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After attending the wedding banquet, dad urged his daughter to get married. Will you be happy when you get married?
Chengdu, Sichuan, February 7, a father? Accounting? The video of urging marriage with my daughter attracted attention. Father attended a relative's wedding, just sitting on the table, suddenly angry with his daughter. The house you live in is 3,000 yuan a month, 36,000 yuan a year, and five years is 65,438+10,000 yuan! ? Dad also calculated a happy account, assuming that life is 100 years old, if you find someone at the age of 20, you can be happy for 75 years, if you find someone at the age of 30, you can be happy for 70 years, and you will be less happy for 5 years at once!

In the eyes of parents, children naturally get married early, not to save money at home, but to make their children happy as soon as possible. Parents' urging marriage blindly will only increase the pressure on their children, but can't really solve their children's marriage problems. Moreover, it doesn't mean that you will be happy if you get married. Many marriages are urged by parents without mutual understanding, and various contradictions occur frequently after marriage, which is far from happiness.

Young people who are urged to get married are often not ready to get married and have children, which leads to many contradictions and has a serious negative impact on the happiness of husband and wife's life. Many young people get married in a hurry to cope with their parents, but they don't make a good plan for their married life. They just want to get a marriage certificate and have a wedding. However, after I really got married, I suddenly found that it was completely different from what I thought. I not only have to work hard for my family every day, but also take care of the elderly. Originally a free life, it was like being shackled in an instant. It will be even more sad when the baby is born. Although the family has ushered in a new life, it shows that family expenses should be greatly increased and need their own energy to take care of them. Many young couples began to have conflicts, and the originally happy life was spent in quarrels every day.

In addition, before marriage, everyone is free to do what they want, but after marriage, they have to take care of their families. It really takes too much energy to maintain a family. In addition to time, there is money, especially after having children, the expenses are really small and they will lose their freedom, so many people are reluctant to get married all their lives.

In any case, as long as you get married, you should try to create a happy atmosphere and don't let your parents down. In fact, happiness is very simple, knowing each other's efforts, because in this world, if it is not because we love a very substantial person and care about your affairs, not because we love a very substantial person and care about you every day, happiness actually makes us know how to be grateful, know how to pay, and understand each other's unreasonable troubles.