definition
Some people may misunderstand the meaning of "naked marriage"
The "unique" here is not to say that you don't spend 9 yuan to get a certificate casually, but to determine the wedding and the lifestyle after marriage according to the actual situation.
Otherwise, one possibility is to be heavily in debt, enjoy the wedding for a few days, bear debts for decades after marriage, or let the elderly bear these debts.
The second possibility is that the savings of two families have been spent for decades. Although there is no debt in the future, the days without savings are still relatively poor.
The third possibility is more common, that is, both debt and savings are borne only by the "rich" (both true and false) party. Usually, the man's "physical strength" is surplus (of course, the woman's wealth is everywhere), and then the two sides and families with huge differences in "physical strength" will have many differences and even contradictions in their lives, unless the two families are not in contact, but how is this possible?
To sum up, "naked marriage" means getting married without debt or luxury. There are not as many complicated things to think about and bear as before.
Add a point: Naked marriage is also the sublimation of love, putting aside the burden of material and secular, returning to love itself, reflecting the essence of happiness.
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Create background
In 2008, "Naked" culture became popular in China. Two fresh graduates from Tsinghua University streaked to the "naked bath place" in Dadonghai, Sanya City, and then associated with the nude push-ups of a host a few days ago, nude photos such as "naked body", "naked official" and "naked donation" appeared on the Internet. In the context of the global financial crisis in 2008, netizens created a new word-"naked marriage", which refers to people who get married directly without buying a house, a car, a wedding or even a wedding ring.
Different from the traditional family concept in China in the past, modern people emphasize the freedom and independence of marriage more and more, and the importance of "wedding" in the marriage of the younger generation is weakening. At the same time, "marital status" is also regarded as one of "privacy" among young white-collar workers, and the so-called "hidden marriage" phenomenon also appears from time to time. In this context, "naked marriage" is becoming more and more obvious. On the one hand, it reflects the change of modern society's understanding of marriage. Marriage is not only a family choice, but also an individual's choice of love and lifestyle. On the other hand, it also reflects the change of material concept in modern society. In the 1980s, there was a saying of "three things to get married", and "having a house and a car" became the standard for young people to choose a spouse in the early 20th century. In this context, the appearance of "naked marriage" has its practical and social significance.
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cause
social pressure
The post-80s generation is at the peak of marriage and love, but now the high pressure of society makes the modern version of the post-80s generation have too many "three noes" without houses, cars and deposits. They have no choice but to get married naked. The rapidly rising housing prices have made more young people look forward to the house. According to the latest survey, nearly 50% of people who are about to turn 30 have no house or car, while the proportion of people born in 198 1- 1984 has reached 70%.
Pursue pure love
The post-80s pursue the love of returning to nature, thinking that this frugal way of marriage can prove the purity of their love. Whether a marriage is happy or not has nothing to do with the solemnity of the ceremony or the date of the wedding. The key is to look at people. If the right person, no banquet, no honeymoon, no wedding photos can be done. The most important thing is that two people are together and two people are happy.
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evaluation criterion
No house, no car, no wedding, no wedding ring, no honeymoon, just meet both parents.
Naked marriage is the latest way to get married after 80s. They use "no house, no car, no diamond ring, no wedding dress, no savings, no wedding and no honeymoon" to explain the frugal way of getting married. In short, nothing is needed except going to the registration office to get a marriage certificate from Zhang Huali.
X day, x month, 2009. Jinan. Warm spring is like summer.
The sun gradually moved to the northern hemisphere, and the days became significantly longer. Even if the hour hand points to 6: 15, there is still no night outside the window. In a western restaurant in Lixia District, the capital of Hunan Province, Duan Yang, 25, and Wang, 27, sat face to face in a window seat and celebrated their wedding with wine and food.
There is no picturesque house, no motorcade running half a road, no banquets from relatives and friends, no special clothes, only two people each holding a red notebook to witness, which is all about their wedding.
"Although we didn't have a house or a car, we got the consent of both parents, picked a memorable day, registered with the Civil Affairs Bureau, and then we didn't plan to have a wedding. Naked marriage is not popular now. " Duan said that she and her husband are also very fashionable.
Careful you will find that there are many people like Duan Yang around you, and "naked marriage" has become the most popular word this year. What is "naked marriage"? Of course, this does not mean going to the wedding naked. In the eyes of followers, there is no room, no car, no diamond ring, no wedding, no honeymoon, no banquet, and those who should marry are generous. This is "naked marriage".
It is understood that the "naked marriage family" is mostly between the ages of 20 and 35, and most of them are post-80 s. Most of them are very avant-garde, and there are also many urban white-collar workers with high education and high income. In the view of "naked marriage family", it is their advocacy that makes "naked marriage" blow up like a hurricane in this city.
Many post-80s people reach marriageable age, but they don't get married, not because they don't want to get married, but because they have too much helplessness. But now some people prefer the concept of "naked marriage". Young people should abandon the secularity of money, and true love is the eternal way. If two people can truly love each other, no matter how poor the boy is, as long as the man is persistent and self-motivated, then with these men, I will definitely not let my beloved woman suffer, just like my humble classmate Beckham, who refuses to eat delicious food every time he goes out to eat, and gives all the delicious food to seaweed. What about such a man? Not worthy of your love?
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social influence
"Naked marriage" and "semi-naked marriage" are just a form, which may lead the marriage revolution and enter the "new marriage era". Sociologists say that "naked marriage" and "semi-naked marriage" are a kind of helplessness in more cases, but compared with the controversial "neet family" at the forefront of public opinion, the "naked marriage" family bravely took the first step. The concept of "naked marriage" is worth promoting, which reflects the psychological characteristics of a new generation of young people-they dare to break through traditional concepts, have the spirit of independence and dare to pursue their dreams. In their eyes, marriage is not material, but the spirit of mutual support and joint efforts and the warmth of interdependence. They will look at the problem from many aspects, and at the same time, they will tolerate the voices of opposition.
The concept of "naked marriage" has also sent a positive signal to the society, and "semi-naked marriage" will be popular. It is better to "spend money on the cutting edge", face life with an optimistic attitude and meet challenges with a positive spirit. However, the abnormally high housing prices and the widening socio-economic gap behind "naked marriage" should also cause thinking and require the government to mobilize all social forces to change.
The choice of "naked marriage" by "post-80s" has also been respected and understood by others, which shows that social concepts are becoming more and more open and people's choices are more free and diverse, which is social progress. At the same time, "naked marriage" has also become a slogan on the Internet, which reflects the resistance to traditional customs, because the luxury atmosphere of marriage is very serious now, and the slogan of "naked marriage" leads the society to develop in a simple direction, which is also worthy of recognition. However, Xu Xiang also believes that the "post-80s" are mostly the only children in their families, and the material requirements are not excessive when they get married. After all, the future life needs a material foundation to support, but no matter what kind of requirements, we must meet our own income.
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Opinions of all parties
Expert opinion:
It is retrogression, but it is also progress.
Speaking of "naked marriage", experts said: In the 1980s, there were three things in marriage, and "having a house and a car" became the standard for young people to choose a spouse in the early 20th century. In this context, the appearance of "naked marriage" has its practical and social significance, which is a return and a progress.
Sina. Com survey results user view:
1 agrees that love is paramount, and the house and car can be bought together after marriage, accounting for 57.7%.
No, material is the foundation, accounting for 35.7%.
No problem.
(According to the naked marriage survey on Sina. Com, as of 20 10 10 1)
Views of netizens on "naked marriage";
1, love ambest: Naked marriage should be a normal life state for young people. As soon as you get married, you will have a wedding dress, a ceremony, a house and a car, which is the morbid understanding of a happy life by the whole society. "
2, Anjuke: Naked marriage is a kind of self-deception! How can we talk about love without a certain material foundation? A marriage with only one marriage certificate is as thin as a piece of paper and can't stand any wind and rain. "
3. Jiangsu and Zhejiang: Maybe nine dollars can prove love, but who can guarantee that the love of nine dollars is indestructible?
4.ldsytyy: The key to happiness is not whether you get married naked, but whether you can help each other, struggle and persist after marriage.
5. Sincere hero: If a girl doesn't ask for an RV and is really willing to accompany her, then the stretched youth will live a relatively calm and happy life.
6, holding the moon: naked marriage is good, but with the consent of the mother-in-law.
7. Being alone: I can accept being half naked, but I may not be naked. Houses are like our clothes and pants, cars are like shoes, and weddings and diamond rings are hats and scarves. You can do without the last three, but not without clothes, right?
8. Xiaoyan 679: weren't both parents naked at that time? They also started from scratch.
9. Cheng: The so-called naked marriage is nothing more than putting what you do unconditionally in your life when you get married into your marriage. This is normal.
10, Yanze 525: Naked marriage is the simplest marriage story in this materialistic era.
1 1, Tian: If you have put on your shoes, there is no need to go barefoot again, but it is still meaningful to live barefoot.
A: Some people think that it is in China after all, and China itself is a conservative country. Naked marriage will still have some adverse effects.
B: Some people think that men should get married naked and women should not get married naked.
Why do all men get married naked? Although women's love for material is a biological instinct, it is a matter of course, but now many women love material far more than their boyfriends.
Why shouldn't women get married naked? It is also because women's love for material is a biological instinct. Many women may think: "If there is no good material foundation, after giving birth to children, they may lose at the starting line miserably.
12, there are also many people who think that naked marriage can't add too much burden to the elderly on both sides, and the future material enjoyment will be realized by young people. In many large and medium-sized cities in modern China, the husband's family is responsible for the down payment of house purchase, and the woman's family is responsible for the purchase of cars, household appliances and house decoration. Many couples get married naked because they don't want to add too much burden to their parents.
No house, no car, no diamond ring, no wedding dress, no deposit, no wedding, no honeymoon ... "Naked marriage"?