Why do I say it's better to have a wedding? Because my own marriage has a wedding, and my sister's marriage has no wedding. They fall in love freely and then go straight to get a marriage certificate. They didn't go through any formalities, not even for the two families to eat together. Although her marriage is very good now, and her husband and in-laws are also very kind to her, she always feels a little sorry. For example, if she goes to visit relatives at her in-laws' house, people will say what your son is like.
Anyway, their relatives over there don't know that my brother-in-law is married and has children. People always think that he is not married.
I got married in a wedding ceremony, and we got married through the process of three matchmakers and six betrothals. I feel that the whole family is very happy about this, probably because it's called marriage. It's called marriage. Moreover, my husband asked for marriage because we got married, and he was also very dedicated to getting married when he went home.
Although our wedding is not very grand, I always feel that my marriage is still very happy because of my heart. After marriage, my husband's relatives are very kind to me, and my in-laws are also very kind to me. Personally, I think there is still a sense of ceremony sometimes.