, our family has never had the habit of staying overnight, and we usually stay in the hotel next door when guests come.
Her mother's face was pulled down, but she didn't care.
Late love point of view: in our family, my husband and I must be masters, and no one can surpass us.
I will never allow others to disturb my life.
If you are not a mature person, how can you handle small troubles so neatly?
Hofmannsthal: Maturity means more independence.
In life, we may be more inclined to deal with mature people, because no matter what we say or do, mature people can always read other people's minds and make you unconsciously impressed by them.
Mature people are better at thinking and solving problems in mature ways. Then slowly develop independent good habits, which is conducive to the formation of personality.
To refuse to mature is to close a door to growth. If you stop growing, how can you develop independently?
In life, we should learn to have a sense of boundary, be a down-to-earth person, manage our emotions well, and don't add chaos to others.
Being a mature person, being with others and being with yourself is a wonderful thing.