Wedding and funeral at the same time? Father unfortunately died before marriage.
1989, 18-year-old He Kaihong followed the villagers to work in the Chener Gold Mine in Luonan, becoming the first group of people in the village to "get rich" outside. Who knows that in a few years, several "old employees" in the village in the gold mine all got pneumoconiosis, and even the crops were hard to grow. The money earned by working in a gold mine was spent on medical expenses. In 2009, He Kaihong completely lost his labor force and almost became a "waste person", and two dolls also dropped out of school. The picture shows165438+1On October 20th, several pneumoconiosis experts from the village clinic visited Hongjia, Kai He.
Wedding and funeral at the same time. He Bo, a 20-year-old from Shifosi Town, Shanyang County, Shangluo City, Shaanxi Province, has experienced the biggest twists and turns in his life. My father died the day before, and my new wife came in the door the next day. The wedding and funeral are held at home at the same time. He Bo's father Kai He Hong got pneumoconiosis. Knowing that he was dying, he was engaged to his 20-year-old son, hoping to see his son married before he closed his eyes. But he closed his eyes the day before the wedding.
In order to wait until this day, He Kaihong, who was in the late stage of pneumoconiosis, moved his son's wedding forward by more than one month and set it at165438+1October 23, but he still died before165438+1October 22!
According to local customs, the son holds a wedding in tears first, and then holds a funeral for his father. He Kaihong is dead. If he supports one more day, he will see his son coming home with his new wife, but the day is so far away.
More than 20 hours later, my father died and the bride came in. He Bo, the son of He Kaihong, held a wedding in grief.
Before He Kaihong died, his family was not allowed to prepare funerary objects, including coffins and portraits. On the day of his father's death, his son He Bo went to town to wash a portrait of his father and put it in front of the coffin.
He Kaihong, 44, knew he was dying.
Since June 65438+ 10 this year, he can hardly get out of bed. He knows in his heart that he won't last for a few days. Like him, many people in the village who got pneumoconiosis while working in gold mines have passed away. Everyone feels the same way: I can't get out of bed, and then I just can't sleep on my back; Then, you can only lean against the wall for a while; Later, I couldn't even sit still because I couldn't breathe, so I had to lie down. And then, and then he died.
After working in the gold mine for more than ten years, he finally became a "waste man"
He Kaihong is from Nianziping Village, Shifosi Town, Shanyang County, Shaanxi Province. He Kaihong is the youngest of the seven brothers in the family. The day after his mother gave birth, she gave him to a barren couple in the mountains. 1989, 18-year-old He Kaihong followed the villagers to work in the Chener Gold Mine in Luonan, becoming the first group of people in the village to "get rich" outside.
Four years later, He Kaihong had some savings and married a worker's sister, Zhang Hong. The couple are kind and loving, and have a pair of children after marriage. He Kaihong has been working outside except for the Chinese New Year, and has been working in gold mines such as Shaanxi and Henan for more than ten years.
He said that mountain people have been doing three things all their lives: giving birth to a baby boy, building a quadrangle and marrying a daughter-in-law, so that the family incense can continue. Make sure your baby has a good life while you are still young.
Who knows that in a few years, several "old employees" in the village in the gold mine were unwell, often had difficulty breathing, and even had blood clots when they coughed badly. The villagers panicked and thought they had "tuberculosis". At that time, they did not know the new word "pneumoconiosis" at all. Not long after, He Kaihong's great uncle, Zhang Daoyin, a worker who worked with him in Chen Erjin Mine, died first, and then his second uncle Zhang Daofu also died.
As soon as the examination was pneumoconiosis, He Kaihong began to get nervous. Watching the villagers who worked together fall down one by one, he felt that his body was OK, and he was wondering if his life was "hard" and he escaped this fatal pneumoconiosis. But he never dared to go to the gold mine again, only doing odd jobs in the local area. After several years of mixing, pneumoconiosis finally came. At first, I was coughing and panting, and I was weak all over. Before long, He Kaihong's symptoms were the same as those of his two wives and two brothers. Not to mention going out to work, even it is difficult to grow crops. All the money earned by working in a gold mine is spent on medical expenses.
In 2009, He Kaihong completely lost his labor force and almost became a "waste person", and two dolls also dropped out of school. At this time, He Kaihong was only 38 years old. He feels that he is still young and still holds the hope of getting rid of his illness and going out to work. "Even picking up garbage, we must find a way to build a new house and marry a wife. This is the responsibility of a father! " So he decided to get engaged to his 20-year-old son. It is said that his son is still young to get married at this age, but He Kaihong doesn't think so. "I have few days to live. I must see my son marry with my own eyes, otherwise I can't close my eyes. "
As the wedding day approaches, He Kaihong knows that he can't hold on any longer. He suddenly decided to advance his son's wedding date to165438+1October 23rd. That night, the family in this mountain never turned off the lights, and He Kaihong's desire to survive was particularly strong. His wife, Zhang Hong, was worried that he wouldn't come up with such a tone. He suffered for so long, and after another night, the baby got married. At 5 o'clock in the morning, the blisters in the ventilator next to He Kaihong were tumbling violently. At the last moment of life, the couple hugged each other tightly and cried. Zhang Hong hopes He Kaihong will hold on, he can't leave the whole family behind. He can see his son marry his wife in one day ... He Kaihong shook his head feebly and said he couldn't hold on. After being in a coma for a while, He Kaihong slowly opened his eyes. He looked at his wife and children with big eyes for survival, held his son's hand tightly, and said with his last breath, "I'm sorry, son, dad really can't hold on …"1At 8: 30 on October 22nd, 44-year-old He Kaihong died in his wife's arms with endless regrets.