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Tengzhou wedding custom
For Tengzhou, it is very familiar and strange! Someone wants to say, isn't this contradictory? My answer is: not at all! Because Tengzhou is my husband's family, you are familiar with it; Strange, because I'm not familiar with the customs of Tengzhou at all! In particular, I don't know anything about the process and customs of Tengzhou wedding. That's because my husband is a soldier and time doesn't allow, so we held a wedding in the army station, that is, my mother's house, according to our custom in Tai 'an.

And this time I can witness Tengzhou's wedding with my own eyes. According to Tengzhou, I am the red media of the couple. The bride is from Tai 'an and the groom is from Tengzhou. This wedding was held in accordance with the out-and-out Tengzhou custom, which also made me sincerely sigh that marriage can still be like this!

? The day before the wedding, we arrived in Tengzhou from Tai 'an. On the main road of the couple's new home, pink arches and bouquets occupy both sides of the road, a western-style wedding! When I got home, I suddenly heard the noise of playing musical instruments (trumpet, suona, etc. , of course, some can't name it). Awesome! Combination of Chinese and western! ! It's past five o'clock when I get home. Let's eat! Boy, that hot meal was accompanied by singing and dancing outside, from gentle to intense, and it tasted delicious! Beautiful women who sing are versatile and can sing any song. Finally, they directly staged the hot scene of disco! Later, a man in costume came out with a mask on his face (let's call it a mask, it's a painted face anyway), and I wondered, after the modern version was finished, is it necessary to sing next? Finally, I realized that this is a big shot. It turns out that Sichuan Opera has changed its face, which is awesome. The key is to finally know that this is still a beautiful woman! This is the whole ancient and modern China and foreign countries!

? The next day, the wedding was more lively. It was almost twelve o'clock when I arrived in Tai 'an, but it was not nine o'clock when I saw the bride. What happened? It turns out that there are several married people in the village who need to seize the opportunity. I heard that there are still people who pay homage before dawn, which is really an eye-opener for me when I am still young! When the bride and groom enter the bridal chamber, they even burn paper (folded into gold ingot style), saying it is happy paper. Because of the dialect, they finally failed to understand what this word is, only knowing that it means good luck! I have long heard that Tengzhou needs to kowtow when getting married, but I have never seen it (although I am looking for Tengzhou's husband, of course, I have never experienced it myself), but this time it is true knowledge! Parents, parents-in-law, seven aunts and eight aunts, uncles and aunts went into battle together, and the bride and groom knelt down and kowtowed once. For example: kneel down to kowtow to my uncle first, then stand up and kneel down to kowtow to my aunt. If one of them is absent, my head will continue to kowtow, and it hurts to look at my knees! Of course, the head is not white, and you have to pay a red envelope for kowtowing! So feel for yourself, this head can still be knocked off. Of course, there are many red envelopes, ranging from hundreds to tens of thousands. After careful calculation, there are tens of thousands.

? I said to my husband, "We should go home for the wedding!" Husband: "Why?" "Make money by kowtowing!" "Why don't we make up again?" "Silly girl, can you make it up? Once in a lifetime! " Hehe, I think this idea is a bit ridiculous when I think about it myself.

As we were in a hurry to go back to Tai 'an and didn't know what to do later, we even prepared a delicate red leather bag for everyone. When I opened it, there was soap, a bottle of shampoo, two boxes of cigarettes and a red towel together. The curious baby asked again, "Husband, what's going on?" "I don't know." Well, asking is not asking! However, an elder in the car said, "That's what we did in Tai 'an fifty years ago! "Mama ah, emotional Tengzhou now decades behind Taian! Think about it again, is it because Tengzhou is too close to the hometown of Confucius and Mencius, so it retains a lot of etiquette? Right \ (o)/, it must be like this, not that Tengzhou is backward!

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